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pooja

@uppaas

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: momma1128

Wait I am confused.
She has changed because she didn't shove the bday down his throat but is sad because he wouldn't let her do it her way and that's how she has changed?

It was bad writing. She came across as a brat. All he wanted was the private celebration in their room. That is an acknowledgement the day is special to her. He didn't need her big dhamaka party.

He doesn't want Khushi to change but shouldn't she also not want the husband she loves to forcibly change. It should come dilse.

I want to add here ..make a simple breakfast, horrible lunch, tell no 1 to wish him, return the cake some1 sent him...then cry and make him feel guilty that he is a Pr*****

and then tell him she has changed a lot for him...make his changes look meaningless...

The cvs messed up ASR bday the same way they messed up Khushi bday when ASR stuffed the cake in her mouth..

I guess the cvs dont cherish their bdays...

Edited by uppaas - 12 years ago

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Chaituv

@Chaituv

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: momma1128

Wait I am confused.
She has changed because she didn't shove the bday down his throat but is sad because he wouldn't let her do it her way and that's how she has changed?

It was bad writing. She came across as a brat. All he wanted was the private celebration in their room. That is an acknowledgement the day is special to her. He didn't need her big dhamaka party.

He doesn't want Khushi to change but shouldn't she also not want the husband she loves to forcibly change. It should come dilse.

Did he say that he wants to have a private celecbration with her ? does she know that?
she only knows that he won't be haapy if anyone wishes him or celebrates his B'day.
Anji, Akash , Nani and even Arnav said the samething, then how come she became a brat here?
yeah Arnav doesn't want kushi to change because she is happy in her life , and he wants her happiness .
even kushi never forced him to change about anything, did she not say she doesn't want him to change for her?
If you are refering about today's B'day party,yes she wants him to change because she wants him being happy and celebrate the day with his loved ones , unlike all these years. and i don't find anything wrong in that.

Edited by Chaituv - 12 years ago

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SaraJL

@SaraJL

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: rima
well I will tell you her changes

she went for a date the way he wud want
she wore western clothes for him
she went to watch english movies for him
she bought a suit for him

most importanly there is very little about khushi which needed to change
she was never rude or arrogant or hurtful

so i don't see any comparison

Sorry to cut your post, but I have to reply.
Yes, she went on a date for him, but ruined it completely in Khushi's style. That doesn't count at all.
Yes, she wore it, but again it was of a Khushi style more than ASR's. Seriously, Didn't you see his reaction? Dresses she was wearing were horrible! one of them was not even western. Japanese one was the only good one.
Just by saying that they went to see is not enough! because ASR is showing that he changed.
Yes Suit, again that didn't go well. He didn't get the suit.

I respectfully disagree with your post.
So you are saying that Khushi should not change as ASR's wife???
She shouldn't learn to live in his society at all?
She should continue with her weird behaviour?

Yes, ASR was rude and all, but he changed, so can Khushi.

Edited by SaraJL - 12 years ago

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mpk2011

@mpk2011

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Khushi said today that she has changed herself a lot for Arnav. Really? Why don't I see it? Yes a little bit more matured compared to before, but still childish. Exactly how has she changed? Why do I see all the change from Arnav's side? Arnav -

- said his first sorry to her ( which is a good thing) ;
- bought bangles for her;
- became a waiter for her;
- celebrated her birthday for her ( though did a lame job as he didn't know how);
- bought a sari for her personally which she refused to accept;
- went through all the rituals of marriage for her;
- put mehendi on his hand for her;
- danced like salman for her;
- went to the mandir for her;
- let his past go for her; forgave Garima's for her;
- went to the salmon khan movie for her;
- today made jilebi for her;

The list goes on and on and on... (at least for me). Some of the changes I like, some not so much. For Khushi's side the only thing I see is consummation before remarriage. That's the only time I think she went against her belief and did something for him.

I really see very little change in Khushi. And, I really don't see how she changed herself for Arnav. What am I missing?

Well, I don't think that u r missing anything coz one can miss something only if it is there.
There had been no change from Khushi's side as far as I can see, it had alws been Arnav bending backwards and adjusting to her whims and fancies which borders from OTTs to outright irritating. Most of the times she appears to be a spoilt brat who whines, yells, throws fit and keeps her foot down so as to get the things done in her way. A lot many times her so called innocence comes out as her manipulative nature ! No grown up human being and I mean no body would behave the way she does unless or untill they have serious mental imbalance. Since she doesn't have a case history of that sort, it is pretty simple that she does it all intentionally.
So now if she claims to have changed for him it can only mean that she has become more OTT, more persuasive and more manipulative so as to get her way through him!!!

