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Posted: 13 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: dkatmala

I don't run after these spoiler parties at any time. For me if they give spoiler or not give are the same. For me, each and every member of the forum is equal. Some ppl here surely deserve respect on the basis of their maturity, consistent attitude towards the show, etc. again, it does not mean others don't. I like the show. I am coming here just to enjoy and know and share more news abt the show (most of the time to know, because I don't have much to share).

a very good attitude😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: incandescent

Thank you for this post Rima.


First all of us, none of us bashed her. She was regularly posting Barun's schedules and many of us were curious as to why she was doing it. Some of us asked her before and she didn't respond to it. In her yesterday's post, she posted about Barun's leave yet again and many more people got curious and requested her not to. She responded to it by saying if we have problems with the things she is posting she will not give any spoilers.


If you go through that thread, nobody bashed her and made it clear that we appreciate the fact that she gives spoilers but we feel that mentioning Barun's leave in every single post is not necessary and we even stated why we thought it was inappropriate.


It is not a spoiler/ relevant information.

It creates unnecessary panic in the forum. People start to worry that we will have a Barunless epi / week etc.

Disclosing personal information without permission is an invasion of privacy.

Disclosing an actor's whereabouts might lead to security problems.

If she is concerned that we will bash Barun when we see his BD, it's only fair that she has the same concern for Sanaya and other's too.

If we want to know about Barun's leave, it's obvious that we would want to know about Sanaya, Abhaas, Daljeet and the rest of the team too.

It's true that we wanted to know about his movie shoot. But there is a difference between a 45 day shoot and and 1-2 days leave.


But she misunderstood us and decided to quit. If this is bashing then all of us should quit because we say much more to other forum members every day and have frequent debates over the show.


Later the forum was flooded with posts that we are ungrateful, disrespectful towards our spoiler givers and should be begging her to come back because we can't survive without spoilers.


I truly appreciate all our spoiler providers for providing us with information, clearing rumors and all and I look forward to spoilers as well. But if people want to quit over such a small issues, then it is their decision. I made it clear why I don't think she should disclose schedules in every single post but I also told her I am thankful for her spoilers and had no intention of offending her. I don't think I have done anything wrong.


fari i completely agree
actually i got irked by that leave thing too
it was not needed
so when people said it i do not know why she reacted so adversely
Edited by rima - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: prettypri

Nice post...but I have be point t make...spoi givers ar not God agreed bu they are normal members like us...how can ppl say don pos this or that...that's not excusable...bcos its a public forum...saying sort is not needed Bt unnecessarily creating post upn post mocking the person and provoking them to answe is also bad...sorry to go against the majority...


Rima. Lve your posts always...just wanted to give m opinion as well...no offence...

sorry
i had to make this post
because there are 20 sorry posts already
they are getting on my nerves
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Posted: 13 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: newyork2012

I agree completely...
I respect who gives nice photos and and news of coming track when we are literally tense...But for me he/she is also another forum member...And we are free to tell them also what we think about the post without personal bashing...And they should response back sportingly...

I ask forum members dont you get negative response or disagreement when you post something...This is a forum with different people with different opinion...Disagreement bound to happen...But apologies for disagreement is not at all countable...It is better to leave the forum if someone thinks so...

Now Rima forget about a spoiler giver even if a celebrity is here in the forum, he/she should be ready to get criticism...People who beleives that celebrities should be spared because they entertain us I want to tell them please come out of this idea...If they are working hard to entertain us (mind it they are not just entertaining us also they are earning money and huge fame from us) we are also providing them the fame and money which is huge...Ans we normal people also work hard like them to earn money...the worship mentality to the celebrities should stop...
Now if we should not worship a celebrity then why do we need to worship spoiler giver for wrong reason or say sorry???

yes mahua
be it
king
PM
celebrity
whoever
criticism and bashing is part of a public persona and it shud be taken in the stride
that is the sign of true peaceful forum life
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Posted: 13 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: innocentgreen

