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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Divya1503
Indi di, I'm waiting for that day!!☺️ ☺️

I love ur thoughts!!

hugs, divi,

hope it happens monday. 😃

a monkey to bless all our thoughts.

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ranjitha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Indi dii, there is a difference being 'a child at heart' and 'kiddish'. What she did in the last two episodes was nothing but a childish and an immature act. Your husband's family does matter, but shouldnt your husband also be your priority? No woman can be this insensitive to what her husband wants from her.. and no I am not taking about sex... all he wanted was to spend some time with her and nothing else. And Khushi should understand that she is Mrs Arnav Singh Raizada and she cannot behave like a gwaar, at least in his office.

Arnav has always said that he accepts her as she is, but he has always made an attempt to change himself to please her and make her happy. If he can do all that, then cant she act a little matured for his sake?

Even I want to keep the kid in me alive dii, but if I start behaving like this in front of my ASR, he will surely run away 😆

P.S. :I have read posts saying Khushi has always been good to Arnav, so cant he tolerate her antics. All I want to say is, just because Khushi has done something good in the past, she cannot be supported even when she is wrong and in the same way, just because Arnav has been wrong in the past, he need not be blamed for anything and everything that happens in the world

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: hiahmed
i was talking to my sis in the morning only and she told me that a woman also desires to spend quality time with her husband specially in the early days of marriage. khushi has already spent 6 months in the house and is on good terms with her in-laws. now she should concentrate on building her relationship with arnav
she is mature enough to understand the demands of a man.

hi hena,

your sister is so right. the early days are really important in any relationship. plus, not only does a man have desires, so do we. and no harm in feeling and acknowledging them. in fact, my feeling: it's an imperative. but khushi doesn't have to be me, maybe she hasn't given all this much thought. but not to feel a longing for him or sense his wanting to be with her, is not a strength. wish star plus would understand that. or whoever needs to get that.

khushi is lovely, she can show her desire in the most beautiful way. looking forward to that.

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Divya429

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Hi indi,

It's my thoughts too...

Continuity of such scenes r really missing now adays...

I was fine with yesterday's episode..

But wht happened after the office scene..

Did they go for the movie?

Wht did she wear?

So many unanswered questions...

I was shocked to see her in the kitchen next day morn preparing for Arnav's b.day...

Khushi also needs him...her needs were clearly shown in farmhouse scene..

Nowadays after marriage they r not at all interested in it...

A man who did all the rituals to be with his wife...just wants to hold her hand...it's unbelievable..😕

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: CrazySree
Hi Indi di😊

I had expected such scenes/tracks after the marriage was done. This was why i didnt completely enjoy yesterday's episode. There were very cute moments, i liked the scenes in the bedroom and the scene between the two in his cabin. But i was majorly disconnected with Khushi yesterday.how didnt she understand the reason for him being angry😲 "pehle batana chahiye tha" did not sit well with me. Hope they bring in the longing from her side as well. I understand she had the best intentions in her mind and wanted to please him later on. On second watch the comedy also grew on me. But i do want to see khushi also wanting to be him, missing him just like him. That is the reason why i fear her SP-fiaction. 😆 And yes i do miss their fights😆

Yes there was this subtlety in the writing last year which is the reason why i like many was drawn to IPK and it later on went on to become an addiction. They can still get that old charm back and use marriage as a trump card to show many aspects of the relation between a husband and a wife.

hi sree (may i call you that?)

thanks so much for your lovely comment. agree all the way. i wish star plus would understand that not every viewer is exactly at the same place in thinking or mindset. they offer several shows and different things in the serials appeal to its audience. the ipk audience is most likely made up of women (mainly women i presume) who have figured out that to want something for ones own self is not being "selfish." you can be generous, kind, loving toward others, know how to delay gratifications, love your and your partner's family deeply, and do the right thing even while acknowledging your own desires.

in fact, till you do that, according to me you can never really grow or become actually responsible or empathetic. if you can't love yourself, how will you love others.

no matter, still hoping, the talent of ipk's writers will overcome all in the end. much like khushi arnav's love.😆

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: dsnair
Hi indi,
It's my thoughts too...

Continuity of such scenes r really missing now adays...
I was fine with yesterday's episode..
But wht happened after the office scene..
Did they go for the movie?
Wht did she wear?
So many unanswered questions...

I was shocked to see her in the kitchen next day morn preparing for Arnav's b.day...

