What kind of a son is ASR?

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mayuri099

@mayuri099

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
I dont agree AT ALL! He put the blame where the blame is DUE!! Which is with his DAD! HE was the married man who ended up chaeting his wife and fooling another women! EVEN if Garima knew he was married, HE was the married man! He may have told her that he is not happy with his wife and wants to leave etc etc! Some women fall for those LIES!

It's just like SHYAM! First he lied to Khushi and the Gupta's and pretended to be single, THEN when he got caught he STILL didnt give up! He tried to show Khushi that Anjali was a bad wife and tried to play mind games! THEN when all that failed, he declared his love to her OPENLY! Therefore, there ARE men like that who dont care they are married and just want to trick other women into having relationships with them! EITHER by pretending NOT to be married in the first place, OR admitting their married and then pretending their wife is not good to them!! EITHER ways, the MAJOR share of the blame lays with such MEN!

Arnav cant punish KHUSHI, who has done NOTHING wrong because she is related to Garima! Just like Khushi wont reject Arnav for being the son of the man who TRICKED her aunt into a relationship and RUINED her reputation!

So dont agree at all! Arnav's mother DID NOT committ suicide because of GARIMA! She committed suicide because her husband of 20 years betrayed her in the worst possible way! Therefore why should Arnav BLAME Garima alone for it, and PUNISH Khushi?? HOW does that make him a GOOD SON??

He proved he was a good son by agonising over his decison and FINALLY he realized that he cannot punish Khushi for the faults of someone else!! That dosent make him a BAD son, it makes him a GOOD guy!

I am not saying him to punish Khushi at all! As far as Khushi is concerned he did the right thing. It's where Garima is concerned I think it was a bit weird that he forgot everything so quickly.

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Midnight

@Midnightsorrow

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

First of all his father was a married man Garima wasn't married then. IMO the one who is married should be blamed because he cheated two woman. I was happy with Arnav on Friday he put the blame on his dad saying he's the married one that cheated two woman.

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: mayuri099

I don't understand. What's the problem with discussion? Isn't this an open forum? Does all the posts have to be about Arshi's SR? If you don't like the post just don't open it. I have every right to put forth my opinion!

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Welcome to ipkknd forum...

If you don't want people to insult you...

If you don't want people to call you a basher...

If you don't want people to doubt your intentions,intelligence...

Then three simple rules are to be followed...

1.don't criticize ASR's actions...

2.don't criticize ASR's abusive ,Inhumane ways...

3.don't criticize ASR's words...

In short don't ever judge ASR...

Do you know why????

Because in some people's eyes ASR is god...

ASR can' t do an wrong...

ASR is above everyone else...

The reason...

Because ASR is "hawt"...😉

Edited by sonapari - 12 years ago

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Midnight

@Midnightsorrow

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: arnavandkhushi1
I think you need some proper rest.. Go get some sleep sweetie :)

First of all this is a discussion forum I think you should keep that to yourself. It's okay to disagree but do it in a proper & more polite way please!

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ShikhaKhushi

@ShikhaKhushi

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: mayuri099

My point is how did he realize that it was not Garima's fault? From knowing her as a person, as Khushi's mother he reached that conclusion? Just trying to understand. Because, even on Thursday's episode he seemed to be pretty upset about it, and on Friday he was suddenly okay.

Who said he's okay? If you look at him when he's talking to Garima, it's like he does really want to but he does it for the woman he loves! Arnav is trying to see Garima, not as the woman who 'broke' his parents' marriage [which is in fact more because of his dad] , but as the woman who raised Khushi, Khushi's mother! He forgave Garima for Khushi too, because he knows Khushi won't be happy if he and Garima share a tense relationship.

God there are so many reasons to justify this! I understand that this is an open discussion forum but you're not willing to understan too... Just try to put yourself in the shoes of each of these people:

1)Arnav

2)Garima

3)Khushi

then you think.

And just imagine;

If you were married to this guy you really love, like Khushi loves Arnav. And he loves you too, like Arnav loves Khushi. And then one day, you learn that your mother-in-law is responsible for your parents death like in Garima's case.