And even b4 we start on that she had married him in spite of him being rude to her at some point, then also the balance will be more tilted towards ASR, who let go of his dreadful past even after knowing Garima's involvement, who believed and accepted Khushi even after knowing about her engagement with Shyam, or her hiding of Shyam's truth, or her getting signature on forged documents by deception in the name of her trust on Shyam, and the list goes on and on and on!!

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Prasanna_dhanu

@Prasanna_dhanu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

My Two Cents:

1) Khushi ... remember Janmastami celebrations of the year before , she forces Arnav to be there for Aarati, she could have done the same for B'Day party too... she did not , be cause she said " Ham aapki koi bhi baat taal nahi sakte hain"...

Remember the most important incident of the Guest house the day before ... she did not disagree with the advance that her would be husband Mr. Arnav made because she cannot deny anything to him, though it was all meant in all positive light of love... but that was not original Khushi right ..remember the one from the dilapidated buildign that was falling ... the AR constructions... she was a fighter?

2)And... she left her Dabba business for Arnav, she her her tuitions...

3) Removed Salman poster, lights, windchime ,stars everything for him.. which she always liked though

4)And she never forced Arnav to come to Temples.. he volunteered... so it was Arnav's transformation for Khushi's love, no change that she forced on him.

5) Our ever so loud Khushi became sober for him, she does not try her tactics to trouble him any more... she has developed so much of maturity ... just for him..

6) She never disclosed the real reason for her forces marriage with Arnav to anyone... was that not a change for Arnav's sake

7) Khushi sold her Maa ke Kangan for Arnav and Lavanya...

Khushi has changed her original traits more than 200% to safe gaurd Arnav and his relation/reputation with is family... without considerign for a minute that he is same guy who defamed her in Lucknow and caused the ill fate that their family and Payal had to undergo..

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RICHA

@ar_sajan4evr

Stunner

Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: rima
well I will tell you her changes

she went for a date the way he wud want
she wore western clothes for him
she went to watch english movies for him
she bought a suit for him

most importanly there is very little about khushi which needed to change
she was never rude or arrogant or hurtful

so i don't see any comparison

BANG ON..👏
althgh i agree dat arnav underwent kinda cmplete change for her..bt d above points...esp d one in bold can never b denied...acc to me its a fact wch can nvr b chnged😊

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rima

@rima

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+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: prettypri

But that wasn't in the context of the birthday discussion right? She said since she has changed so much fr him he shoud have let her celebrate his bday the way she wanted...but he is the one who changed...for her..agree there was much more to chAnge in him but he did change..she herself said he has dne so much for her during the dAte..

I feel he has changed a lot in the way it matters to her and voluntarily...like during the rituals..she did not ask him still he changed due to her Lve..

she changed too

she did not celebrate because he does not like it

she did not force herself on him

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: momma1128

Wait I am confused.
She has changed because she didn't shove the bday down his throat but is sad because he wouldn't let her do it her way and that's how she has changed?

It was bad writing. She came across as a brat. All he wanted was the private celebration in their room. That is an acknowledgement the day is special to her. He didn't need her big dhamaka party.

He doesn't want Khushi to change but shouldn't she also not want the husband she loves to forcibly change. It should come dilse.

how much more dil se do you want

on her biirthday he forced her to do things his way

o his birthday she let it be his way and never forvced

what is bratish about it

he was the brat that day on her birthday

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Ukp18

@Ukp18

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: rima

well said

Agree

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samin6

@samin6

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

She has
-Learned to win a deal and do anything for that. You think old Khushi would have a deal with Shyam to win back ASR?
-She has learned to fight back for the marriage- remember she was always leaving ASR even without reason when she felt like it.
-Now she would trust Arnav even when everything is against him. In the past she would not trust him with anyone and did not tell him anything remember even about Shyam.
- Before she was not ready or even tried to fight for her love, now she does and it has a value to her. before she did not even say a word but cried when she saw Arnav with Lavanya.She knew then that ASR loved her and she him and stayed mum even to Arnav himself she said mujhe koi faraq nehi padta.
- She initiates their time together, before it was always Arnav.