remarriage and its 'rightness'...note added pg 12 - Page 4

Originally posted by: hiahmed

i have gone through everyone's mail and here is my POV. i have watched all the Arshi scenes from the beginning and my opinion is based on my evaluation ARNAV SINGH RAIZADA - behind the gruff exterior exists a child of 14 who was forced to grow up in the wake of tragedy and was dead afraid of losing someone he loved, which is why he told hi Di that if he ever finds his soul mate, he will stay away from her, which is what he did when he met Khushi. Khushi affected him from the word go and he did everything she asked him to do however grudgingly. Arnav has always been afraid to express his love and therefore during the La episode, he tried everything to make Khushi say the magical words first. when he realised that he cannot continue with La, he again tried to stay away from Khushi but was unable to do so. Khushi boke through all his barriers and when he finally opened up to her, the MU started and he went back in his shell.

even then he was unable to push her out completely and he felt her pain at every moment but as he himself said that the terrace scene was engraved in his mind, he could never free himself

when he was kidnapped, the reason of his ILU was the fear that he will never be able to see his love again and he did not want to leave without letting her know.

eversince he has come back, the only person who has cared abt him is Khushi; even though he lashed out on her (even here i can see his POV), he never wanted her to leave. but again his innate fear took hold of him and instead of trying to stop her with his love, he tried other tactics (read contract, rent fiasco etc)

i think he would never have expressed his love to Khushi if DADI had not appeared in the scene. remember that Arnav is very possessive. even if he hurts Khushi he cannot allow anyone else to do so. the hurried up SR was just an attempt by Arnave to 'seal the deal' so that noone could separate him from his Khushi

it is only now in the face of adversity (read DADI) that he has realised how much Khushi means to him and that he cannot let her go. the unconditional love that Khushi has showered on him has broken through all the walls that he had created around his heart and teh 14 year old boy is out in open bc he knows that his Khushi will never hurt him

P.S: normally i dont get any replies on my posts. i would appreciate if i had some comments on this one

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I DID want an ARHI re-marriage since the scene at GH, when ASR hears Khushi tell her freinds what sort of wedding she always wanted to have!

I wanted him to make HER dream come true by marrying her in this way! I think in the ORIGINAL plan of IPK, that was how it was supposed to go! I think in that plan, Khushi was going to leave after the 6 months, and ASR is shut out by her totally!

HE trys to get her attention, and even harms himself in the process! I think finally she gives in, as she loves him too and cant watch him self destruct! THEN they would have had a re-marriage, as it would have come after a certain period of seperation!

THAT was what I was waiting for! They could have shown a "Courteship" phase for them like they are sort of doing now! THAT to me is the only real CHARM of the Re-marriage! The fact that Khushi and Arnav get to have that "Courtship" phase that all couples have before they get married! That phase is always such a beautiful one full of lifetime memories!

I was SO looking forward to the seperation track where Arnav would have been going crazy with guilt and trying to win Khushi back! Maybe Khushi would have re-entered the working world, and worked for a rival of ASR! This man could have fallen for Khushi and proposed to her, and ASR would have come to know and been jelouse! They could have done SO MUCH with those tracks! The TRP would have hit the ROOF like during the NK jelousey track!!

I STILL dont know why the CV's did this 360! I know the kidnapping was needed! BUT they could STILL have had Khushi leave after Arnav accuses her of being the problem and THEN they could have shown all of the above, until he wins her back and re-marries her!

Originally posted by: Roark

Like your post.

Infact even I was a little apprehensive about this whole remarrage issue. But guess its more for the TRPs. and by the way this TRPs and numbers I dont understand and cannot see how its so high for some shows.

That apart, I guess Arnav who did not want it initially agreed because of his over bearing dadi who was hell bent on calling hos beloved a s**t and insulting her family. Because even in the previous episodes he was never for the rasams or the remarraige, infact I guess they also want to show us that Arnav can do anything for his loved ones even if it is not what he wants or even believes in.

But what sanctity is left when they lived together in the same room for 6 months, are hugging each other at every opportunity, too many kisses and missed lip kiss, share the same bed and are jumping at every given opportunity to take care of each other and dont need words to tell each other about their love.

But we are not the CVs and not sure what they have planned with this entire sequences - hopefully not another MU, separation and another round of wooing and another marriage ceremony with all rituals. Thats will then sound the death knell of IPKKND for me.

Originally posted by: Divya1503

Indi di!!! fab post!!!!

N coming to the remarriage, I too wanted a quiet private one, just the two of them!! N to talk more on that I dont think I can do any justice coz I can't think beyond ASR/BS when it comes to the show!! U know na di how I am!!