What would you do?

Leave your husband because of her and give yourself the greatest heartbreak ever just because your dad cheated on your mom AND on that woman???

Or make your husband chose between you and his mother, giving him a lifelong heart ache???

Just think about it, you really should think from all the POVs and all. Put yourself in those poeple's shoes.

One more thing, this is just a fictional drama! Don't let it affect your mind too much!

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Tanvi

@KulfiBai

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: mayuri099
What kind of a son is ASR? He knows Garima is the other woman for whom his mother committed suicide and he doesn't even care? He doesn't know that Garima didn't know his father was married, yet he forgives her so easily? All he cares about is Khushi. I don't think he really care about his mother that much. What kind of a son is he?

You know, when I was watching the episode, and after watching it, I had the same thoughts as you. One minute he's breaking park benches, agonizing over the situation, having emotional flashbacks, thinking about the aurat who ruined his life 14 years ago, and the next, he doesn't even LOOK at her with any emotion, like not even ANGER. He completely ignored Garima up until she apologized and he pretty much said 'no worries', in a calm, collected manner. What's up with that?! He forgave really quickly! But maybe he has matured SO MUCH as a character that this was what the CVs wanted him to do. I dunno...it kinda didn't look right when I watched it, but what can we do about it? 😛

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Your ss makes perfect sense. The problem is that's not how they showed it in the episode. They didn't show any kind of realization at all. The way they showed it was he saw Khushi and forgot everything. I thought when they showed 'don't blame the flower for the pain caused by the thorn', they sort of implied Garima was the thorn. Then what made him suddenly realize that Garima was not the thorn at all?!

You misunderstood, dear. The thorn was his dad. The roses were his mom and Khushi's mom.

His Mom had told him not to blame the roses, because of the thorn.

Arnav understood the root cause of their misery was his dad. it was his dad who had cheated his wife. Not the other woman. How can a stranger cheat your family? It is your own family member who can betray you.

What I mean is, even if Garima intentionally had an affair with Arnav's dad, it would still be Arnav's dad's fault. Garima vowed nothing to the malik family. It was Arnav's dad who cheated his loved ones.

But Khushi-Shyam- Di's story made Arnav realise it all. That he couldn't blame Garima. He knew Garima through Khushi. He knew in his heart that Garima was a good person. So, it was obvious that the dad had tricked both the woman just like Shyam did.

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sonapari

@sonapari

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: notorious

You know, when I was watching the episode, and after watching it, I had the same thoughts as you. One minute he's breaking park benches, agonizing over the situation, having emotional flashbacks, thinking about the aurat who ruined his life 14 years ago, and the next, he doesn't even LOOK at her with any emotion, like not even ANGER. He completely ignored Garima up until she apologized and he pretty much said 'no worries', in a calm, collected manner. What's up with that?! He forgave really quickly! But maybe he has matured SO MUCH as a character that this was what the CVs wanted him to do. I dunno...it kinda didn't look right when I watched it, but what can we do about it? 😛

May be cvs will show FB...

ASR remembers his dad's conversation with garima...

He overheard garima confronting his dad about being married...

He never remembered that face...but now he knows she was garima...😕

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Siri22

@Siri22

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Deval__02
Now what you want dear?

Well didn't you read the TM's post. She wanted to know how ASR can forget his mom's suicide so easily?

I agree with the TM.

For the past year we have seen the famous FB scene mom running,Anji crying and the reason why ASR is ASR is because of his FB.

To me the whole FB was so thanda.

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Sunaina Mitra

@sunaina02

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

@TM - you are right in a way becuase by in our (Indian/south asian) culture we always tend to blame the female in extra-marital affairs and overlook the role of the man in it .

I am glad that the CVs showed it the other way here making ASR different . ASR has the courage to blame his father for the whole fiasco .

And he did so because from the experience Shyam-Khushi-di fiasco he had understood how easy it is for the concerned married man to deceive the innocent female who is otherwise called the 'dusri aurat'

Moreover , had he started ro blame Garima , Khushi would not have been so happy to marry him .

For him , His love for Khushi and to make her happy is more important than his tormented past .