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Sorry if I hurt u in any way.

I can understand for wat u said. It's hard to empathize Anjali if we are in our characters. I wanted to say try to empathize the person in the scenario being like her. She is protected, vulnerable and always guarded. For Shyam she is blind, why???? that is a mystery in the show yet. But shyam as shown pretends her as most caring and loving huaband. She just don't think byond shyam even if it means doing somethg which her bro will never allow. Sometimes u just want to be with a person no matter what. I think that's her case.

N if u can recall the scene there were no proofs against shyam, only words were there. She prefer to trust her hudband in lack of any proof.

Regarding life as hell thg , dat's wat she thinks. If u remember she said "koi nahi hoga, kuch theek nahi hoga, iska chale jana hi accha hai" smthg like this.

Originally posted by: lylow

uh...how to empathize with her...was she not the one who tried to kill her own baby with her own hands? was that not putting her baby in danger herself?and for what reason because she thought no one respects the baby's father..she was not thinking about the baby then..she was thinking about her ownself and her heartless husband.And please Anjali is the most spoilt person in RM...Arnav would have been a father for her baby.She did not try to kill the baby because she thought a fartherless child in the world has a life of hell..she has everyone's support..she has money, a loving family that would have made the baby never feel neglected..I myself am growing up without any contact or support from my father and the world is not hell to me! There are women in way worse conditions without husband, without money, without home, without family living in poverty with barely anything but they also don't try to kill their unborn children even though they know how much hardships the baby would face. No one has a right to decide who should live or not..except for god!

Who asked her to walk up the stairs alone.? why did she not take dadi with her? Why did she not call dadi when she first stepped on one glass shard? why did she put the next feet on that? Why could she not push away the mat with her foot? Why did she parade around the room without caring that she could fall in that state and harm her baby????did she think about the baby once?NO!

The baby did not deserve to die, Im sorry Anjali had to go through that...but it was her own blindness, stubbornness and inability to make any rational decision and inability to think that lead to this.
Just my view...no matter how much I try I cannot empathezie with her...karma is a bitch!

Originally posted by: AR_EternalLove

i agree with u...i hope khushi will be with arnav whatever the situation is..

he needs her ryt now

Right aru, he needs her and she will be his side, I am sure.

analysis is really good rashmi but i say this way they must show!! why to ruin NK n khushi's awesome dance .. actually editing was not good., they wanted to show what an evil father can do okay right but let the dance is finish . see all the actors n actresses work hard so why to waste there work!

Originally posted by: twix

analysis is really good rashmi but i say this way they must show!! why to ruin NK n khushi's awesome dance .. actually editing wasnotgood., they wanted to show what an evil father can do okay right but let the dance isfinish. see all the actors n actresses work hard so why to waste there work!

i m a die hard fan of ipk no matter what happen to ther serial i will watch n always be postive.. there are many fans who are like me.

Darling, understand, that's the best time to show this...why???? My reasons-

1. Every1 was busy in dance and nobody has attention on Anjali which is needed for the accident. Otherwise someone or the other would have helped her and baby would have survived. To move the story and for the perfection of scene Anjali's aloofness was necessary which can be done only while evry1 is concentrated on sm other thg.

Story has become vry intresting jaan and I really want to see the drama which awaits for us.

rashmi di i agree wid u completely!!!

You did not hurt me dear...if anyone is hurting me I would say its CV and Anjali's blindness...😳

Anyways, I really did try to empathize with her in the beginning...but uh...no luck.
To me she is selfish coward who does not have the guts to face the real life...she refuses to face the real life, she refuses to see the truth even when its right infront of her. In my view she failed everyone, herself, her brother and everyone who loves her. I just hate the way CV is potraying her character...a thirty something old women who cannot even make a decision for herself!
She believes her husband wholeheartedly and thinks her brother had a misunderstanding then why did she not go to live with her husband? Why did she not walk out with shyam if she loves him sooo much? That is what irks me the most! Her incapability to take control of her own life...she is treated like a princess what more can she want? she has love, money, family...what is missing?

Her double standards is what got her in this mess...she is not blind...she CHOOSES to be blind at INSTANCES...she is not naive just plain stupid at INSTANCES...its peoples choices that decide their life...her choices got her into this mess...

urgh...the more I think about Anjali, the more riled up I get...heheh😆
But nice to see ur view too...btw ur one nice person if u can empathize with her, but I am sadistic person so Anjie won't get any symapthy or pity from me😳

Originally posted by: rushshri

Sorry if I hurt u in any way.

I can understand for wat u said. It's hard to empathize Anjali if we are in our characters. I wanted to say try to empathize the person in the scenario being like her. She is protected, vulnerable and always guarded. For Shyam she is blind, why???? that is a mystery in the show yet. But shyam as shown pretends her as most caring and loving huaband. She just don't think byond shyam even if it means doing somethg which her bro will never allow. Sometimes u just want to be with a person no matter what. I think that's her case.

N if u can recall the scene there were no proofs against shyam, only words were there. She prefer to trust her hudband in lack of any proof.

