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Lot of posts I am reading sharing negative, only negative and xtreme negative opinions for Anjali. Why????? Her husband is an evil we all know this, arhi know this, nani and guptas know this but DID ANJALI KNOW????
Just empathize Anjali and think what will you do if you were in her place???? Lot of mothers including me feel that she should have taken care of child in womb and wouldn't have walked down in search of husband. Agreed as I said earlier. But WAS SHE KNOWING THAT HER CHILD IS IN DANGER?????
She was electrocuted by Shyam and fell down frm stairs. Being a mother I totally understand that its really heavy to walk in seventh month of pregnancy. And if the person has problem with one leg and is hurt in feet its impossible but she was still searching for husband UNKNOWN of the fact that all that what she is doing is the plan of evil to kill her child.
The character wants to be secured, under shadow and safety of someone. She loves everyone dearly who makes her feel secured be it her brother or husband. She has her own dreamworld where everything is choclate. She resists when any cruel reality hits her which happened when shyam was thrown out of RM. She tried to kill her baby for which many amongst u all feel that her karma comes back to her. Have u ever think in what circumstances she try to do it. A fatherless child in this world has a life of a hell and to stop her child to enter into this world of hell, what she decided is to abort. I can fully understand her perspective. It's better to kill the child rather than making his/her full life a hell. Won't u all do that if such circumstance arises in your life. GOD forbid but if it happens to me and I am vulnerable like Anjali I will do that.
Now the most bothering question for you all what will happen to khushi???? U all must be having brothers. Tell me what ur brother will in such a situation in life. He will take of u or will be enjoying his life with his GF, fiance or wife. What do u expect ur brother to do???? I would love khushi to stand up by Arnav in all thick and thins whether Arnav like it or not. If I were at Khushi's place I would have done that. If Khushi really loves and understand Arnav she will be by his side irrespective of how Arnav reacts. I have my miserable days of life when I used to scream at my brothers and shout at my parents. I didn't want them at all. But they loved me, understand me and stood by me no matter how harsh I was on them. And today I proudly accept if they were not there, my existence would have been questioned.
Arnav our trumph card shows two strong emotions at the same time. He is emotionally vulnerable but strong too to realise. He will be weak watching his di (every brother on earth will) but strong enough to heal. What he needs is a support - emotional support which khushi will provide whether he demands or not. Then there will be a day when he will worship his love lady. Love has many aspects, only physical touching and rabba ves doesn't complete. It's standing together in all humbs and bumps of the road called life and I think it's just the starting of it.
Regarding khushi as doormat, scapegoat, not getting due credits n blah blah blah I think its all done and its a fresh begining of a new phase of relationship and I am looking forward to see how it grows, matures and ruptures.
Just empathize Anjali and think what will you do if you were in her place???? Lot of mothers including me feel that she should have taken care of child in womb and wouldn't have walked down in search of husband. Agreed as I said earlier. But WAS SHE KNOWING THAT HER CHILD IS IN DANGER?????
She was electrocuted by Shyam and fell down frm stairs. Being a mother I totally understand that its really heavy to walk in seventh month of pregnancy. And if the person has problem with one leg and is hurt in feet its impossible but she was still searching for husband UNKNOWN of the fact that all that what she is doing is the plan of evil to kill her child.
The character wants to be secured, under shadow and safety of someone. She loves everyone dearly who makes her feel secured be it her brother or husband. She has her own dreamworld where everything is choclate. She resists when any cruel reality hits her which happened when shyam was thrown out of RM. She tried to kill her baby for which many amongst u all feel that her karma comes back to her. Have u ever think in what circumstances she try to do it. A fatherless child in this world has a life of a hell and to stop her child to enter into this world of hell, what she decided is to abort. I can fully understand her perspective. It's better to kill the child rather than making his/her full life a hell. Won't u all do that if such circumstance arises in your life. GOD forbid but if it happens to me and I am vulnerable like Anjali I will do that.
Now the most bothering question for you all what will happen to khushi???? U all must be having brothers. Tell me what ur brother will in such a situation in life. He will take of u or will be enjoying his life with his GF, fiance or wife. What do u expect ur brother to do???? I would love khushi to stand up by Arnav in all thick and thins whether Arnav like it or not. If I were at Khushi's place I would have done that. If Khushi really loves and understand Arnav she will be by his side irrespective of how Arnav reacts. I have my miserable days of life when I used to scream at my brothers and shout at my parents. I didn't want them at all. But they loved me, understand me and stood by me no matter how harsh I was on them. And today I proudly accept if they were not there, my existence would have been questioned.
Arnav our trumph card shows two strong emotions at the same time. He is emotionally vulnerable but strong too to realise. He will be weak watching his di (every brother on earth will) but strong enough to heal. What he needs is a support - emotional support which khushi will provide whether he demands or not. Then there will be a day when he will worship his love lady. Love has many aspects, only physical touching and rabba ves doesn't complete. It's standing together in all humbs and bumps of the road called life and I think it's just the starting of it.
Regarding khushi as doormat, scapegoat, not getting due credits n blah blah blah I think its all done and its a fresh begining of a new phase of relationship and I am looking forward to see how it grows, matures and ruptures.
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