ANJALI IS A SELFISH 'USER' & A MANIPULATOR!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: SheetalAnshul

Anjali is not acting dumb ya may be bit selfish. We should not forget that Arnav had not explained anything to Anajli that he has seen Shyam with Khushi on terace or he has confronted Shyam after that.. he gave this explaination to Nani but not Anjali. Khushi was not able to proof any of the allegations she and NK had put on Shyam. Arnav believed Khushi despite of the absence of all proofs because he loved her and he has alreafy wronged her once. But Anjali has no reason to believe the false allegations (allegations which have no proof) against her husband. We know the complete truth thus we know that Shyam is a creep, Arshi has suffered a lot due to him, he doesnt love Anjali or thier to be born baby. But Anjali is not aware of all this. She has always seen his good side.

Not to forget she has witnessed Khushi with Shyam many times -- feeding him the kheer, going out with him while saying she is going somewhere else and also mami has told her that she has heard Khushi saying Shyam to leave her.

If someone will come and tell me tomorrow that my husband is cheating me, i wont believe that person blindly. Even if that person is someone very dear to my heart. She is 7 months pregnant, love her husband very much and just want a happy future for her and her baby. Is that so much she is asking for.

She is lying to Arnav but then she believe that Arnav and Khushi have also lied to her about Buaji's health which is true they did lie. Reason we alll know, but Anjali is not aware of why Khushi left the house and why Arnav went behind her. She know nothing about 6 months contract marraigae.

For me there is nothing wrong if she is trying to save her broken marriage. In my opinion Arnav was wrong when he outright distrust khushi after seeing her with Shyam on terrace without giving her any chance to explain. But Anjali here is giving he husband a chance to prroof himself innocent which in my opinion is not wrong. ya its her bad luck that her husband who she loved more that anyone else is a creep and not worth it.

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

SORRY! Re-posted by mistake! Read above post!!

Originally posted by: akanksha_a

Nice post...Have nothing more to add about Anjali...you said it all...I so agree with your point about Dadiji...since when is it traditional for a married daughter and her husband to live in her brother's house??? So only Arshi are bound by traditions not Shyam and Anjali...that is so not fair...And dont even get me started about the wedding...it is the one time when the focus should be on the betrothed couple and here we are having combined ceremonies...it is just not right.

Edited: Just came across SheetalAnshul's post in your thread and I have to say some of it makes sense. The whole Raizada clan treats Anjali as if she is made of glass. They havent explained anything or shown any proof of Shyam's guilt. So as a good and faithful wife she is still trusting her husband. But I would much rather have liked to see her stand up for her husband and question Arnav about his decisions. She could have walked out with him if she trusts him so much. Instead we see her sneaking around and lying to her whole family. There is simply no excuse for that.

Originally posted by: farheen75

I am totally with u on this one...she uses and abuses arnav as she pleased...the other day when he asked abt the credit card and the way she said" it's my card's statement and the answer she got was it will be paid" and who's using the card...her husband dearest for buying equipment to keep an eye on his brother in law and his wife...that is the height of shamelessness,on one hand she is sponging money off her brother herself and on the other hand making her husband do the same...no self respecting woman wants her husband to live off her family but anjilli has always taken the easy way.

She is deceiving her brother both financially and emotionally...I would say that she is more of her dad's daughter than arnav is his dad's son...she never once thought that what emotional damage her bro will suffer when he comes to know abt her betrayal? He worships her blindly and the eye opener will shock the living day lights out of him,it will take him back to every torturous moments that he has ever lived but she is so blind to all this that it's actually nauseating.

Come to think of it I don't hate Shyam that much bcz he is not a blood relation to arnav but I hate anjilli more bcz arnav has done so much for her...by marrying Khushi forcefully he ruined his only chance
of happiness just bcz of his undying loyalty to his sister.

For me anjilli is the epitome of selfishness and shrewdness...she is a master manipulator who exactly noes how to manipulates everybody in her family...on the Roka ceremony she forgot to eat her "mysterious pills"and the whole fame was sitting around like she had missed a chemo session...she is always controlling arnav emotionally classic example being the hospital scene where she was trying to blackmail arnav to change his stance abt Shyam by using her unborn baby,that was downright pathetic...she knows what button to push and when to push.