Spice Girls Hangout:Reflection!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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It was like going back in time, that fateful night when they crossed each others path at the Sheesh mahal; that night Arnav was upset with Khushi assuming she was in the enemy camp and trying to ruin his show. An angry Arnav confronted her, tore the dori on her dress, mocked her when she said she was late for her sis's wedding. Her sister's wedding would break if she didn't reach on time. He said to her "tum jaise ladkiyon ka kya, yeh nahi tho koyi aur...Dahej ke paise kamaane aayi ho? "


Dadi's case is similar, she said essentially the same thing to Khushi....She was a gold digger, trapping Arnav to claim rights on GH...A girl who can stay with a man for 6 months essentially has no character. ASR said the same thing to her when he confronted her at the bridge; you don't have a character, he was accusing her of trapping his jijaji...Mistrust runs deep in the family; reflective of their past...





Dadi a mirror image of Arnav, either she is misinformed or like ASR misunderstood Khushi's role in ASR's life. Past is weighing heavily on dadi...Dadi seems to think ASR is repeating his father's mistakes and Khushi is essentially the woman with no morals. She wants to set things right. Like most women with old school thinking, she is blaming the woman for her son/grandsons fault. Tonight they tapped into Arnav's conscience...



Buaji was simply awesome; she fought a valiant battle without knowing what really transpired. She jumped to Khushi's defense and did not hesitate to call off the wedding...ASR was equally at fault she declared...Last time, she rebuked Khushi when Payal's wedding broke off but this time she knows the allegations on Khushi were unfounded.
She tells Garima and ASR too, she couldn't stand the accusations on her Sanka devi... 👏




Garima looked scared or there seemed to be a deep dislike for his dadi; this clearly indicates Garima favors the other woman. Remains to be seen if Garima was the other woman or someone she knows...This is intriguing, me liking this mysterious past...


The question tonight is, did this have to be so brutal for Khushi? Yes, it did...My reasoning to follow, take it with a grain of salt...I am not defending ASR's behavior here...I always wondered why doesn't he get it & that lead to what I think could be the issue...For ASR to realize what he has put this girl through; he needs to relive every agonizing moment with her. He hurt her when he hated her but now he loves her...Now he will hurt every time he sees her hurt...Those wanting redemption, be careful what you wish for coz this is redemption...



If her defense of the Laad Governor tonight is an indication she will not let him walk this path alone...She will be with him and hurting as much...That is the only way a dark guy like ASR gets it...She will not hear a word against him, woh dil ke acche hai...




Khushi has fallen in love with no ordinary hero, he is a tormented soul. A shaitan-rajkumar combo... He protects those he loves at all costs but the dark side of him makes the lives of those around him miserable. He dismisses society and its norms; he has carved his own destiny building a fence around him and the society. He does not believe in marriage coz he has been hurt one too many times by people who didn't stay true to their vows... Traditions don't mean a thing to him, true love does. Tonight he failed to understand what all the fuss was about. To him - he will marry her, end of story.





But once he saw Khushi with a bruise from the slap; he realized it isn't that simple. She is hurt and he is deeply shocked. A quiet moment, she clings on to him. Her only support...
He comforts her... He probably would have taken her out of there right that second, society be damned. But then he realizes she is bound by those very same traditions he hates...He gets upset with her but stops short, love for her takes over. This isn't the time, she needs him...He has accepted her for who she is... It is a big milestone for ASR as dark as he is...





Khushi assures him, she is ok! Garima isn't her biological mother but she took her in when she became an orphan. She is indebted to her mother who gave her a new lease on life, a secure home and a loving family... She has the right to slap her when she makes a mistake much like she is proud when she does something good...I loved this scene; gave another glimpse into who Khushi really is...Her smile can be misleading, she is just as damaged as he is...




I am constantly frustrated how much the PH has neglected this character but moments like these makes me want to root for her all over again...A reminder to the writers, Khushi is what makes ASR...The woman behind the man...


ASR takes control of the situation, loved the way he walks in and out of his wife's room. Nobody would dare stop him...
There is a sense of relief in Garima on hearing he wants to do the pheras... Was that a sense of relief for her daughter or was she relieved she was not reliving the past again?


