Koffee with Redux - Sept 21st' 12 !!

In Brahma Vaivarta Purana their vivah and union is described as

As They enjoyed amorous pastimes there was a beautiful sound from the tinkling of Radha's bracelets, anklets, and tinkling ornaments. In a secluded place Lord Krsna, the most learned scholar of the Kama-sastra, untied Radha's braids and removed Her ornaments and garments.

Then Radha untied Krsna's hair and removed His ornaments and garments. They were both expert in these pastimes. Neither was unhappy at this. Then Lord Krsna forcibly took a jewel mirror from Radha's hand. Radha responded by forcibly taking the flute from Krsna's hand.

Lord Krsna sweetly stole Radha's heart and mind, and Radha sweetly stole Lord Krsna's heart and mind. O great sage, when the amorous battle ended, smiling, crooked-eyed Radha lovingly returned the flute to Lord Krsna. Then Lord Krsna returned Her mirror, gave Her a splendid pastime-lotus, made Her braids again beautiful, and marked Her again with sindura tilaka.

Lag ja gale, ke phir yeh, hansi raat ho na ho

An innocent Khushi who has no clue about bachelor party, sends off Arnav with a smiley face only to be told by jiji (Payal) that there'll be other girls, drinking and partying. An upset Khushi decides to go behind Arnav.

At the farm house, Akash and NK are drunk and enjoying themselves with loud music. Asar of drinking, Akash is able to see clearly now without his glasses, wow, it's so amazing😉. Enter Khushi and Payal only to find bottles hi bottles lying around. A disgruntled Payal drags Akash away in a typical wifely fashion; loved their husband-wife talk and her, 'Ghar pe cheliye batatein hain aap ko'😆; now we know who's the boss. Khushi finds the whereabouts of Arnav from NK and seeing two silhouettes, assumes that Arnav is with another woman and rushes off in her typical fashion.

Khushi enters Arnav's room like a storm and is frenziedly searching for the mysterious woman who's not to be found. Arnav finally manages to stop her and finds out the reason for her sudden entry. He shows her the mannequin, the reason for her misunderstanding, and she realizes her mistake. Haven't we always seen how Khushi jumps before she thinks and today, she did the same. Not once did she stop to ask herself who's with Arnav and may be she's reading things erroneously. But the jealousy that overtakes a person and the possessiveness towards the beloved will make most of us behave just as she did. This momentary lapse in judgment will push people towards making hasty decisions; if only we'd give that one moment to think and calm down, situations will certainly be different, right?. One of the best parts in this relationship is the communication. There's no more hiding. Sure, there's jealousy and lack of trust is evident, but they talk to each other, let it all out, get some answers and realize their mistakes ... this only strengthens the foundations of their relationship. Two things I remembered are 1) if memory serves me right, this is the third time Khushi is jealous of the woman with Arnav, twice it was with Lavanya (during teej and also when Arnav hugs La, and then today, 2) When Arnav saw Khushi in Shyam's arms on the terrace, the same trust that he's talking about now, was missing then and there was no communication either, but, what can be expected from a budding relationship, right? See, how far their relationship has come now. Trust wise, there's a lot more they'll have to learn from each other, now and in future, this is especially in lieu of Dadi's wicked plans coming to forefront next week.

Hmmm, now that Arnav's bachelor party has gone bye bye, Khushi has to pay the price. Just love how Arnav never misses an opportunity to tease her. He lowers his head gently towards hers and just when she thinks he'll kiss her, he whispers her punishment; it's for her ears only😉. She's momentarily taken aback and refuses to do as he asked and then pushes him away. Can this woman ever refuse her Arnav ji? "Your wish is my command jahanpana".

Khushi turns herself into a dancer, dressed in a black saree, Arnav's favorite color, all set to entertain him. She performs the most sensual dance for him. Of course in her usual fashion she stumbles, entangles Arnav in her palloo, gets overly excited about dancing and does her usual dance steps, forgetting for a moment that it's supposed to be an inviting dance (just loved all these little touches). Arnav is really pleased and oh! what a treat it is for him ...he watches her, steadies her when she's about to fall, can't believe his eyes that she's doing all this for him and drinking it all up with a smile of happiness on his face. Isn't she 'unbelievable'? The dance ends and she opens her heart to tell him 'aap par sirf humara hak hain', no other woman's presence will be tolerated and she'll kill anyone who gets close to him. Very very interesting. What will Khushi do when she finds out that her own mother, Garima, was the 'other woman' in Arnav's dad's life? Will she understand her mother-in-law's reactions and how betrayed she must have felt that the person whom she loves dearly, her husband, broke her trust completely and gave himself to another woman? Will Khushi clear Garima's name and also help in healing the wounds that Aranv's mother's death left on his tender heart?