Good post Rima. i don't how how this thing has gone out of proportion. Not so long, mishti told she had to reconfirmed about RM cos she was not sure anymore, and formerly she stated that the RM was happening. I just tweeted her back that the fact u are unsure , confirm the news that the marriage won't be happening. really there were contradiction in her tweets. Like a true fan,i was disturbed but lol she tweeted back by asking me to unfollow her if i don't trust her. I was like what The heck,girl.Are u serious,i amicably requested her to justify her tweets but at the end she took it very badly. What can we expect from this kind of attitude, i was really pissed but in the end i had to apologise 4 no fault of mine. It is best to overlook things at times.

when they post a news
they take a risk
they need to live up to the risk
no use if they get offended
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Posted: 13 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: ASR4eva

I completely agree with you Rima!

We all respect the fact that these people take time out just to give us some news and that's really sweet of them but again. It's all their choice. They aren't responsible for what happens in the show and they're just messengers..that's all. We anyways won't blame them for it. The people responsible for it are blamed.
But again, just like you said, they're not God. Even God's criticised many times so this is no big issue.
If you want to give spoilers, all up to you. If you don't want to give also it's upto you. I don't care about that. I can still go about my daily work and watch the episodes without the spoilers but if you do give me them, then well and good. Most of us aren't bashing them for any reason and well, in this forum, bashing has become such a common word that now even if I say 'Hi' to someone they might complain of bashing. Yes, that's how it's become, in my opinion.
And again, if one gives meaningful spoilers then there's no point of criticising either. If you so don't want to be criticised about anything, then don't give. As simple as that. No one will say anything. Period.
And I've seen threads where even questioning out of mere curiosity has been termed as bashing. It's plain idiotic.
That's all I have to say.
Nice post Rima! 😊

can we have a ban on the word bashing , redemption and zabardast twist and spoilers swati?
it will solve all issues😊
by the way loved the underlied words
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Posted: 13 years ago
#67
My point is...ppl wanted Mishti to react also and reply to their posts askin wh she gave hat spoiler...s take her answer..if she says se is quitting bcos of that the why reac to that??thas her way of dealing with it...why say she has airs etc..come on ppl say he don want her spoilers and then accuse her of acting pricey when she says she won't give any more...make p your mind...right???
This reaction would have been ok when she said like me on my fb page or follow n twitter..not fr this particular spoiler..hats what I felt...
Why I emphasise this so much is I read the posts before Mishti replied.to them and some f them were provocative...and then when ppl said sorry again no one forced anyone...they felt like t...they said t..

And the same ppl who said she s acting pricey when she said she quit now say wh did she cme back??? again it's her wish right..just like u all say wha you want...she can also..

and the posts were n generic..they were specific to her spoilers...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: rima

They deserve our love and respect for giving us spoilers in time when there is panic and when we bady want to know what is going to happen.

When they start behaving like celebrities, wanting us to bow down to them, I do not feel like bowing down to them.



Agree with your post whole heartedly... especially the above 2 lines. I have noticed that such people have started out as very sweet and friendly... then slowly have started behaving like celebrities... with lot of airs. And I firmly believe this is the fault of the people who treat them like god. Any normal person will start feeling like god because of the way some people treat them!

One thing people should always remember is to never give spoilers so much importance. We all should have life outside of the forum and the show which should be able to fill our time until the next day's episode. It is better to utilize our time better by doing something more constructive in life and just wait for the next episode. At the end of the day, it is a daily soap and will have episodes everyday without fail. No need to spend time bashing people on the forum. I found it very immature of a certain spoiler person recently when he/she reacted very immaturely to certain valid comments.
Edited by polly2312 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#69
Should they even be giving spoilers? Isn't it like leaking company secrets? Would you treat an employee who leaked information the same way as these spoiler givers would like to be treated?

Is it ethical on their part as employees to give spoilers?
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Posted: 13 years ago
#70
I love your post..
because its sensible
because you spoke the truth
because you handled it so maturely :)
Hope our IF members gets as mature as you...

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