What kind of a son is ASR?

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mayuri099

@mayuri099

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: a.t.sachaa-pyar
I think it's kind of the same way he forgave Khushi for the whole Shyam fiasco.
Arnav realizes that it wasn't Garima's fault. She didn't know that Arnav's father was married and/or had kids (just like Khushi didn't know that Shyam was married). Once again, he's not blaming the flower for the thorns doing. He places all the blame on his father for leading the two women on. I don't think he'll ever forgive his father for what happened to his mother.

My point is how did he realize that it was not Garima's fault? From knowing her as a person, as Khushi's mother he reached that conclusion? Just trying to understand. Because, even on Thursday's episode he seemed to be pretty upset about it, and on Friday he was suddenly okay.

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Afya

@Afya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

I wrote this in my SS . The way I understood it

It was a beautiful morning. They were finally married. Arnav knew he and Khushi belonged together but he also knew how important this wedding was to her. The wedding had not gone as he had planned. 'Dadi...' he thought in anger. Arnav was very hurt by what his Dadi had told him. ''How could Aunty? How could I do this to my mother?'' He had thought. He had cried like never before but it all came back to him when he drove to meet Khushi, his life. It was all familiar.

Khushi was Aunty (Garima). Shyam was his Dad. And Di was his mom. The story had repeated 14yrs later. How could he blame Garima? He had made the mistake of blaming Khushi for Shyam's fault. ''Not again.'' He had said to himself. Aunty (Garima) and Ma were both victims, he had realised. Just like Khushi and Di.

Hope that made sense!

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vini09

@vini09

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

As a mother I would want my child to live a happy life . Why live in the past? ASR has to move forward without the shadow of his parents hanging over him. Why doe he have to pay for his father's sin, besides HOW SELFISH can a mother be to kill herself on the happiest day of her daugher's life. we have to take care of the living because the dead are already gone.

"you cannot punish the rose because of the thorn"

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insanelycrazy

@insanelycrazy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

he DOES care about his mother. and he fully believes garima didn't know.

And love has made him a better person, somebody who's not bitter and has the capability of looking over the negativities in people, he's living life for himself now, so give the poor guy a breather.

Loving his wife doesn't mean he doesn't love his mother. He loves his mother, that's y he has the capability of loving khushi, cus he knows his mother would want this from him

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mayuri099

@mayuri099

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Afya
I wrote this in my SS . The way I understood it

It was a beautiful morning. They were finally married. Arnav knew he and Khushi belonged together but he also knew how important this wedding was to her. The wedding had not gone as he had planned. 'Dadi...' he thought in anger. Arnav was very hurt by what his Dadi had told him. ''How could Aunty? How could I do this to my mother?'' He had thought. He had cried like never before but it all came back to him when he drove to meet Khushi, his life. It was all familiar.
Khushi was Aunty (Garima). Shyam was his Dad. And Di was his mom. The story had repeated 14yrs later. How could he blame Garima? He had made the mistake of blaming Khushi for Shyam's fault. ''Not again.'' He had said to himself. Aunty (Garima) and Ma were both victims, he had realised. Just like Khushi and Di.

Hope that made sense!

Your ss makes perfect sense. The problem is that's not how they showed it in the episode. They didn't show any kind of realization at all. The way they showed it was he saw Khushi and forgot everything. I thought when they showed 'don't blame the flower for the pain caused by the thorn', they sort of implied Garima was the thorn. Then what made him suddenly realize that Garima was not the thorn at all?!

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mayuri099

@mayuri099

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: vini09
As a mother I would want my child to live a happy life . Why live in the past? ASR has to move forward without the shadow of his parents hanging over him. Why doe he have to pay for his father's sin, besides HOW SELFISH can a mother be to kill herself on the happiest day of her daugher's life. we have to take care of the living because the dead are already gone.
"you cannot punish the rose because of the thorn"

Again, Khushi is not the issue, Garima is.

But, I agree. To me both his father and mother seem very irresponsible to take their lives like this, instead of thinking of their children. You can definitely argue that.

Edited by mayuri099 - 12 years ago

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Vaishu

@arnavandkhushi1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

I think you need some proper rest.. Go get some sleep sweetie :)

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

I dont agree AT ALL! He put the blame where the blame is DUE!! Which is with his DAD! HE was the married man who ended up chaeting his wife and fooling another women! EVEN if Garima knew he was married, HE was the married man! He may have told her that he is not happy with his wife and wants to leave etc etc! Some women fall for those LIES!

It's just like SHYAM! First he lied to Khushi and the Gupta's and pretended to be single, THEN when he got caught he STILL didnt give up! He tried to show Khushi that Anjali was a bad wife and tried to play mind games! THEN when all that failed, he declared his love to her OPENLY! Therefore, there ARE men like that who dont care they are married and just want to trick other women into having relationships with them! EITHER by pretending NOT to be married in the first place, OR admitting their married and then pretending their wife is not good to them!! EITHER ways, the MAJOR share of the blame lays with such MEN!

Arnav cant punish KHUSHI, who has done NOTHING wrong because she is related to Garima! Just like Khushi wont reject Arnav for being the son of the man who TRICKED her aunt into a relationship and RUINED her reputation!

So dont agree at all! Arnav's mother DID NOT committ suicide because of GARIMA! She committed suicide because her husband of 20 years betrayed her in the worst possible way! Therefore why should Arnav BLAME Garima alone for it, and PUNISH Khushi?? HOW does that make him a GOOD SON??

He proved he was a good son by agonising over his decison and FINALLY he realized that he cannot punish Khushi for the faults of someone else!! That dosent make him a BAD son, it makes him a GOOD guy!

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mayuri099

@mayuri099

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: arnavandkhushi1
I think you need some proper rest.. Go get some sleep sweetie :)

I don't understand. What's the problem with discussion? Isn't this an open forum? Does all the posts have to be about Arshi's SR? If you don't like the post just don't open it. I have every right to put forth my opinion!

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ShikhaKhushi

@ShikhaKhushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: mayuri099

I am really glad that he came back for Khushi. Khushi is not to be blamed at all for all this. That was not my point. My point is how can he forgive Garima so easily?

Sorry, but the 'forgiving Garima' thing is irrelevant. It is NOT because of Garima that his mom died. His mother CHOSE to die. Yeah, I know! When you learn that your husband's cheating on you it actually hurts a lot. But Arnav's mother had to think of her children at least. She has two, one of which was getting married that day, for God's sake!

Suicide doesn't solve problems, it only aggravates the situation!

And as it has been shown, Garima DID NOT know Arnav's dad was married so where's her fault in that?

Plus, Arnav's right. You can spend your life thinking about the past. If you do that, you'll always lag behind which no one will want. You cannot spoil your present because of the past.

Another thing is, maybe Arnav would never have 'forgiven' Garima at all if it were not for Khushi. Remember the Shyaam episode? Well if you do, and If you think Arnav should not have forgiven Garima so easily, You also imply that Khushi's to be blamed for Shyaam getting attracted to her and all? Because Khushi didn't know Shyam was married to Anjali and agreed to get engaged with him?

Just think about it, and PLEASE if you still have any arguments, PM me...

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