Arnav wants to show Khushi something and takes her to a different room (so, he was absolutely sure she'd come, is it?). He picks up the remote for a projector and makes her lie down on a bed on the floor offering his shoulder as a pillow; where Khushi is concerned, every single thing has to be prefect and he'll ensure her comfort, though she'll never demand it. The projector is switched on and they are transported to a different world, a place so far away, where the blue sky, the moon and the stars are shining and inviting them. Khushi is awed. How well Arnav knows what truly matters to her and it's not just 'her' any more, it's 'them'. What's more precious and treasurable than sharing that special world where their mothers live as shiny stars? This is something they'll certainly cherish and remember when they grow old. Khushi is overwhelmed and hugs Arnav. Her chirpy manner takes over the emotional moment that they shared, which brought a lump to their throats. She wonders what their mothers must be talking about, it's definitely about them and they must be very happy that their kids have found true love, such a simple thought, yet so true. They are so comfortable with each other ... they share everything including their dreams, fears, aspirations and every look, feel, touch is open for the other to see. They talk about their heart-to-heart (telepathic) conversation when they were separated and smile at how ajeeb (weird) they are.

The remote is turned off accidentally and when Khushi tries to find it, Arnav stops her from getting up. They are in a cocoon with love enveloping them like a warm blanket on a cold night and no disturbances please. The lovely and poignant moments he's sharing with her, her closeness, her beauty, her sensual dance, her giving nature, all are overpowering Arnav's senses and he's unable to keep even that little distance anymore; he tries to get closer to her and kisses her palms. She senses the change in him immediately and is unsure and afraid. Arnav understands and tires to reassure that he knows how she feels about doing things before marriage and apologizes. But, to his surprise, she tells him she trusts him and his love. Only she can complete him, without her, he always feels empty. He makes her promise that she'll never leave him, he cannot live without her. Arnav's words touch the core of her heart and Khushi cannot see his state of helplessness anymore and offers solace without any words. She gently kisses his cheeks leaving her mark upon him. Her innocent actions spur things on and Arnav takes them to the lover's paradise where none is allowed. Yeaahhh, the adhoora kiss is no longer that.

Next morning, we see Khushi at Gupta house, still in the sensual haze of her previous night's experience and whispers Arnav's name. She says a sincere prayer to Devi Maiyya asking for blessings as it's her marriage day and of course this really wakes her up and she shouts 'Aaj humari shaadi hain' as though shocked that the blessed day has arrived.

Hats off to Barun and Sanaya👏👏, every single shot shared by the two in today's episode is worth several watches (that's just IMO). The chemistry that we thought was missing is right back. I'm not sure if we can watch other intimate scenes without comparing to what we saw today. Be it the sensual dance, the star gazing, the intimate moments or the emotional moments, every single scene was aesthetically pleasing and the dialogs between the lovers were apt for every single situation.

LM ji is back and do we see a change or what.⭐️

To ponder:

Khushi saw two shadows and jumped to conclusions about another woman with Arnav, did something similar happen with ASR's dad?

Khushi's father's star went missing, so does it mean he's still alive?

Does the fish in the bowl mean something? I really don't know.

When Arnav removed Khushi's bangles I thought it meant she'll be a Raizada bahu, but what's the significance of that? Dadi will not accept her?

The sad rabba vey I thought was an indication that there'll be lots of dard coming up shortly. But, I'm still not sure about the CON.

Was Khushi dreaming the whole thing?

This Post is from Sheila : ENJOY!! 😃

Yes Yes after my "I'm never going to write rant yesterday" here I am eating my words... First because damn it I did not see that coming... and Secondly because apna Sandhu is taking manipulations lessons from a certain Anjali Jha... Sandhu aka Chalu Chappatti # 1 conned me into writing... So here I am back to the grind...

