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geetmaanluv

@geetmaanluv

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: uppaas

I want to add here ..make a simple breakfast, horrible lunch, tell no 1 to wish him, return the cake some1 sent him...then cry and make him feel guilty that he is a Pr*****

and then tell him she has changed a lot for him...make his changes look meaningless...

The cvs messed up ASR bday the same way they messed up Khushi bday when ASR stuffed the cake in her mouth..

I guess the cvs dont cherish their bdays...

i have to agree.. the cv;s have messed up all celebrations for them. both the b'days were messed up. if they dont have the money to celebrate lead b'day's .. y show them. making them fight meaninglessly just so showing a party could be avoided is stupid.

Edited by geetmaanluv - 12 years ago

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pinky89

@pinky89

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: kushikumari

i think you mean it the other way...we don't expect the other person to change when we truly love them.

arnav loves her the way she is. kushi too had at one point said that she doesn't want to change him.
but now, she wants him to do everything her way. a simple thing like his birthday should not have been such a big issue. he doesn't like to celebrate could have been taken in the right spirit instead of telling everyone NOT to wish him. and then throwing it back in his face, like its the biggest sin on earth. 😡
i would have loved it if she had instead kissed, hugged and wished him. it would have been a beautiful day for both of them. and, he had to apologize for not wanting to celebrate! we don't want kushi to change, she can instead learn to accommodate and be respectful. oh i almost forgot, i also want her to be aware of him and want to spend time with him!

I didnt mean it in any other way am telling Arnav loves her the way she is ... Arnav changed a lot for khushi more than khushi ... He did everything for khushi today also he made jelabies for her ,he did all rituals for her only ,he stood for her everytime , he forgets his past only for khushi ...But this one is not wrong she wants to celebrate his Bday she has every rights to ask ... Even Arnav wants everyone to wish him ... He is also a man who wants to live like everyone ... Only khushi can bring Arnav from ASR mask he also wants to celebrate but nobody did that for him in his family ...

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Nishita Rao

@Nishitarao

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: prettypri
The point is why did she say that..she said she has changed so much for him and he didn't share a little bit f happiness with her...and that she expected too much from him..was a bit harsh considering she has not changed...

Love Khushi as she is..but didn't nderstand that dialogue..

I agree.. Even I was surprised to hear it coming from her..That dialog was so unlike Khushi.. She never ever expected ASR to change for her.. She was happy to see all the changes in him but she never expected that.. Remember what she said Buaji regarding raksha dhaga?

I am not saying she is wrong in saying the above dialog in red..but it is not like her...😕

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Diya Gupta

@DiyaDeep1125

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Why did Khushi bother even to get a suit for him. When she did not plan his birthday, she could have chucked that also.. Very disappointed today by her behaviour.

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@lexaxel

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

There was something strange abt the whole episode actually.

In the beginning of the episode when Khushi was mouthing those inane dialogues I got the eerie feeling the cv's were talking to us...u knw something on the lines of "There...so u got all the changes u asked for, shyam is exposed, Arnavji became Arnav, Phatti sadi story came out, Anjali is not rona-dhonaing anymore...so there, we gave exactly what u asked, but u r still not happy",

🤣🤣

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go2sleep83

@go2sleep83

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

I agree,there was no need for Khushi to say that to ASR, I also found it ;little bit harsh, he has CHANGED A LOT for her, she did it what he said by not celebrating, but she didn't do what he said to her 2-3 times in last 2-3 days, to spend time with him..how come she forgot that??? She could have said ok, it's your b'day, fine you don't want to celebrate, but we can go out for dinner alone or just spend some time him rather than running around and ignoring him...
But oh well..

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mayuri099

@mayuri099

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: pinky89
Becoz Arnav loves the way she is ... There is no need to change for that person when we truly love them ...

Arnav loves Khushi just the way she is. So, Khushi doesn't love Arnav just the way he is? Why is she trying to change him?

Edited by mayuri099 - 12 years ago

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Srilatha

@Srilathalolla

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: rima

i completely agree with ur POV

Thanks for agreeing

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

I agree Khushi didn't change for ASR..for 2 reasons..one being that she dint need to change unlike Arnav who had a lot of flaws in him that was not likeable to most of the people.. and secondly coz Arnav never wanted Khushi to change..why should she change?? she has her flaws like she's crazy and immature at times but those are things Arnav and anyone who knows Khushi has no problems with..What she needs to change though, is a bit of understanding that is there most of the times but gone sometimes..what I like most about Khushi is that she is not resentful and doesnt hold grudges at all ..Also she is quick to apologise if she knows its her fault.. However today, I was lil disappointed in her coz I expected her to understand Arnav a bit more on this birthday issue..especially after hearing her tell Anjali that Arnav has changed after marriage.. Maybe not a grand party but she could atleast wish him first thing in the morning..!! Specially when she herself expected that from him on her own birthday...when she knows that party, presents etc do not matter ..what matters is a heartfelt wish..! she forgot her own lesson today...I will not buy the story that she did what ASR wanted...no! being a wife she should know him better..Im sure she knew Arnav would not mind being wished by her...rather he would expect her to wish her..anyway it was a nice episode ..I enjoyed..:)

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incandescent

@incandescent

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Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: rima
well I will tell you her changes

she went for a date the way he wud want
she wore western clothes for him
she went to watch english movies for him
she bought a suit for him

most importanly there is very little about khushi which needed to change
she was never rude or arrogant or hurtful

so i don't see any comparison

I beg to differ with you here Rima.

There is very little about Khushi which needed to change and yet she said I have changed so much for you.

She gave a statement which doesn't apply on her.

Going out on a date is a part of being in relationship. In that same date he told her that he loves her the way she is and she doesn't have to change for him.

She only tried out a few western dresses for him. She doesn't wear them on a day to day basis so it's not a change.

Sometimes the guy selects the movie and sometimes the girl. ASR went to watch a Hindi movie for her too.

She bought a suit as a gift. Giving her husband a gift is not a change.

So technically these are not changes at all.

Edited by incandescent - 12 years ago