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Posted: 12 years ago
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I never accept the kid and never leave my husband...I never let that other women near my husband...I will ask her to go to hell with that kid...OMG I am not Kushi...I cant sacrifice my family life for this matter...I have kids...It was that women's fault...Why didn't she inform about her pregnancy before too late...😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12
What would you do when you find out later on your husband was set up?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13
I think this is the problem. They are fictional characters, whatever happens with them is larger than life.

I will never look at Arnav and Khuhsi as real people with real feelings.

I know what i want to see or what i don't want to see. This opinion has nothing to do with how i will/will not react in real life.

Let's all take a step back and acknowledge that this is fiction and for entertainment.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14
Nice post!!!
I think the only thing married woman will never like to share is her hubby!!!if i were khushi i will NEVER accept aarav...n will feel cheated...even if khushi know arnav had live in relation with La...i m sure she never in wildest dream imagined something like this will come in her way...n i m even sure she didnt even know abt a relation named fling exist in world...for her ASR n L a were living together out of love...!!!!i want khushi to react like any other woman who in her shoes will do...i dnt want sacrifycing khushi...since NO WOMAN on earth will share hubby with some one...this all illegitimate things done wonders to me...i m least interested in ipk n forum now...i think finally i m moving on frm ipk obsession...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: farheen75

Tricky question... It isn't cheating since Khushi was nowhere in the picture when he went out with Sheetal and Khushi must have known that Arnav was not a Virgin when he got married since he was a live in relationship when Khushi met him so it would be stupid on Khushi's behalf to assume that Arnav and Lavanya were in a platonic relationship.

Regarding the kid I agree it'll be big shock for anybody that one fine day u get to know that your hubby has a kid but here also Arnav didn't lie to her since he himself didn't know abt the existence the said kid... It's just unfortunate for Khushi to end up in this situation or for that matter for any other girl... I feel more angry at the other girl for not telling him abt his kid and feel sorry for the kid bcz it's pretty big for a little child to suddenly know such a huge truth of his life.

One more thing though if the cvs r gonna go with this track then they should now make Arnav confess in front of Khushi the nature of all his relationships and exactly how many did he have and to what extent bcz as a wife it's her right to know.

If it would have happened to me honestly I don't have any idea what my reaction would have been but one thing for sure us that I would have made sure that kid involved should get his rightful place in his Dad's life bcz it's not his fault whatever his parents did.


The fact that he did not cheat is what makes the situation more tough.
If my husband cheated on me then I would have left him for sure.
But that was past fling.
Now Arnav loves Khushi only.
Can Khushi leave for a deed which he did even before he met her.
But is it that easy to accept a kid.
A kid will always remind you of your husband's affair.
It will not be possible for any one to see her husband's affair in form of a kid.
Again the kid is not responsible for the mess.
So he should not be deprived.
But what about Khushi's pain?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agred no woman can withstand if she hear her husband has a kid in first relation or even he had a physical relation with some other lady in his past ...
so if this happens then can kushi love her husband deeply...we cant watch rabbave with its
old sense and beauty...their chemistry will be destroyed completely...
pls cvs with such stupid tracks dont destroy their chemistry ...
i want arnav to be kushii's only...asr dont believed in love then how this will make sense tat hhe had a relation with sheetal in his past ...
i cant withstand such stupid tracks...😕
if this the track then serial will end and we cant see anymore rabbave's...
if arnav is a virgin before marriage and he tells tat to kushi then kushi's love willl increase
and also arnav's as well ...so we can see more rabbave's and we can enjoy the rabbave's with a pleasure tat arnav's ffirst and last lady with whom he had physicall relation is kushi...😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#17
it is a question very interresting.
I do not know why they say that Khushi was cheated
This is the past of Arnav can not blame for the past
Khushi does not feel that she was betrayed but she will feel it is his duty to let Arnav marry Sheetal for Arav.
if you want my answer, if i'm Khushi i dn't let my hunsband because i love him and this's his past .
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18
Exactly I don't want to see her nautanki. I want to see a mature Khushi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: INGCIV

it is a question very interresting.
I do not know why they say that Khushi was cheated
This is the past of Arnav can not blame for the past
Khushi does not feel that she was betrayed but she will feel it is his duty to let Arnav marry Sheetal for Arav.
if you want my answer, if i'm Khushi i dn't let my hunsband because i love him and this's his past .



I would like to see a normal human reaction from Khushi.
Why would she be the Mother India always?
Arnav does not love Sheetal.Why will Khsuhi leave him for Sheetal.
I wish we see the jealousy,the insecurity of Khushi rather than a sacrificial lamb.
I would not have plead my husband to marry the other lady for sure.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#20
Since I am unmarried it is quite easy for me to give an ideal advice, it's easy for anyone to do that. I can't say anything, that situation and the mindset at that time, all the circumstances everything would affect ones decision. I can't really say anything. It depends on how things unfold in front of Khushi and it depends on what story demands. Sometimes we do things we should not do. There are very rare times when we take an ideal decision because there is nothing called right or wrong. It depends on your perception, who you look at the situation. What is a problem for someone may be the solution for others. 😊

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