just a thought, wonder what you think. update pg27

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Posted: 12 years ago
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hi there, just sharing a thought.

ok, since i really wanted a fight and it happened. and i have to say, it was beautiful, natural, asr's every feeling i felt, it was a classic problem of many relationships. one doesn't feel "understood" by the person one loves the most. oh haven't i been that way 😆.

can we please have an episode on how much khushi wants arnav? wants as in wants, not understands his needs as a dibetic, or a boy hurt by the past, or as a bro or anything. wants as in khushi longs for him, to be with him, to touch him, to make him hers and be his. just as a girl who really loves a boy.

i am missing the beguiling mature writing of the early days of ipk, right up to feb. maybe it will return. when big things didn't have to happen yet we felt the earth move beneath our feet.

don't understand tracks, trp game, many technicalities, just know what feels right and draws me in. and what doesn't. too much happening on screen these days. a loss of subtlety. though every episode a few stunning and stirring moments from khushi and arnav. the rest of it doesn't somehow feel ipk.

there was june 2011 up to feb 2011. here's hoping.

would love to know your thoughts on this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Indi Di 🤗excellent thought put forth in an extremely balanced way!!!

I held back myself for 2 days from commenting on this track anywhere , I haven't commented in any thread believe me! This is the first time I am pouring out my thoughts on this track!

I am a person, who will tolerate any track or anything positively,,n just keep happy because IPK is important to us , so I thought I'd always try to see positive aspects in the show and not complain much, n priya's crooner always helped me in doing so!

but now I do have complains😳

1. My first complain here is NO MORNINGS?😲!!! really!!! The con scene at the farm house did not have any morning together, so I thought probably after marriage, but no, we had cameras,, I thought after cameras are gone, but no, then I thought after Shyam,, again NO/...now that many nights are passed already,,and i dont know if they are still carrying on Taek wondo or playing hide n seek in that closet,,,,,they hav missed an important aspect of showing a morning together of married couple both in each other's arms!!! and even if they show now,,its too late!!! MANY NIGHTS HAVE PASSED ALREADY!

2. I luved the scene where they decide to go for movie how Khushi made him agree for a movie that too Sallu's,,it was awesome but that lost the charm with the antics that came up in the theater...n she could have kissed the man there,, y a sibling kind of hug!!!

3. I would have loved the office,,,scene if clients were not there,,and I can just watch the Arnavji to Arnav scene many times, coz it was so cute but its essence was killed with what was shown before that!!🤢

with your post,,,yes even ,I want Khushi to do that, show her love,,,love is not all about caring, diabetes , meds and family,,!!! its about physical desires too,,,infact more do with those desires!!

CVs needs to pull up there socks, i really do not know whats this rush all about!


Edited by UltimateBarun - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Correct! Prorbably as the team members are changing there are changes in the presentations as well! New things can be accepted but let them be of the same quality!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Indi di, I'm waiting for that day!!☺️ ☺️

I love ur thoughts!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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i was talking to my sis in the morning only and she told me that a woman also desires to spend quality time with her husband specially in the early days of marriage. khushi has already spent 6 months in the house and is on good terms with her in-laws. now she should concentrate on building her relationship with arnav
she is mature enough to understand the demands of a man.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi Indi di😊

I had expected such scenes/tracks after the marriage was done. This was why i didnt completely enjoy yesterday's episode. There were very cute moments, i liked the scenes in the bedroom and the scene between the two in his cabin. But i was majorly disconnected with Khushi yesterday.how didnt she understand the reason for him being angry😲 "pehle batana chahiye tha" did not sit well with me. Hope they bring in the longing from her side as well. I understand she had the best intentions in her mind and wanted to please him later on. On second watch the comedy also grew on me. But i do want to see khushi also wanting to be him, missing him just like him. That is the reason why i fear her SP-fiaction. 😆 And yes i do miss their fights😆

Yes there was this subtlety in the writing last year which is the reason why i like many was drawn to IPK and it later on went on to become an addiction. They can still get that old charm back and use marriage as a trump card to show many aspects of the relation between a husband and a wife.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Di!

Wonderful post.
I nearly cheered when Arnav said to Khushi "I think you dont understand me." That one sentence Di, as you said, lay the foundation of the classic issue in any relationship and here it starts. Interestingly, it is mostly the girls who scream at the top of their voice and here our ASR is feeling he is not understood - in marriage & in love. Khushi literally did not understand what Arnav wanted but Arnav did not take much time to realize why Khushi came to office and did all that. Khushi Bitiya now has a long way to go .. 😉
Di, the way I look at it, the whole point here is to show how Khushi needs to grow up & get matured in this relationship. The man running away from love now is longing to spend some time with the woman who gave her lessons on the matter of heart, in literal sense. Do you see the fun here? 😃
Khushi is that girl who considered her longing as acidity .. and Arnav is the one who ran away from love knowing what it was doing to him. The nature of spark changes after marriage or even after the confession is done .. so I am not expecting to see the same spark that was there between these two before February. It was more about anxious anticipation & dhak-dhak then .. but now it should be more about balance & maturity in love & marriage. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: UltimateBarun

Indi Di 🤗excellent thought put forth in an extremely balanced way!!!


