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😃Hi there Priya and my Crooner Lakdis!!Just spur of the moment posted a reply on our very own Indi52's post...fabulous write up,btw...about ASR...since I loved the fact that I was able to utilize my grey matter for a few minutes😆...and actually step out of my SKD with Arrrnavv saying OK YOU COME HERE NOW...I thought of sharing my views on our crazy perfect loving ARSHI...Read on and let me know what you think...
So true Indi!!👏thats why we love this show and this character Arnav Singh Raizada...he has a multitude of layers that we are unable to see through...whenever we see something new...we consider it a change,a evolution or turnaround of his character...I always believe he is just discovering himself as Khushi brings a ton of new experiences in his life!i don't think anyone has let him be himself but her actually...he has always put up a facade for others...I don't think she is trying to change him but trying to show him how he himself TRULY FEELS about things!He had buried himself so deep...that he would not have to react or interact with anything that gave him the remotest happiness...he tried to make sure his family and Di were happy but kept himself safe from exposure to hope,love and happiness for the fear of loss,rejection and disappointment.He safe guarded his interior with a tough and indifferent exterior.She has opened out his insides slowly and allowing him to breathe but his self protective,survival instinct stops him repeatedly...he is afraid is he lets life get too close to him that he will be destroyed and not able to retain his strength and control of himself or his surroundings!
Khushi has an opposite approach of survival and self preservation...she believes in letting life in and letting it take over her..she welcomes the interaction..her theory on life looks to be its to be enjoyed and there is good in the darkest circumstances...she believes that things will always get better by making efforts and that good will shine through...her self protection is by always making sure that everyone around her is always happy and it makes her happiest when people around her accept her,love her and appreciate her...she has dedicated herself to the happiness of others but in that ASR and her are similar...but she does something that is also similar to ASR...she hurts herself for the benefit of others and hides it just as ASR...but with her it is covered up by showing fake cheerfulness and OTT positivity...With ASR it's about,withdrawing with his hurt and pain...which he has only recently learnt to share with Khushi...this is why life is unable to permanently scar Khushi..at least till now...she has a way of moving onwards...many say does she not understand the gravity of what occured to her?Does she not feel the intense pain or hatred?My answer ...YES SHE DOES...SHE JUST DOES NOT LET IT KILL HER NEVER SAY DIE SPIRIT!!
Oh how I love both of them!!So different and yet so similar...they understand each other so well and yet not so well at times...and that makes our perfect couple beautifully imperfect...made for each other truly...
As ASR always asks..."Kya hai yeh ladki?Aur kiss mitti ki bani hai?"
As Khushi always asks,"Aap aise kyun ho?Yeh aise kyun hain?!"
😆See I told you!!Made for each other!Perfect!!
P.s..I wish I cud put in caps,gifs or siggies to make my writing more interesting but I guess this is all i have to offer...😃
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki
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