Dadi-ASR scene was awesome...The 2 clearly disagree on the decisions they each made in the past...There is no love lost...He knows exactly what she is up to and he warns her; he will take the shagun. She can come if she wants to, he couldn't care less...






Another glimpse of Shyamu, he actually sneaks in this time...If he has cameras all over, why would he want to sneak in other than maybe to meet someone secretly...If only mami puts her brains to good use...😆

Reflection time...




It was a moment of deliberation, he has made her life miserable but yet she cared for him...A forced wedding that caused her so much embarrassment in front of both families, he threw her out of the house and shut the door on her face, forcing her to spend nights on end by the poolside while he slept in the confines of a heated room...
She pleaded to him to give her a chance to prove her innocence but he left so callously...




All she gave in return was her unconditional love...she cared for him when he was sick, put her life in danger to save him...He couldn't break her spirits then but today she was broken...She was hurt by the allegations from his dadi, the humiliation she faced from her mother...Yet all he could do was get angry...




If only he could turn back time and undo all the hurt...The moment he realized he was the cause of her grief, he couldn't wait for sunrise...There was great remorse, unrest...He wanted to be right there by her side right this very moment...He wanted to set it right...He will ask for forgiveness...





I wish they could dwell on this a little longer coz this was big...But like always we get aadhi-adhuri. I thought I would do justice to this scene in my own little way coz this is what I relived when I saw ASR by the pool tonight...Yes, I was reminded of Khushi's reflection...One of the most beautiful moments of the kidnapping track...I leave you with some of those lines...



Kuch rishte ajeeb hi dor mein bandhe hote hain
Takrar se shuru hote hain, nafrat ke saaye mein panapte hain

Girte hain, padte hain, par kaayam rahte hain
Nafrat badhti jaati hai aur rishte ki gaanth aur gehri hoti jaati hai

Itni ki ek din nafrat bhi aur badhne se sharma jati hai
Aur woh rishta sirf ek bandhan ban ke rah jaata hai


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I found this episode gripping yet heartbreaking at the same time, I just could not stand to see Khushi face more insults, pain but it wasn't all bad. There were some really good scenes in this episode as highlighted below

So the episode started with Bua lecturing Khushi which I did not mind, obviously she'll react to what she learned but what has impressed me is her protectiveness of Khushi. It is like another 360 has taken place but with a different outcome, while in the past where Bua believed Khushi shamed the family she abandoned her and insulted her bitterly but this time around she is standing by her. In the previous episode she could not stand Dadi insulting Khushi and her immediate instinct was to protect her child, today was no different.

Dadi arrived at GH, she was nasty, vicious and showed just what she thinks of Khushi. Khushi's character was once again maligned while Dadi made excuses for Arnav, it was evident here why she and Arnav clash over his father for she has never held him responsible for his actions. Khushi has been made the scapegoat once again with Bua being dragged in the process. Dadi succeeds in enraging Bua to the point where she calls off the wedding, she's a mother protecting her child and will not let her go through hell courtesy of Dadi. Mission accomplished for Dadi or so she believes

I knew a slap was coming from Garima but it had nothing to do with the incomplete wedding, the reasoning behind this was entirely different. Garima purposely hid from Dadi which indicates she knows her quite well and based on promo 5, it is Garima who holds the connection to Arnav and Khushi's pasts. Bua continues to protect Khushi, she should not have been slapped for she is not at fault, Arnav is to blame too. Loving Bua and Nani for holding Arnav equally at fault

Dadi back at RM thinking she has succeeded in breaking the wedding but she has proven she knows nothing about the Raizadas and specifically Arnav who immediately suspects she did something and goes straight to the source for answers. Arnav goes to Khushi's only to find out she not only faced more insults from Dadi but was also slapped by Garima, his immediate reaction is to fight but Khushi calms him down by saying its ok when clearly it isn't. Khushi would not have hugged Arnav for comfort had she not been hurting but being true to her character, she tries to act unfazed by it all since its her mother who has all rights to slap if she wishes to

Arnav has had enough, he will not let anyone stand in his way of marrying Khushi again. He makes this known not only to Bua but to Dadi as well upon his return to RM. He has declared war in his own way and makes it known he will bring his wife back, no matter who or what stands in his way. Dadi is left defeated but not for long as this battle is far from over