Regarding life as hell thg , dat's wat she thinks. If u remember she said "koi nahi hoga, kuch theek nahi hoga, iska chale jana hi accha hai" smthg like this.

agree yaar, smtimes even I feel how can woman in 30's can be so dependent on others but wat to do her character is like that. My mom-in-law is like her but still better than her. 😆. If her character is doing like that I am not surprised. I won't say selfish yeah but blind, she wants everythg like she wants. Frankly she is over protected and over cared by every1 in family.

Originally posted by: lylow

You did not hurt me dear...if anyone is hurting me I would say its CV and Anjali's blindness...😳

Anyways, I really did try to empathize with her in the beginning...but uh...no luck.
To me she is selfish coward who does not have the guts to face the real life...she refuses to face the real life, she refuses to see the truth even when its right infront of her. In my view she failed everyone, herself, her brother and everyone who loves her. I just hate the way CV is potraying her character...a thirty something old women who cannot even make a decision for herself!
She believes her husband wholeheartedly and thinks her brother had a misunderstanding then why did she not go to live with her husband? Why did she not walk out with shyam if she loves him sooo much? That is what irks me the most! Her incapability to take control of her own life...she is treated like a princess what more can she want? she has love, money, family...what is missing?

Her double standards is what got her in this mess...she is not blind...she CHOOSES to be blind at INSTANCES...she is not naive just plain stupid at INSTANCES...its peoples choices that decide their life...her choices got her into this mess...

urgh...the more I think about Anjali, the more riled up I get...heheh😆
But nice to see ur view too...btw ur one nice person if u can empathize with her, but I am sadistic person so Anjie won't get any symapthy or pity from me😳

Originally posted by: rushshri

Lot of posts I am reading sharing negative, only negative and xtreme negative opinions for Anjali. Why????? Her husband is an evil we all know this, arhi know this, nani and guptas know this but DID ANJALI KNOW????

Just empathize Anjali and think what will you do if you were in her place???? Lot of mothers including me feel that she should have taken care of child in womb and wouldn't have walked down in search of husband. Agreed as I said earlier. But WAS SHE KNOWING THAT HER CHILD IS IN DANGER?????

She was electrocuted by Shyam and fell down frm stairs. Being a mother I totally understand that its really heavy to walk in seventh month of pregnancy. And if the person has problem with one leg and is hurt in feet its impossible but she was still searching for husband UNKNOWN of the fact that all that what she is doing is the plan of evil to kill her child.

The character wants to be secured, under shadow and safety of someone. She loves everyone dearly who makes her feel secured be it her brother or husband. She has her own dreamworld where everything is choclate. She resists when any cruel reality hits her which happened when shyam was thrown out of RM. She tried to kill her baby for which many amongst u all feel that her karma comes back to her. Have u ever think in what circumstances she try to do it. A fatherless child in this world has a life of a hell and to stop her child to enter into this world of hell, what she decided is to abort. I can fully understand her perspective. It's better to kill the child rather than making his/her full life a hell. Won't u all do that if such circumstance arises in your life. GOD forbid but if it happens to me and I am vulnerable like Anjali I will do that.

Now the most bothering question for you all what will happen to khushi???? U all must be having brothers. Tell me what ur brother will in such a situation in life. He will take of u or will be enjoying his life with his GF, fiance or wife. What do u expect ur brother to do???? I would love khushi to stand up by Arnav in all thick and thins whether Arnav like it or not. If I were at Khushi's place I would have done that. If Khushi really loves and understand Arnav she will be by his side irrespective of how Arnav reacts. I have my miserable days of life when I used to scream at my brothers and shout at my parents. I didn't want them at all. But they loved me, understand me and stood by me no matter how harsh I was on them. And today I proudly accept if they were not there, my existence would have been questioned.

Arnav our trumph card shows two strong emotions at the same time. He is emotionally vulnerable but strong too to realise. He will be weak watching his di (every brother on earth will) but strong enough to heal. What he needs is a support - emotional support which khushi will provide whether he demands or not. Then there will be a day when he will worship his love lady. Love has many aspects, only physical touching and rabba ves doesn't complete. It's standing together in all humbs and bumps of the road called life and I think it's just the starting of it.

Regarding khushi as doormat, scapegoat, not getting due credits n blah blah blah I think its all done and its a fresh begining of a new phase of relationship and I am looking forward to see how it grows, matures and ruptures.

Originally posted by: rhearuhi

Finally u have put my thoughts into words thanks ...this is what i have been trying to point out in many of my replies to some post but was not able to put it thru in the right words...am not too good with words...so thanks a lot someone thinks like I do...

Thnx yaar for positivity. Its feels.great to know few ppl think like me.

Hii :) beautifully wriiten and perfect analysis of the current situation frm phone so cant give my two cents lol but i agre with you 100% :) i fail to understand wwhy cant people empathize with Anjali!
Loved tht people like you exist in forum! Varna i thot they had vanished lol!