Khushi has changed?

Khushi said today that she has changed herself a lot for Arnav. Really? Why don't I see it? Yes a little bit more matured compared to before, but still childish. Exactly how has she changed? Why do I see all the change from Arnav's side? Arnav -

- said his first sorry to her ( which is a good thing) ;

- bought bangles for her;

- became a waiter for her;

- celebrated her birthday for her ( though did a lame job as he didn't know how);

- bought a sari for her personally which she refused to accept;

- went through all the rituals of marriage for her;

- put mehendi on his hand for her;

- danced like salman for her;

- went to the mandir for her;

- let his past go for her; forgave Garima's for her;

- went to the salmon khan movie for her;

- today made jilebi for her;

The list goes on and on and on... (at least for me). Some of the changes I like, some not so much. For Khushi's side the only thing I see is consummation before remarriage. That's the only time I think she went against her belief and did something for him.

I really see very little change in Khushi. And, I really don't see how she changed herself for Arnav. What am I missing?

she went for a date the way he wud want

she wore western clothes for him

she went to watch english movies for him

she bought a suit for him

most importanly there is very little about khushi which needed to change

she was never rude or arrogant or hurtful

so i don't see any comparison

Love Khushi as she is..but didn't nderstand that dialogue..

haha, u r awesum rima!!😆

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I agree!!

y compare arnav wid khushi? dey bod r diff cases!

her trying to do what he wanted is a change.. the old khushi would have shoved the party she planned for him down his throat. khushi has always done what she wanted to do... bec if she thinks its the right things to do then her actions are justified. but this time i think even thought she thought celebrating the birthday was the right thing to do she tried it his way. but i think what she didnt get is aranv no longer minds her ott forceful ways.. rather he is used to it n expects it from her. the day before he went out of his way to stop all her planning.. so she took as he seriously does not want any celebration. n followed his wished even though that is not what she wanted .. she wanted this production for his birthday.

edit to add -

i think the dialogues khushi got today were bad. khushi would never want arnav to do as she wished. i get that she wants him to come out of his shell n want to celebrate his birthday ..but it didnt not come out right. n most of all she respects his POV .. look at the farmhouse. she would not want him to do what she wanted just for the sake of it.

the part where cv's really messed up is showing khushi going out of her way to make sure no one says happy birthday to arnav... sending his cake back.. then then she cancelled all the plans. khushi is not selfish like that. i was thinking she was planning a surprise party but she ended up doing nothing.. was she was just trying to teach him a lesson? that was so unlike khushi character.. cv's really messed up her character there. they tried to salvage it with those i changed for u dialogues .. it didnt work as well.

that said i did love todays episode

I found the bday very strange... I mean an important day if it was the old Khushi she wld have definately done something for Arnav , I found it soo strange that she listened to him so deligently that she forced the whole family not to wish him.when all her time with ASR all she has done is NOT LISTEN TO HIM...

I found it sooo strange ...why would the cvs do it?? Confused what Khushi is all about??????😕

But that wasn't in the context of the birthday discussion right? She said since she has changed so much fr him he shoud have let her celebrate his bday the way she wanted...but he is the one who changed...for her..agree there was much more to chAnge in him but he did change..she herself said he has dne so much for her during the dAte..

I feel he has changed a lot in the way it matters to her and voluntarily...like during the rituals..she did not ask him still he changed due to her Lve..