Originally posted by: incandescent
Thank you for this post Rima.
First all of us, none of us bashed her. She was regularly posting Barun's schedules and many of us were curious as to why she was doing it. Some of us asked her before and she didn't respond to it. In her yesterday's post, she posted about Barun's leave yet again and many more people got curious and requested her not to. She responded to it by saying if we have problems with the things she is posting she will not give any spoilers.
If you go through that thread, nobody bashed her and made it clear that we appreciate the fact that she gives spoilers but we feel that mentioning Barun's leave in every single post is not necessary and we even stated why we thought it was inappropriate.
It is not a spoiler/ relevant information.
It creates unnecessary panic in the forum. People start to worry that we will have a Barunless epi / week etc.
Disclosing personal information without permission is an invasion of privacy.
Disclosing an actor's whereabouts might lead to security problems.
If she is concerned that we will bash Barun when we see his BD, it's only fair that she has the same concern for Sanaya and other's too.
If we want to know about Barun's leave, it's obvious that we would want to know about Sanaya, Abhaas, Daljeet and the rest of the team too.
It's true that we wanted to know about his movie shoot. But there is a difference between a 45 day shoot and and 1-2 days leave.
But she misunderstood us and decided to quit. If this is bashing then all of us should quit because we say much more to other forum members every day and have frequent debates over the show.
Later the forum was flooded with posts that we are ungrateful, disrespectful towards our spoiler givers and should be begging her to come back because we can't survive without spoilers.
I truly appreciate all our spoiler providers for providing us with information, clearing rumors and all and I look forward to spoilers as well. But if people want to quit over such a small issues, then it is their decision. I made it clear why I don't think she should disclose schedules in every single post but I also told her I am thankful for her spoilers and had no intention of offending her. I don't think I have done anything wrong.