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ArnieBoyBarun

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

khushi is going to find out that Aarav is arnav's son and we know it is not true. How khushi is going to deal with it is the track. She will be devastated by this of course that is natural too. As far as I am concerned, I think we cannot empathize with khushi in this situation because in real life, there would not be next day for us, but here in the show things will be handled differently. I believe so and this my point of view only. It is shown to us that he is not arnav's son and we cannot wish to see khushi also to know this truth immediately, it will take time and we should wait for that. your points are right and your worries are also in the right place, but for the result will have to wait. I feel this track has a lot of potential, but how they are going to execute is a bit apprehensive for me.

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naina50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

I for one would definitely leave my man man since I don't think I have what it takes to raise a child sired by my husband before I came into his life, in addition to me not being aware of it when I married him (I am quite sure that he himself was unaware of it) ..I am not saying it will be a easy decision as the repercussions will not only impact me and my spouse but my children as well ...but I am very clear that I would rather be unhappy without him than be unhappy with him which I know will take a greater toll on my children, him and me (not necessarily in that order)..of course this purely my take on how I would react ..

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207shikha

@207shikha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

well it's complicated.!

lets see what will be her decision.

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Nishita Rao

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: LuvuKhushi

i agree evrything but not the last line...

i dnt want this to happen for khushi too... it may be reel but i cant see her in pain...
i dont want this to happen in anyone's life...for us and also for khushi...
I love this girl to the core and it will hurt me allot...She is my Angel..

I didn't say I would enjoy seeing her hurt.

It would hurt me to see her hurt too.. I cried while she was waiting for him in the mandap.

But I just like to see a character going through emotional conflicts. I want to know how a perfect girl like Khushi handles such issues. I would like the opportunity to debate over the choices our favorite characters make.

It is like, I don't want to see Aliens destroying earth in real life, but I want to see them in movies coz I want to see how people react to certain unpredictable/catastrophic events in their lives.

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rima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

i wud have accepted if he had confessed abt his relationship even if he did not know about the kid

otherwise it is bye bye

i wud feel betrayed

but if i love him a lot. which I do

and know that today it is only me he loves

I will forgive him anything

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603840

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

honestly. In khushi's position i'd..

i would be very hurt and upset at first, but being brought up as a muslim, i have always been taught that 'the world is of two days'. I'd have to accept the fact and continue to fulfil my duty as a wife, dil and probobly a step mum. For the sake of peace to keep the family together i wouldn't leave my husband. HOWEVER! I wouldn't tolorate the 'other woman' in our lives. i'd be civil, but thats it. I'd still have that right.

LOL getting serious here,lol😆

p.s remember thats just what I would do in my pov.

xxx

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Dhanu

@LuvuKhushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Nishitarao

I didn't say I would enjoy seeing her hurt.
It would hurt me to see her hurt too.. I cried while she was waiting for him in the mandap.
But I just like to see a character going through emotional conflicts. I want to know how a perfect girl like Khushi handles such issues. I would like the opportunity to debate over the choices our favorite characters make.
It is like, I don't want to see Aliens destroying earth in real life, but I want to see them in movies coz I want to see how people react to certain unpredictable/catastrophic events in their lives.

yes i didnt take it as you will enjoy... and as you say we can get to kw how a girl will react if it happens in reel...

but i badly dnt wanna see this for Khushi... she will definitely handle well but the pain she gets aftr knowing...

i cant imagine or bear... in reel also i dnt wanna see that in Khushi's life...

daily i have to cry with her... i will keep on worrying... no its very difficult for me to handle 😭 😭 😭

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Aisha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: tnusredey
Nice post, I hav been thinking about da same thing!
I wud say I vl feel shattered aftr knowing da truth. Yes, of cos dere vl b a lot of insecurity.
Yes accepting da kid & accepting da truth vl b difficult.
U know I m vry confused about dis.😕
Bt if he had a kid & dat 2 in da past, he didnt really cheat on me. So divorce vl b very harsh.

Yes divorce will be a harsh decision.
The past should not ruin the present and future.
But again the child will be a sign of the past.
And through the child the husband will be always attached to the other woman.
Thus there will be insecurities in the relationship which can give birth to trust issues.
So the husband-wife relationship will not be the same as before.It will be tough.
The kid is the main problem here though the kid has no fault.

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Aisha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

I would want him to be clear about his past relationships before marriage.If he hides anything from me then I will surely not accept it.
But he may not know about the kid.in this case I won't blame him.But since I never had any relations it will not be easy for me to accept.I will not leave him if I am sure that he loves and respects me and he is guilty of the past.
But I am not selfless like Khushi.I am not going to accept the kid in my home.The father may meet his kid outside but not in my hom.I will not allow that.You may call me selfish for that.