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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

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Posted: 13 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: debby_11
Originally posted by mishti_mkm

Hello frnds..

I m here coz many pple cried coz i left IF nd stopped gvg spoilers dan i realise y i wl punish my frnds who loves me, care abt me coz of few bashers, who is havng only habit of bashing all d tym.. They didnt forgv actors by bashng dan who m i.. I wl nvr evr make d bashers win.. I hv ful rite to post any spoilers nd i wl post it.. Nw bashers cnt stop me..

1st who cried???
2nd i didnt find any bashing...But you used the word bashers so many times 😳

I really liked your spoilers but i thought it was just a constructive criticism made by few members...they never bashed you

Bashing meaning-(wikipedia)
Bashing is a harsh, gratuitous, prejudicial attack on a person, group or subject.

^^

I left this comment on her thread...

That was a great work 👏 though i did not go through the thread reading her main post

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Alia

@.A.l.i.a.

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#122

Q: How to behave with the spoilers' giver ?!

A: We Should not say anything to them, not discuss them, and some time tolerate their rudeness silently
We should not request or ask them about anything ..
We should prevents some members from spamming their Inbox .. ( How ?! I don't know)
We should prevent some members or visitors from copying their spoiler.. ( How ? again I don't know)
They make All the members responsible for few few members actions., and we should act if we are really responsible , and we should apologize for things that we didn't do 🥱
We should post at least once a week a love post for them..
We should promise them to still love them and remember their favors for ever ,even if the show ends .. ( One of spoiler givers , said one time that she is thinking to not post spoiler , because people love her only because of her spoilers , and if the show end, no one will remember her😕 )

They will blackmail us , by saying they will not give us a spoilers any more , and we should fill the firm with apologies and begging posts to satisfy the self esteem and them they will re-think about their discussion ! ( it is just a test of our loyalty for them, and we should pass the test 😃)

* Not all the spoiler giver are the same , some of them are very humble and very respectable ..

Nice post rima

Edited by .A.l.i.a. - 13 years ago

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: rima

perspective issues

u are questioning my POV through out this thread

am i objecting?

no i am just respecting a different point of view

believe me u are nice

i have replied to ruder people for nothing

that takes patience

Not questioning yours. Offering mine, as I am of the opinion that this thread is open for discussion. 😛. If it was not, I wouldn't be here.

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molten_lava

@molten_lava

Inactive

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Posted: 13 years ago

#124

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj

Who gave rights to her to call peoples bashers

If I were you, I wouldn't be bothered about someone calling me a basher. It's not going to harm me in any way.

Rather if you don't react to it, I would have so much more respect for you people.

If you instigate someone, they are going to react. For example, it's the same like how you are reacting to me. If I hadn't responded to this post, would we have been talking to each other? No.

In the same way, if you don't respond to Mishti's spoilers, she won't come after you. Why isn't she calling me a basher? Simple! Because I didn't respond to her posts. It's as simple as that.

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#125

Originally posted by: molten_lava

If I were you, I wouldn't be bothered about someone calling me a basher. It's not going to harm me in any way.
Rather if you don't react to it, I would have so much more respect for you people.
If you instigate someone, they are going to react. For example, it's the same like how you are reacting to me. If I hadn't responded to this post, would we have been talking to each other? No.
In the same way, if you don't respond to Mishti's spoilers, she won't come after you. Why isn't she calling me a basher? Simple! Because I didn't respond to her posts. It's as simple as that.

I dont want any respect for me, But i want respect from the person to my friends co-members here whom she called bashers. If she can use the word basher then she should tolerate what peoples tell about her also

Edited by JohnySolomonRaj - 13 years ago

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#126

Originally posted by: rima
sorry to butt in
but in this forum everyone just says what they want

whether she takes it seriously or not is her choice too

and yes no one shud tell her what to reveal and what not to reveal

but they can always tell her they don't like something she just revealed right?

Quoting from those posts again:

exactly!! what we see on screen is all that matters.. I dont need spoilers on Barun's schedule ... else give it on every actor of IPK... we all know other actors had taken off in the last 2 weeks, why not mention about that?!?

i & few others asked the same thing in her previous spoiler thread but got no response to it either give everyone's leave schedule or dont give any

forum loved BD more than Barun and Sanaya Last week somebody mentioned about Sanaya's leave and immediately I could see a number of posts fearing about it But I really wanna know why this extra Barun prem, care to explain mkm (maan ki mishti)

so many are asking mishti has to respond now, every one likes all the actors what is with the titling here

She won't reply . if she had to then she would have done it long ago

Edited by Afya - 13 years ago

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molten_lava

@molten_lava

Inactive

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Posted: 13 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj

I dont want any respect for me, But i want respect from the person to my friends co-members here whom she called bashers. If she can use the word basher then she should tolerate what peoples tell about her also

Who started this whole thing? Your friends. They chose to respond to her posts and demand certain explanations. Acc. to Mishti, she was was unhappy about it. She is the one making the post and giving spoilers. So why should she tolerate your friends? And remember, it was not about one person demanding an explanation. The whole bunch joined in and she felt annoyed coz I'm assuming your friends have demanded the same explanation from a long time again and again.

Your friends started it first and she responded by calling you a basher. I'm not saying that your friends have no right to question her, but if they are going to instigate her, they should be ready to face her reaction to it.

And why should she respect you people? No one is obligated to respect anyone here especially if she doesn't like certain people who demand explanations from her.

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: molten_lava

Who started this whole thing? Your friends. They chose to respond to her posts and demand certain explanations. Acc. to Mishti, she was was unhappy about it. She is the one making the post and giving spoilers. So why should she tolerate your friends? And remember, it was not about one person demanding an explanation. The whole bunch joined in and she felt annoyed coz I'm assuming your friends have demanded the same explanation from a long time again and again.

Your friends started it first and she responded by calling you a basher. I'm not saying that your friends have no right to question her, but if they are going to instigate her, they should be ready to face her reaction to it.

And why should she respect you people? No one is obligated to respect anyone here especially if she doesn't like certain people who demand explanations from her.

none Bashed her, the only thing they asked her was please dont give personal news about BS or other actors and there leave as it will spoil the mood and according to me this qustion has to be asked and rthe peoples who asked that to her was right. She should have answered to that in a polite manner instead of telling " I am gonna quit due to some bashers". If demanding a answer is bashing then nothing can move forward in this world

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#129

Originally posted by: JohnySolomonRaj
If demanding a answer is bashing then nothing can move forward in this world

Demanding when we have no right over that person, and that too by forming a group, one after the other is called bullying or intimidating.

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DKS

@-DKS-

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#130

Originally posted by: molten_lava
Who started this whole thing? Your friends. They chose to respond to her posts and demand certain explanations. Acc. to Mishti, she was was unhappy about it. She is the one making the post and giving spoilers. So why should she tolerate your friends? And remember, it was not about one person demanding an explanation. The whole bunch joined in and she felt annoyed coz I'm assuming your friends have demanded the same explanation from a long time again and again.

Your friends started it first and she responded by calling you a basher. I'm not saying that your friends have no right to question her, but if they are going to instigate her, they should be ready to face her reaction to it.

And why should she respect you people? No one is obligated to respect anyone here especially if she doesn't like certain people who demand explanations from her.

@bold-Totally agree but no one has the right to disrespect...

Who the hell wants her to tolerate???...why the drama and attention seeking???...what for???

This is a discussion forum and no one is getting personal here...she is losing respect...bas