If You Find Out Your Husband Has A Kid

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Posted: 12 years ago
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What if I was in Khushi's place.
This question as budging me last night.
We are busy in discussing Arnav and his relationships,the kid and whether Arnav is the father or not.
But Khushi is the one person who will also be affected by it despite of not being involved in the matter.
We know Araav is not Arnav's son.
But Khushi does not.
Is it unnatural for a woman to get suspicious after seeing striking similarities between her husband's friend's kid and her husband?
Khushi knows the fact that Arnav was in relationships before.So is it wrong if she thinks Arnav has a kid?
And what would she do when she will get to know that her husband has a kid from his previous relationship?
What would you have done if you suddenly get to know that your husband has a kid from his past affair?
Would you feel cheated?Or would you accept the fact as it happened before he met you.
Even if you accept the fact will you be able to accept the kid?
Some people says that Khushi has been cheated and she should take a divorce.
What would you have done or what you feel Khushi should do?


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Ukp18 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Valid point.Very nice post.

Its a difficult question.Honestly I don't know what is the answer here.I am married and I know how it feels if I was in place of Khushi.I will be in a dilemma.Can't accept the kid for sure on one hand and can't leave my husband as I love him on the other hand.

I am excited to know what Khushi does after knowing the truth or even after that MU.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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how does this question even arise that Aarav could be Arnav's son ??!!?! I fail to understand why this is being made such a big issue...

For heaven's sake; with similarities like putting hair gel, wearing the same clothes, speaking the same way, can someone be someones child??? Oh-My-God...seriously guys... get a grip on reality!!!

this topic isn't even worth thinking; let alone discussing... and if the CV's do think on this line...

God save IPKKND!!!!

Peace
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's a big blow for me if I came to know that my husband(future) had a kid after my marriage, but I want to really to see Kushi. What she will do? Definitely she won't leave Arnav, can't tell buddy very interesting episodes r ahead
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ukp18

Valid point.Very nice post.

Its a difficult question.Honestly I don't know what is the answer here.I am married and I know how it feels if I was in place of Khushi.I will be in a dilemma.Can't accept the kid for sure on one hand and can't leave my husband as I love him on the other hand.

I am excited to know what Khushi does after knowing the truth or even after that MU.



Such a tough situation for a woman.
Neither can blame the husband nor can accept the kid.
I hope CVs handle this track with maturity.I want to see a matured Khsuhi.I hope she does not keep doing comedy.This is such a hard phase.I hope Cvs capture every emotion of both Arnav nd Khushi with utter care and delicacy.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: newbei

how does this question even arise that Aarav could be Arnav's son ??!!?! I fail to understand why this is being made such a big issue...


For heaven's sake; with similarities like putting hair gel, wearing the same clothes, speaking the same way, can someone be someones child??? Oh-My-God...seriously guys... get a grip on reality!!!

this topic isn't even worth thinking; let alone discussing... and if the CV's do think on this line...

God save IPKKND!!!!

Peace


We know Khushi is going to MU and track has already headed that way.Whether Aarav is Arnav's son or not-it has been debated several times and Mishti has confirmed about the track as well.
The question TM is asking is how do you feel if you were in Khushi's place?There is nothing wrong in that.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tricky question... It isn't cheating since Khushi was nowhere in the picture when he went out with Sheetal and Khushi must have known that Arnav was not a Virgin when he got married since he was a live in relationship when Khushi met him so it would be stupid on Khushi's behalf to assume that Arnav and Lavanya were in a platonic relationship.

Regarding the kid I agree it'll be big shock for anybody that one fine day u get to know that your hubby has a kid but here also Arnav didn't lie to her since he himself didn't know abt the existence the said kid... It's just unfortunate for Khushi to end up in this situation or for that matter for any other girl... I feel more angry at the other girl for not telling him abt his kid and feel sorry for the kid bcz it's pretty big for a little child to suddenly know such a huge truth of his life.

One more thing though if the cvs r gonna go with this track then they should now make Arnav confess in front of Khushi the nature of all his relationships and exactly how many did he have and to what extent bcz as a wife it's her right to know.

If it would have happened to me honestly I don't have any idea what my reaction would have been but one thing for sure us that I would have made sure that kid involved should get his rightful place in his Dad's life bcz it's not his fault whatever his parents did.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the fact ppl dont care about Khushi's aspect bites me alot

gosh when will the forum learn i dont understand !!

because im not in the category of marriage i cant say much now 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said! 👍🏼

We all have been panicking since the day Aarav and Sheetal entered in the show, but we never cared to even think that in this matter, Khushi will be really upset and hurt (though we know that Arnav is not Aarav's dad), but she'll be obviously think that, especially after seeing the similarities between her husband and a kid whose mom is another woman!😔

If I were in Khushi'a place, I also would have suspected in the same way, as it's an obvious thing to react in that way!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm a married woman...if i'm in khushi's shoe ...definitely it will hurt me...and for a hus like ASR..beyond hurt the truth is i love him and i know the extend that he loves me ...i surly stand by him and help him to take over the situation...never ever leave ... i know he can't live with out me ...i too can't live without him...also i know he is responsible and honest ...gradually but sure he take his son as his responsibility..but he can't happy with other woman ... so i accept his son..and be happy in our life...

i can accept in life but not in fiction ...for me i love ASR ..if khushi is special for ASR ...then ASR is so so special ...so possessive about ARshi ... having a kid from ASR is only Khushi's right ...no Arav or sheetal can come between them ...THATS IT...

may be mein pagal hu..but its a truth

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