How we should behave with spoiler givers - Page 8

Originally posted by: rima

but she was bashed about the remarriage spoiler. she did not quit then

now she gave spoilers about barun's leave which annoyed people

she quit then

Originally posted by: rima

when a person gives a spoiler

they shud expect all kinds of reaction

for example i made the peition

some people thought it was jobless

but 1500 plus people supported me

i look at the up side of things

i don't care for the tons who did not support

i cared for the tons who did

the same mishti has got lots of likes and comments

she is nothing sort of a celebrity

so she shud be open to feedback and criticism if she gets it

that is part of the popularity

film stars are given high adulation

but when a film flops they are bashed

i wud say it is part of your public figure thing

in my posts tons of people bash me

do i quit?

no

because i have an urge to say what i want

and that applies to spoiler givers

Originally posted by: Afya

Your statements are contradictory here, Rima. In your main post , you have said they behave like celebrities and here you say, since she is popular, she should expect to be questioned/criticized like one. The point is that she is not a celebrity. Why expect her to behave like one? Why criticize her for the content of her posts? She is just another forum member. She is not even a public figure related to the show. Why should she expect criticism ? She might be popular due to the spoilers she gives, but that doesn't give anyone any right to tell her what she can share and what she can't. We can decide to read her posts or not, just like we decide on every other post in this forum.

Even in your petition thread, didn't you tell people who did not agree with you to stay out of that thread, which is perfectly fair. Which is what people should do with her too. Not read it if they don't like the content.

From what I have seen, She doesn't participate/post in the forum except for the spoilers. I doubt if she reads the comments on her spoilers. And even if she does, She is not obliged to reply. There were posts where people asked her why only info on Barun's leave and why not on others? I think it's completely upto her what she wants to share and if she wants to share. We can express our choice by reading her thread or not. When she doesn't reply, another member says, if she wanted to answer, she would have replied by now. It's almost as if we are demanding her to do things our way or not do it all which I think is wrong. She has not broken any forum rules.

And yes, you don't quit when you are bashed because you love the show and the forum. She is not you though. All of us are different. If she wants to quit, that's her choice but my point is we should not be telling or demanding what a member can or can't post in this forum as long as they don't break forum rules.

So, I am sorry but I don't agree with you entirely on this one.😊

Originally posted by: segad

Should they even be giving spoilers? Isn't it like leaking company secrets? Would you treat an employee who leaked information the same way as these spoiler givers would like to be treated?

Is it ethical on their part as employees to give spoilers?

Originally posted by: prettypri

My point is...ppl wanted Mishti to react also and reply to their posts askin wh she gave hat spoiler...s take her answer..if she says se is quitting bcos of that the why reac to that??thas her way of dealing with it...why say she has airs etc..come on ppl say he don want her spoilers and then accuse her of acting pricey when she says she won't give any more...make p your mind...right???

This reaction would have been ok when she said like me on my fb page or follow n twitter..not fr this particular spoiler..hats what I felt...

Why I emphasise this so much is I read the posts before Mishti replied.to them and some f them were provocative...and then when ppl said sorry again no one forced anyone...they felt like t...they said t..

And the same ppl who said she s acting pricey when she said she quit now say wh did she cme back??? again it's her wish right..just like u all say wha you want...she can also..

and the posts were n generic..they were specific to her spoilers...

Originally posted by: arshi21

She had said that Barun will leave? When did that happen? 😕

Originally posted by: rima

[to be quite honest i always liked mishti and her humility

i even made a thank you post for her

the time I lost it is when she asked 1000 likes from us on facebook

and then came back and complained we did not give it

what does this say?

it felt like using us

all the people thanked her for the spoilers

but requested her to not specify actor's schedule as it upsets them a lot

what is wrong in that?

she shud be open to feedback

anybody in this forum is not an exception to criticism

that is the cost of being in a public forum and being a semi celibrity if that word suits better