Originally posted by: Jhalak29
I love the way You are..
Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.
Bruce Lee
I wouldnt say it was a fantastic episode one which left asking for more, for me it was a episode which was beautifully thought and missed the hit by flick, bcz somehow it looked disjointed, unplanned and hastily put,,,
Anyways the whole time that I thought that it was khushi desire and acceptance to do sumthing for Arnav, and his too..
The episode started with Arnav & Anji and once agn a sister lying, A love which has gone poison, backstabbing you own kin, and no qualams abt it, if you think you really feel bile rising in you with the kind of game anji is playing but a sense of pity for this weak women who is hellbent on commiting a suicide which will result in a massacre of the relations
Arnav arrives at the resturant and hears Khushi's trinkling Payal, in a moment his face lits up looking towards her, A soft smile, his eyes drinking her in, it was done so beautifully,
Once agn a mistake by Khushi and Arnav takes it in stride, infact he wants to return but Khushi being Khushi how can she leave and uses her Lucknowi charm to secure the table, though watching this scene I hit my palm to head more than once, twice or thrice but coudnt stop thinking abt Khushi being khushi without offending anyone or forcing the power of money, by her wit and charm, with mannerism n cheeky words she won the table and the gentleman, the best part here was even before they got the table Arnav had a smile knowing that she had been succesful in getting what she wanted...
The chair pulling by Arnav, reminded me on once a gentleman always a gentleman but aping the same gesture by Khushi had me in splits, will she ever learn,,, but thats Khushi unadultered, pure
and then the whole ordering which turns to be flop show, and yet she desire to do something was no earnest and then the words too that I really wana do sumthing for you were the most genuine and sincere from here heart,,,, one could see her desire that she felt truly wanted and cherished by Arnav and that she wanted to return the favor that he matters to her was the highlight for whole date...
and each moment Arnav was silently a step behind, she wante to do something for him, he lets her at each fumble he calmly collected her, and then he silently silent stepped ahead ahead the spice to her food to make it acceptable to her palate, he understands her so deeply, and when he tells her abt the mismatched date and half hearted efforts which once agn make her speak whats in her heart, she wants to do this for him,
He has been the one who always done for everyone arnd him, but Khushi wants to do this for him, in her own independant way, she knows that they hv accepted each other and thats unconditional so in a way she is showing off to herself and the world that she can do something for her man, she is giddy with the joy for being with him, the acceptance he has gvn her has to be reciprocated wit equal fervor seems to be her motto,,,,
& once agn Arnav naughtily coaxes her to hv wine, though this is just something which she doesnt believe in yet to be apart of him, his world, she takes, albiet eyes tightly shut as if on a bitter medicine, to make it look real, she pretends drunk, & her bubble is broken by the waiter that indeed is a soft drink
& to this Arnav replied,,,
"I am following all traditions and rituals because I have nothing against them. I am doing that for you. We are doing all this restaurant, Italian food, wine for me. But these are very distant from your way of thinking."
I love you the way you are Khushi, tumhe badalane ki koi jarurat nahi hai,,,
I loved this whiole lines here, it shows the that how deeply he loves this women, he clearly states to her that he doesnt want her to change , with all warts and beauty, he has accepted her, if he has accepted her strengths, he has accepted her weakness too, isnt this beautiful...
We all want this in our relationshps the freedom to be"Me" the complete acceptance is one for the cherished attributes of love, where we retain the me in the we A recent study by yahoo highlights the fact that most successful marriages are those which let the partners hv the freedom to express themselves freely, to maintain the me in the we... Once in a life time we come across a rare soul who will let you be the stupid, the intelligent, the ugly the beautiful all in a moment,, in a breath, they will not judge you or pass yoy, they will absorb you, they will lets you hope paint the horizon or you and will fill you inarms when faced with failure, once in a life time will come a person for whom you matter more than the world the ways of the world,,,, just by a look they will feel you precious,,
He doesnt wana change her and he njois her like this the most, isnt that wonderful
and the whole champagne fiasco, but I njoied the bit that Arnav instantly gets up to apologise, A man who never apologised to acquiantances, tonite he is doing it to strangers & then the whole Khushi mimcking scene, where he knew how guilty will Khushi feels for the things not going the way she wanted and embrassing him, and the genuine smile he had when he could make her smile through the tears
This is slow mature love where the happiness & prefrence of your partner matter, A extra step to make him/her smile,
I wish CV's this whole brilliant idea which you had I love the way ur/ unconditional & complete acceptance could hv been executed more brilliantly & wisely and with proper buildup and epilogue to the the whole, may be a simple talk before the drop up
Yes Khushi was dressed in blck to impress Arnav, in Chic Black, yet the golden in there made it look gaudy, why coundt it hv been classy, A subtle gold...
Arnav looked a uncomfy, didnt BS get a chance to work on it
Last minute addition to the track, why cant it be properly planned especially when it can act a TRP card
Dedication to Arnav & Khushi Singh Raizada
I love you not only for who you are, but for what you are when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but what you are making of me. Roy Croft
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
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