The highlight of this episode for me was the following scene where Arnav watches his reflection through the glass door, he reflects through a series of flashbacks about just how much Khushi has endured by him and for him. Finally he understands the depth of Khushi's pain and who she is as a person, she had every reason to hate him but instead she fought and fell in love with him and this was before knowing the depths of why Arnav was the way he is. Powerful scene which will continue to play out in the next episode

After watching this episode, I am even more convinced that Dadi and Shyam are working together. There is no way Dadi could have known Arnav put GH in Khushi's name, no one knew that not even Khushi herself so how could Dadi??? One thing that gets on my nerves about this character is her believing she has the right to have any say about Arnav's life, she abandoned him years ago so what makes her think she can come back into his life and take over?? RM is not her home and the wealth she is talking about is not hers, it is solely Arnav's who worked hard after he and his sister were left with nothing thanks to her and her son.

A request to CVs to please do something about Manorama, there are days you love her and others where you just can't stand her. I did not like her so called jokes about Khushi and Arnav's wedding being called off, it was not funny. What is her problem with Khushi?? Akash and Anjali have moved on so why does she continue to give her a hard time?? Manorama of all people know what Khushi went through for Arnav so to see her behave this way is disappointing.

OMG just saw how much I've written! So sorry for the extra long post!! Tried to keep it short but ended up writing an essay!!
Edited by .Mandy. - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Sari and SG's!

Sari: Brilliant post and insight once again; loved how you connect past instances and moments to the episode to bring it forward in a whole new light👏👏

Good episode today, I liked the pace today, things finally seemed to have slowed down a little but still moving fast enough to keep up the momentum. Today once again was about how much Arnav and Khushi, two lonely souls need each other to survive and how connected they are irrespective of everything they have been through they can bring solace and comfort to the other, they have now reached the stage where they probably cannot live without the other. I am sure the re-marriage will happen; Arnav is a man on "Mission Pheras" and he is not backing out. He knows this is what Khushi wants too and while there will be hindrances at every stage enhancing the suspense ki hoga ki nahi; Arnav will come through for his Khushi this time❤️.

Dadi is clearly biased by the past, she sees her son's mistakes in what Arnav is doing and characteristics of the other woman in Khushi🤢. Again while I did not care for Dadi's dialogues and character assassination of Khushi and the Gupta's I loved how Buaji stood up for her niece and her family. She was courteous yet firm in her stance👏; truly a strong character and I see her play a strong role in future. It was a natural reaction for her to blame Arnav for taking advantage of the unfavorable circumstances during the wedding but I wanted to hug Khushi for standing up in his defense. She truly understands him now; knows that the anger is his defense mechanism to hide his pain. Hats off to Nani and Buaji for having the guts to tell Dadi that Arnav is equally at fault in the marriage fiasco. Where on one hand the CV's have given us a regressive mentality like Dadi on the other they balanced it out by strong and just characters like Nani and Buaji👍🏼.

It was good to see NK back and the family excited about the wedding preparations. Skeletons of the past seem to be knocking on Garima's door and she takes out her anger and frustration on Khushi. Loved Arnav's cool, collected and nonchalant attitude; he is on to dadi and her plans and assures her that irrespective of her games he is going ahead with the shagun and marriage. Loved the confidence with which he walked into the Gupta house and demanded to see Khushi, walks into the room with full haq only to realize how Khushi is being punished for his wrong judgment. This was one of my fav hugs; she just crumbles when she sees him, he may be the cause of all her problems but he is the only one who can give her the comfort, solace and the protection she needs🤗. Arnav's comfort level with the Guptas highlighted when he in true ASR style summons Buaji to be ready for him and his family the next morning. He still thinks everyone is making an issue out of nothing, he truly does not get the need for the rituals to put a stamp of approval on their relationship and feelings but if it is important to Khushi he will do it for her and he spells that out for her today 😃.

Arnav reflecting back on how his actions have caused Khushi pain and humiliation and how she has always continued to stand by him despite his accusations and crude behavior; good choice of FB's and intense remorse in his eyes and expressions was a very done scene👏👏. Again could have been a little longer, but i'll take what we get. So Shyam has made his way back to RM and the creepy snake is lurking around the corridors; is he here to meet Dadi or Anjali? Also can they please not end each impactful episode with Shyam's face?😡 Precap looks promising, while I hope he renders a sincere and heartfelt apology to Khushi for everything he has put her through I do not want him to go down on his knees and begging for forgiveness; please CV's do not make it OTT.

