How we should behave with spoiler givers - Page 9

Originally posted by: Afya

Fair enough, I am not in favour of people demanding facebook likes or even IF likes and comments. But some people like to be popular and I guess they do. Having read a fair share of posts in this forum, there are many who have made demands for likes and comments.Those who feel it's not right, just ignore it, Don't we? Why treat her any different? Why judge her?

See, my point is, It's completely upto her what she shares. I have no actual connections in the Tellyworld, but to just give an example, Let's assume I do. And If I come to know of some info on future track, It's up to me if I want to share it or not. Or about an actor's schedule in the show, as it is related to the show. I might decide to share nothing or somethings or everything. It's up to me. Just because she gives spoilers, she does not become a public figure and it does not give us the right to demand what we want to hear or don't want to hear.

I can accept your statement that she should be open to feedback but only if she was a public figure related to the show and was paricipating in this forum in that capacity.

I don't like Shyam. If some one makes a post on shyam, I have no right to tell them not to do so. I can simply decide not to read it. As simple as that.

Originally posted by: prettypri

oh come on now...how can you say that? I mean she may have news about Barun only or she may be his fan...where is the discrimination here...then do o mean to as if Barun lef the show you would watch t for Sanaya so as not to discriminate??

see the usage of the words n your post...if you feel she 'yaps' don't read her posts.

after every episode there are posts by ppl n Barun alone...wud yo call that discrimination and say they are yapping???

Originally posted by: Harshitha

What Mishti did is wrong first she asked for some 1000 likes on her FB page & i clearly remember ppl made posts on that too saying do it for Mishti & all & we will get 2 spoilers a day - what kind of deal is that???

I didnt like it at all but she still did not stop giving spoilers did she now ??

I had so much respect & adoration for Mishti she ruined it herself with all this.

Now this about Barun's leave?? What The ??

Even that Khushboo keeps yapping about Barun this & Barun that she has never opened her mouth about Sanaya till date why the discrimination. Personally i think her hints & "spoiler" both are completely fake - she has admitted in her own thread once the same.

I did not mention Khushboo in my list purposely because i dont count as spoilers its completely time pass what she is doing.

I do not like comparing Khushboo & Mishti but what Mishti did is just wrong & absurd there is a limit to Mis - understand people !! on this forum urgh !!

Originally posted by: kookie2020

Rimajee and Harshu,

Apparently we are bashers and her phangirls cried for her.

This is what I read in the new spoiler page.

She made a statement that she will leave IF and then next day she came back and said Many people cried for her.

Really?

Iss attention seeking ko kya naam doon?

I used to like her and respect a lot when she was humble and modest, before she started with her tantrums of wanting 1000 likes on facebook and god knows where else.

Why the hell should we all apologize?

We were watching IPK before she started giving her Spoliers an we will keep on watching IPK even if she quits IF and stops giving spoilers.

I have nothing against her spoilers but I cant kiss ass.

Sorry- Spoilers dena hai to do.

Originally posted by: rima

People who give spoilers do it out of goodwill.

I for one feel can never criticize them for not giving spoilers or not giving correct spoilers

They deserve our love and respect for giving us spoilers in time when there is panic and when we bady want to know what is going to happen.

They cannot be held accountable for being right or wrong because tracks change.

They do not deserve to be bashed for a particular spoiler not coming true.

In fact we should be thankful they do this much for us.

Having said that, I do not think people giving spoilers are God deserving undying devotion.

For example, when people start lecturing us like school kids about how to behave, what to say and the dos and don'ts, just because they give spoilers, they deserve to be told that they cannot interfere in anyone's freedom.

When they start behaving like celebrities, wanting us to bow down to them, I do not feel like bowing down to them.

When they start giving news which can cause further issues, then I do not find use in such spoilers. Better to say things which are useful or not say them at all.

When they can't take criticism and start behaving like they have been wronged just because they have given spoilers, that does not reflect well on them, because we even criticize prime minister of the country. If they are wrong sometimes, they will be criticized.

Mind you I said criticms and not personally hurting them. Getting personal is a big no

When they get milage out of us like wanting things from us then they are simply using us

When they give spoilers which make people run behind them because it is not clear, it feels like a tease

So people who give spoilers are like any other IF member and should behave as such...and we should give them love and respect based on their behaviour and not just spoilers

So I for one do not buy this 'how can you do this to so and so' spoiler giver.

It is also time for them to ask whether they deserve our love and respect, because sometimes they do cross the lines.

PS: This is the direct result of some very weird posts and comments I read about spoilers and spoiler givers

Originally posted by: kookie2020

Same here Rimajee.

I dont take shit from any one.

No one bloody tells me to do this or that.

Be it my husband, my family or any one for that matter.

But Yes if it is my fault , then I will apologize and mend fences.

I don't understand how juvenile some people can be here that they are just making a mountain out of a mole.

Are spoilers really that necessary?

I enjoy the stuff more without any spoilers.

It keeps the curiosity quotient alive.

That is just my personal opinion .

Everyone is entitled to their own.

She can give all spoilers, I will watch IPK with/without them.

But this cheap publicity and kiss ass behavior is too much.