I held back myself for 2 days from commenting on this track anywhere , I haven't commented in any thread believe me! This is the first time I am pouring out my thoughts on this track!

I am a person, who will tolerate any track or anything positively,,n just keep happy because IPK is important to us , so I thought I'd always try to see positive aspects in the show and not complain much, n priya's crooner always helped me in doing so!

but now I do have complains😳

1. My first complain here is NO MORNINGS?😲!!! really!!! The con scene at the farm house did not have any morning together, so I thought probably after marriage, but no, we had cameras,, I thought after cameras are gone, but no, then I thought after Shyam,, again NO/...now that many nights are passed already,,and i dont know if they are still carrying on Taek wondo or playing hide n seek in that closet,,,,,they hav missed an important aspect of showing a morning together of married couple both in each other's arms!!! and even if they show now,,its too late!!! MANY NIGHTS HAVE PASSED ALREADY!

2. I luved the scene where they decide to go for movie how Khushi made him agree for a movie that too Sallu's,,it was awesome but that lost the charm with the antics that came up in the theater...n she could have kissed the man there,, y a sibling kind of hug!!!

3. I would have loved the office,,,scene if clients were not there,,and I can just watch the Arnavji to Arnav scene many times, coz it was so cute but its essence was killed with what was shown before that!!🤢

with your post,,,yes even ,I want Khushi to do that, show her love,,,love is not all about caring, diabetes , meds and family,,!!! its about physical desires too,,,infact more do with those desires!!

CVs needs to pull up there socks, i really do not know whats this rush all about!




SO well written my thoughts tooo
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: UltimateBarun

Indi Di 🤗excellent thought put forth in an extremely balanced way!!!


I held back myself for 2 days from commenting on this track anywhere , I haven't commented in any thread believe me! This is the first time I am pouring out my thoughts on this track!

I am a person, who will tolerate any track or anything positively,,n just keep happy because IPK is important to us , so I thought I'd always try to see positive aspects in the show and not complain much, n priya's crooner always helped me in doing so!

but now I do have complains😳

1. My first complain here is NO MORNINGS?😲!!! really!!! The con scene at the farm house did not have any morning together, so I thought probably after marriage, but no, we had cameras,, I thought after cameras are gone, but no, then I thought after Shyam,, again NO/...now that many nights are passed already,,and i dont know if they are still carrying on Taek wondo or playing hide n seek in that closet,,,,,they hav missed an important aspect of showing a morning together of married couple both in each other's arms!!! and even if they show now,,its too late!!! MANY NIGHTS HAVE PASSED ALREADY!

2. I luved the scene where they decide to go for movie how Khushi made him agree for a movie that too Sallu's,,it was awesome but that lost the charm with the antics that came up in the theater...n she could have kissed the man there,, y a sibling kind of hug!!!

3. I would have loved the office,,,scene if clients were not there,,and I can just watch the Arnavji to Arnav scene many times, coz it was so cute but its essence was killed with what was shown before that!!🤢

with your post,,,yes even ,I want Khushi to do that, show her love,,,love is not all about caring, diabetes , meds and family,,!!! its about physical desires too,,,infact more do with those desires!!

CVs needs to pull up there socks, i really do not know whats this rush all about!



hi zoha,

i agree with all those points. yes, why no mornings? for that matter, no nights? there's constant action, cameras, plans, villain vanquishing, making di feel better, while story is set aside. straight after the day they are remarried.

i too am struggling with my feelings and trying very hard to be happy with those few perfect moments in every episode. but we all know the writers can do much better. they are capable of magic.

and khushi didn't understand he wanted to be with her for a while? he who has done everything to show her how much he loves and wants her, how far he is willing to go for her, who has actually allowed his past not to spoil his future with her, his rose, whom he will not hurt for the thorns of yesteryears. she felt all his feelings the night she gave in to him at the farm house. suddenly now she doesn't get it.

you know, zoha, what really makes me sad is what the popular media believes a girl is allowed to and not allowed to want. it's just so wrong. if khushi wants arnav as desperately as he wants her, that's good and natural. that will bind them together, make her be a part of his life, care for his family, put his and even his fam's needs before hers when needed, not resent the thousand "adjustment" marriage and relationship demands. you know what i mean. khushi doesn't have to be without any desires, needs, wants of her own to be "good."

here's hoping still. and your vm's always keep my hopes strong. 🤗


Edited by indi52 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: adddhan

Correct! Prorbably as the team members are changing there are changes in the presentations as well! New things can be accepted but let them be of the same quality!


hi adddhan,

yes, that unique ipk quality, feels a bit compromised. the writers are really capable. hope the new choices don't lose the core. have to say both barun and sanaya are brilliant at keeping their characters strong, despite weird stuff. i feel sanaya is really being challenged. and barun is outstanding even when he is practically in the background as he was during the shyam drama.

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