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HeadOverHeels

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Posted: 13 years ago

#231

Old enough, and witnessed enough to say no and mean it.

The idea of walking out with just the clothes on my back from any (negative) situation doesn't bother me, and I doubt it ever will.

Also from the school of thought that in some instances (such as the topic of this present discussion), never is the only way to go... anything besides that would be settling for less than what you're worth, regardless of what circumstance puts you in that position.

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CravingKhana

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Posted: 13 years ago

#232

Originally posted by: HeadOverHeels
Old enough, and witnessed enough to say no and mean it.

The idea of walking out with just the clothes on my back from any (negative) situation doesn't bother me, and I doubt it ever will.

Also from the school of thought that in some instances (such as the topic of this present discussion), never is the only way to go... anything besides that would be settling for less than what you're worth, regardless of what circumstance puts you in that position.

I would love to believe I am that ...and there is nothing in my present that makes me believe different but i i know i can never be sure...but if i pray thats my only prayer...Lord give me the strength to be have the strength to do what i know is right...

(and what i know is right does not neccessarily translate to what IS right and What IS right may not be right for all)

Hiya Anne...

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madmaxine

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Posted: 13 years ago

#233

Originally posted by: minimuffin86
OK so I'm pressed on time so instead of a character assessment I'm just going to pose a question instead:

Would you ever be with a man who had once threatened to rape you and then maligned your name and character on a public platform?

Nope. But then again, I wouldn't stick with a man who actually raped me every night and called it love either.

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CravingKhana

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Posted: 13 years ago

#234

Originally posted by: madmaxine

Nope. But then again, I wouldn't stick with a man who actually raped me every night and called it love either.

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abandoned

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Posted: 13 years ago

#235

My current position compels me to say a big fat NO. I give no respect to any man who can't respect me. However, I am sure that as we go through the years, there are certain factors that fog our thinking process. Life is not something that can be predicted and even the strongest women have to change and take the less trodden path. So I guess the final answer is it is purely circumstantial.

Edited by Aubade. - 13 years ago

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medha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#236

NEVER!!!

khushi is unnaturally forgiving or forgetful...whichever!i can never quite relate to her...how can someone not care for her dignity,self respect n forget the reason for her humiliation that easily?her character was put to question so much so that she had to leave her city...this is no joke!

forget marrying that person,i would never have looked at the face of the same person n work 4 him ever again...i would have pressed for justice n dragged him to court if need be!

its so unnatural for a PH whose owner is a woman to show khushi falling for the very same man who ruined her life!

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farheen75

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Posted: 13 years ago

#237

Originally posted by: medha16
NEVER!!!
khushi is unnaturally forgiving or forgetful...whichever!i can never quite relate to her...how can someone not care for her dignity,self respect n forget the reason for her humiliation that easily?her character was put to question so much so that she had to leave her city...this is no joke!
forget marrying that person,i would never have looked at the face of the same person n work 4 him ever again...i would have pressed for justice n dragged him to court if need be!
its so unnatural for a PH whose owner is a woman to show khushi falling for the very same man who ruined her life!

And to top it all off being treated worse than a stray by him and still went ahead and got married to him... He went after Shyam solely bcz of her sister's sake and never once stood up for her and nowadays what they r showing I am just speechless.

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689471

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Posted: 13 years ago

#238

Originally posted by: minimuffin86
OK so I'm pressed on time so instead of a character assessment I'm just going to pose a question instead:

Would you ever be with a man who had once threatened to rape you and then maligned your name and character on a public platform?

NO, NO, NO

When someone show you who they are, believe them the first time they do!!!