P.S: I have figured out a cost cutting technique for the PH😉; please send Mami on leave for sometime; I do not find her dialogues or expressions funny, she is not needed for the saas bahu drama anymore since Dadi is more than filling in for that and with Shyam coming back lets concentrate on happy souls like NK and strong characters like Nani and Buaji instead.

Edited by meens80 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sari thankyou for writing this lovely take! 👏 Definitely needed this to brighten my SKD that was bought down by tge first half of the show!

I was going to make a long post but AD and shaadi festivities stole the day but here is the songof the evening. Yup the world is full of weirdos Dadi n clan are part of the circus of life. 😛

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IaOd84Z2s7s[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by -Vee05- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Girls...

Today will be my first post on the SG thread...
Let me come back and try to make it good

Here is my post...


I Must say i loved today episode...

After the confession from khushi in a cute way at the last yesterday i was wondering how will they take it forward...any marriage in the TV land will not happen without any tension around it...yes we have dadi here but the way the ppl dispersed after the high drama i was really wondering what to expect from today but it turned out to be complete surprise for me...

Buaji: she was so good today she was all like family when she was talking to khushi ... though she always says that khushi doesn't think abt them... its her way of shouting at khushi... but the way she defended khushi in front of dadi was great... any family will shout at their girls but when it comes to protecting they will stand... i really liked buaji very much...

Dadiji: i just don't like her at all...y she keep on blaming khushi on what happened...i'm happy that nani pointed out that their son is also 50 % part of it... I just felt like what the hell when dadiji was talking to buaji...she is becoming too much to handle...

Anjali happy for preparing for her chotes wedding... i must say true to her words she just loves shopping for wedding and all wedding preparations... she may think abt becoming a wedding planner in future with a partnership with her bhabhi khushi...

Khushi: again a lots of word to humiliate her...when do they stop it yaar...enough of her getting tortured but i must say a "wow girl"...dadiji comes and says u names and u taking side of ur hubby...surely u r one angel for sure... the way khushi hid her face and the way she seeked comfort from him wow...i just hope she had her arnav by her side always like this...

Arnav: he is living upto his name The ASR... i loved the way that he didn't panic ... he just and went and talked with khushi... and the way he said that tmrw @ 10am... u r a true winner by all means

I would have been happy if arnav would have told that he is coming to take his wife with proper rituals instead of telling them as their daughter...

The way he was thinking abt how he hurt her was really the soul searching time for him... this time he is winning her completely with no questions or doubts left...

Precap is awesome...i wish they have good stuuf for us in store and as ususal i'm keeping my hopes low bcoz.no expectations always works for me with IPK...

Shaym: no i'm not going to think abt him now let me wait for some more episodes but when this comes to asr's knowledge the security is going to be sacked for sure...

my wishlist:

Stop torturing khushi plzzz
Get arnav a hair cut...
i want a playful khushi enjoying her wedding with arnav and i hope the writers gives us that with loads of drama around them but not on them

and as always IPK rock

Edited by tulip21 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Evening everyone.
Loved it - The pace , the taunt script, the sitting on the edge of the seat wondering if these two will ever meet, the acting ...just about everything. I just don't get it - Why the TRP audience does not appreciate this show ? simply baffles me.
And Sari Loved your Post ..Very insighful and reflective. Thx for the reply to my PM as well.

My favourties parts were 2 particular segments .

Dadi & Bua Face off : Dadi so reminded me of Arnie today. If he has been angst ridden and scarred by that fateful night dadi too seems to have deep scars of her own . She too lost a lot that night and has come back for reasons not known yet. ArHI relationship seems like a reminder of that past which she is desperately trying to rectify. Like Arnie , her razor tongue is her best weapon and maybe a shatir dimaag as well. Bua is the no nonsense women who woudl never allow such behaviour stood up to back her Sanka Devi declaring the marriage to be cancelled. Here bua reminded me of Khushi a person who thinks from the heart , stands up for what she believes in and makes decisions in haste. Dadi & bua made for each other , you think .