Khushi also needs him...her needs were clearly shown in farmhouse scene..
Nowadays after marriage they r not at all interested in it...
A man who did all the rituals to be with his wife...just wants to hold her hand...it's unbelievable..😕

thanks, dsnair

it is a bit "what the" isn't it? would have been lovely to see them together at the movies and her in her skirt, speaking english. 😆that was a cute thing she worked out. and the calling him arnav was so heart-racingly ipk.

but now birthday. hmm.

love the show, hope it's subtlety and charm returns.

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Flora3333

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Agree with you dear! 😊
I've the same thoughts! They are done with Shyam issues, cameras now... the romance should come back right? The ASR who couldn't resist Khushi now became cold? They're behaving like they've been married for 9/10 years now! 😲
NO nights and NO mornings are shown either!!
I hope CVs' brains start working again and we get back the passionate romance of farm house again! 😳

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Divya429

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: indi52

thanks, dsnair

it is a bit "what the" isn't it? would have been lovely to see them together at the movies and her in her skirt, speaking english. 😆that was a cute thing she worked out. and the calling him arnav was so heart-racingly ipk.

but now birthday. hmm.

love the show, hope it's subtlety and charm returns.

Yeah indi,

We saw Arnav's reaction towards bollywood movie...

I think we would have loved Khushi 's reaction for Hollywood...

Theses are small scenes ,if once missed cannot be shot again...

We r not demanding for intense romantic scenes

But these type of cute ones...can't they give it to us...

For me yesterday's episode showed the growth of their bond.

The moment Khushi realized that aranv wanted to spend time with her...she was ready to go for an eng movie,to wear western outfits...it shows how much she can change for him...thats love...

Arnav though he was upset due to the happenings in the office,when he realized that she did all these antics to pacify him...he melted ...appreciated the care and love that she has for him...

Such a lovely couple...

She's weird nd he loves her for all her weirdness'!!!!

Hope they will return will the charm next week...!

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ragvir.fan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

cvs always skipt imp scenes of arshi which we all want i dont understand why always they turn their scenes into comedy.comedy is ok but not always...

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indi52

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Omoraboti
Di!

Wonderful post.

I neerly cheered when Arnav said to Khushi "I think you dont understand me." That one sentence Di, as you said, lay the foundation of the classic issue in any relationship and here it starts. Interestingly, it is mostly the girls who scream at the top of their voice and here our ASR is feeling he is not understood - in marriage & in love. Khushi literally did not understand what Arnav wanted but Arnav did not take much time to realize why Khushi came to office and did all that. Khushi Bitiya now has a long way to go .. 😉

Di, the way I look at it, the whole point here is to show how Khushi needs to grow up & get matured in this relationship. The man running away from love now is longing to spend some time with the woman who gave her lessons on the matter of heart, in literal sense. Do you see the fun here? 😃

Khushi is that girl who considered her longing as acidity .. and Arnav is the one who ran away from love knowing what it was doing to him. The nature of spark changes after marriage or even after the confession is done .. so I am not expecting to see the same spark that was there between these two before post-February. It was more about anxious anticipation & dhak-dhak then .. but now it should be more about balance & maturity in love & marriage. 😊

omoraboti,

so good to see you. yes, usually it's me that's saying "you don't understand me." 😆

i really wanted a fight and was leaping with joy yesterday. oh the tug, pull, pin, rasp, heartbreaking "don't understand."

i don't mind khushi getting carried away and doing strange things, but how strange is the question, and how unaware of asr can she be, especially after the night at the farm house. plus, however child like and wanting good things for others before self, doesn't she herself have any longing for him?

i don't mean just the dhak dhak kind, i mean the one that makes you want to be with the man you love, just the two of you, no matter how many years pass.

ever since the remarriage, in fact from the very first night, it's cameras, plans, shyam drama, so much stuff. surely, a feeling that she wants two minutes of that "chhoti si duniya" she'd spoken of under the blanket, is normal?

she didn't understand even once that he wanted to be with her alone? she was very charming and delightful at manipulating him sweetly into sallu movie. something must have told her that he is going along for her sake. and even if not that, at least once during the show? when she saw him unhappy she thought it was because he didn't get his mathri.

something in all this feels unnatural. plus as i said, there's too much happening in ipk these days. the best months of ipk saw little big drama, yet our hearts wouldn't stop thudding.

think i'm not quite getting it? maybe not and you could be reading the structure right. 😆 loved your story, that felt like the old days.

Edited by indi52 - 12 years ago