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@debby_11

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Posted: 13 years ago

#111

I never had problems with Mishti Spoilers..

But the way she reacted was not appropriate...

Few members just gave her a suggestion (or people can term it as constructive criticism)..She could have handled the matter more maturely but posting something I m quitting the forum is just not the right way..I thought she would understand the situation but she didn't ...

I really got disappointed the way she reacted...I really liked her spoilers..I even posted thank you for giving us the spoilers but when she used to right Follow me on blah blah blah or i want 1000 likes on my post it sounded like she is ordering us...

And those people who criticized her are now called the bashers...WOW...This is the maturity level of our IF members...

Edited by debby_11 - 13 years ago

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

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Posted: 13 years ago

#112

Whatever it is i would say she was wrong in asking people to apologize to her and call them bashers , and i dont live on her Spoilers 😊

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Afya

@Afya

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#113

Originally posted by: molten_lava

I understand what you are trying to say. Even I have felt so many times why is such sensitive information leaked out coz after that there would be hundreds of posts complaining about BDs. Trust me, even I felt the same when I read Mishti's spoiler. But can we really object her? it's her choice to give spoilers. We have no right to dictate what she is allowed or not allowed to reveal in her spoilers.

Thank you!😊 This is what i am trying hard to convey here too.

Edited by Afya - 13 years ago

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: Afya

It almost felt like bullying to me! You may not agree, but that was how I felt when I read those comments.

perspective issues

u are questioning my POV through out this thread

am i objecting?

no i am just respecting a different point of view

believe me u are nice

i have replied to ruder people for nothing

that takes patience

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#115

Originally posted by: debby_11
I never had problems with Mishti Spoilers..

But the way she reacted was not appropriate...

Few members just gave her a suggestion (or people can term it as constructive criticism)..She could have handled the matter more maturely but posting something I m quitting the forum is just not the right way..I thought she would understand the situation but she didn't ...

I really got disappointed the way she reacted...I really liked her spoilers..I even posted thank you for giving us the spoilers but when she used to right Follow me on blah blah blah or i want 1000 likes on my post it sounded like she is ordering us...

And those people who criticized her are now called the bashers...WOW...This is the maturity level of our IF members...

Hey friend leave it She has every rights to call us bashers after all she gives us spoilers

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#116

Originally posted by: Afya
Thank you!😊 This is what i am trying hard to convey here too.

Who gave rights to her to call peoples bashers

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rima

@rima

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#117

Originally posted by: Afya
I am not sure what begging post you are referring to. There was a petition thread and this was my post there:
Good post! She has given us genuine spoilers. Didn't seem to have an attitude. She should stay. Someone will have some problem with everyone. Can't take everything seriously.
Mishti, Do stay.

I wouldn't call that begging though.

again that is you

there were posts stayig 'please stay mishti' and all that

if someone makes it fine

but these posts say 'she left because f some people'

i wud say if you leave because of some people u are not strong enough

that way i shud have left long ago for some of my posts

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rima

@rima

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#118

Originally posted by: molten_lava

I understand what you are trying to say. Even I have felt so many times why is such sensitive information leaked out coz after that there would be hundreds of posts complaining about BDs. Trust me, even I felt the same when I read Mishti's spoiler. But can we really object her? it's her choice to give spoilers. We have no right to dictate what she is allowed or not allowed to reveal in her spoilers.

sorry to butt in

but in this forum everyone just says what they want

whether she takes it seriously or not is her choice too

and yes no one shud tell her what to reveal and what not to reveal

but they can always tell her they don't like something she just revealed right?

Edited by rima - 13 years ago

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rima

@rima

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#119

Originally posted by: debby_11
I never had problems with Mishti Spoilers..

But the way she reacted was not appropriate...

Few members just gave her a suggestion (or people can term it as constructive criticism)..She could have handled the matter more maturely but posting something I m quitting the forum is just not the right way..I thought she would understand the situation but she didn't ...

I really got disappointed the way she reacted...I really liked her spoilers..I even posted thank you for giving us the spoilers but when she used to right Follow me on blah blah blah or i want 1000 likes on my post it sounded like she is ordering us...

And those people who criticized her are now called the bashers...WOW...This is the maturity level of our IF members...

exactly

the 1000 likes is the time she lost a lot of our respect

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@debby_11

Inactive

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#120

Originally posted by mishti_mkm

Hello frnds..

I m here coz many pple cried coz i left IF nd stopped gvg spoilers dan i realise y i wl punish my frnds who loves me, care abt me coz of few bashers, who is havng only habit of bashing all d tym.. They didnt forgv actors by bashng dan who m i.. I wl nvr evr make d bashers win.. I hv ful rite to post any spoilers nd i wl post it.. Nw bashers cnt stop me..

1st who cried???

2nd i didnt find any bashing...But you used the word bashers so many times 😳

I really liked your spoilers but i thought it was just a constructive criticism made by few members...they never bashed you

Bashing meaning-(wikipedia)

Bashing is a harsh, gratuitous, prejudicial attack on a person, group or subject.

I left this comment on her thread...

Edited by debby_11 - 13 years ago