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Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. Aristotle

I cant say I expected this bcz not in my wildest dreams to I could see that, but when It happened I hv no regrets bcz in love there are no boundaries and once agn Khushi proved her generosity to love and to be in love she can do anything for her Loved ones, so how can she had denied her man, her soul mate,,,, she knew its jus matter of hrs for marriage yet she knew Arnav was may be once agn at his lowest ebb with doubt clouding him abt the loss of his loved ones, he needed solace, he needed assurance who else but Khushi,,,,

I am not very surprised with the gate crashing but rather expected it and the rest which happened post crash was But I enjoyed, Most ppl who knew & understood Arnav would have expected this but for me I wasn't sure about the Arnav being Alone in his bedroom sleeping types what I rather expected a full blown party A bachelors party indeed but Arnav not actively participating, he either avoiding it or may be there with some drink in some corner, missing Khushi

but I was pleasant surprised😲😲😲 at Khushi extreme display of jealousy bcz she generally holds herself in chck giving to her environment/upbringing and then he jokes about it bcz he somehow has understood her, her implicit trust in everyone, her naivety and then he whispers a demand to compensate,,,,, I so which he could hv told us what he wanted,,,,my heart beat up thinking kya kaha ,,, kya kaha n looking at Khushi extreme response i almost jumped from my seat I wana know

but then comes a sizzling Khushi ji doing " Laga namak ishq ka " whatever for me bcz for me besides the attire nothing was pleasant ,,, it was raunchy cheeky dance,,,, if khushi felt 😳😳😳somewhere, I felt it all the way, this is not so the style of Arnav 🤢

But the next part stole my breathe with its beauty, It was absolutely beautiful I have always wanted Arnav & Khushi to talk to each other express each other and share each other, let the other feel what you are feeling too, let it be a WE experience

and when he brings him in the room, she is a little unsure with the white mattress and everything, yet does follow his word to T, sit infact very comfy lies with him, and then he puts on one of most spectacular vision for her, she is awed by it and more over the thought behind the effort she asks him, how did you do it??

he responds i couldnt hv done it( meaning he had been planning abt this or thinking abt giving such a gift to her) and the natural moon and the problems and finally the way but she tells him , the happiness and how touched she is with him, he explains how it is for her bcz she will miss her parents, she will have this and they discuss about the people they cherish and she feels grateful about the love they share, its truth, the bond the pull which is beyond definition,,, its a bind which they feel their hearts understand, the force so strong that they have crossed all hurdles in their path to be with each other, and then he asks how are you so sure abt it and she responds Bcz I know each teardrop I shed hurts you 1000 times more, he says every time,,,, she tells him, I know it bcz when you weren't there( meaning I felt the same) ,,we always knew her tears bothered him but today he very openly acknowledged it to her and she says, u know once I felt your call & I sat b y poolside he says n we talked n she we are he says " weird" bcz what they feel is something you feel Once in ages, rare n precious and they know it the ordinary worldly mortal might not n never will be able to understand it, there bond is not bound by understanding and when in the pain the other will feel it

He accidentally switches off the lights and she is once agn scared unsure he holds her to him, securing her holding her cherishing her.

He is overwhelmed by her into it with him at each step and he moves to seal it with expression and when he sees her unsure he retreats back apologizing it

She tells him, I trust you, your love bcz she know he will hurt himself for his loved ones

he finally tells her how he feels with her, complete valued safe, bcz a boy at 14 had to overnight grow into a man and she still is scared somewhere down, and after meeting her he felt himself complete...awww

He then says promise you won't leave I will never be able to live with out... A man like Arnav has laid all his fears behind and presented himself naked emotionally to her,,,,, behind his hard exterior lies a vulnerable heart which is soaked in a ocean of hurt and for that he seeks assurance that she will be with him, he understands him, his hurt, his pain and his soul which is once agn scared, she turns & kisses him once to assure him, then agn n agn to firm it, and he gets carried away he is into her completely mind body & soul and she realizes she is into it mind n soul but her body isn't into it so the assurance isn't complete, she understands and gives herself into it, there is nothing more important than Arnav, she placed him above everything her self, her morality all fall less only Arnav matters his need his assurance matters,,, Arnav is overwhelmed he says " khushi main" n she replies "hum samajhate hain" for her only her surrender would have bought absolute faith n she gives herself to her faith in love,,,, incredible emotions, brilliant display of need n faith,,,, i was stunned with the brilliance once agn between them.

Isnt it a fact that there are no drawings & lines in love, how will one justify the right & wrong of love bcz when you love, you wana do the best for your partner, Arnav knew khushi cherished stars, for her they held her faith abt her parents n instead of getting stars he gets a galaxy that too like he always does for his loved ones, without asking just thinking about them he does it n he does for khushi too...

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Its the Brilliance of IPK which was glaring yesterday in terms of whole scene, dialogues, emotions, lights camera music and above all between Arnav & Khushi and the two ppl who live n breathe Arnav & Khushi, A loved each small expressions nuances caught in by both of them, Khushi hesitation, her haq, Arnav fingers moving on her form in comfort, in belief that finally she was there with him, by him , his closed fist when he points the galaxy, the fingers, the voice modulation from need to desire from pain to seeking all in all I can say what was wrong, It was PERFECCCTTT!!!!!!!