I liked this scene despte a lot of negative feedback in the forum on dadi going ballistsic. Her style is finer than mami's though the content is the same. Both the senior actors did very well. Garima mystery is also intriguing and I am doubtful if she is directly related to Arnie past .
Arnie's Remorse : Many had wanted a redemtion track for him but I for one did not think that a "track" or a simple sequence of events trying to rectify his mistake will do it. Redemption happens slow and steady and Arnie has been on that journey since the day he came back home after his 'napping. Trusting his wife, standing up against dadi, working hard to see her smile according to me has all been part of that . What has been missing is the "remorse" and the "realsiation" as to How and how many times have he hurt this women !. That started today when he saw that a person he loves so dearly has been hurt by someone else and was uanble to stop it .. Starting from - This was becasue of me .To - I have been the one to hurt her the most To - this time is not the only time and maybe many more that I dont even remember... Arnie unable to look into the eye of his own reflection.

I am waiting for his "Maine tum ko to sorry bol diya but I know I will never be able to forgive myself " This was a fantastic scene and very well shot. the best part it was not rushed. Really liked it.

The ArHi journey continues. Testing times for both these lovers and I am simply loving it.

Last statement on Daiyaa Ho - Has his shirt size increased further ? He looks more beefed up than before ...Trying to copy a certian someone not mentioned on this thread ???/

TAke care ladies.
Edited by premparbat - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good enough Episode, Cvs are still sitting running for the olympics, 3 days after its finished. Please slow down, We don't want to reach the finish line just yet. Thank you.

Dimaag ka Dahi ahead. Very Runny Dahi. Apologies.

We start off with Buaji scolding Khushi for all the tamasha. Hey Bua! Scream at dadi, leave our girl alone!

And we have a Knock Knock.

Who's there?

Dadi.

Dadi aap?

Teri nai apne pote ki dadi. Now let me go shudh because I breathed your polluted air.👎🏼

Anyway. Queen Betty arrives at GH. Buaji asks this uninvited mehmaan to have a seat but stoppy shows her stop sign as if to say, 'Ahem No. But One only perches our high and mighty Malik butt on sofas made of gold, silver or peetal'. Rude woman from Jodha Akbar era.😡

She Begins to hurls nasty words at Buaji and Khushi. And when buaji tells her that ASR is equally to blame, Lady in white, says it is Khushi's fault as men are weak, which makes it easier for women like her to trap them and Khushi cannot be "humare ghar ki bahu". (Kaafi experience hai Dadi, So how did you trap dadaji???)🤓

First Khushi is not 'that' women and ASR is not weak. And what Ghar Dadi? The one you decided to barge into after 14 years of staying in a cell? NO not your Ghar. Period.

And she is already 'your' ghar ki bahu. ASR himself said some weeks past "Biwi ho tum meri, My legally wedded wife" And Legal works worldwide. This remarriage is just a formality to show your world.

And when that didn't work, tries to pit buaji against Khushi by labelling her as a gold digger. So ASR brought GH and put it in Khushi's name eh? Question is dadi, how did you know?? Dal is so so black I can see my reflection.😕

On the side Amma is having a panic attack because dadi very own presence oozes creepiness.

So is Amma the other woman? Since biologically she isn't related to Khushi or Arnav or Payal. Yaha bhi daal black ban ne lag gai and it reeks of fish.😆

So Dadi leaves after smartly goading buaji to break the unbreakable rishta.

"toh kya hum yeh rishta tootha hua samjhe?" Em wasn't that what you set out to do? You not so shaatir evil devil saas.

Buaji lets out her gussa and blames ASR for all of this. And dear Khushi cannot stand Swamiji's badnaami and defends him and explains to buaji that ASR is the way he is because Amma Malik committed suicide. This blows some fuse in Garima who whacks Khushi. No Amma No! How could You! And she sends Khushi to her room like shes a 10 year old bacha.😲

On the other side. Raizadas are preparing for Shagun and Dadi strolls with a skip in her step, now she did her job and tells them rishta tooth chuka hai.

And just in time come our man with his swag and dadi explains that buaji has broken the rishta and expects him to say of "course dadi. Jaise buaji aur aapki marzi."

Uh hell no. This is our Selfish Raizada, who knows his dadi and buaji really well and always gets what he wants and he marches down to GH.

Dadi, must watch a lot of SP shows at the ashram, considering she expected a meek dadi's pota who accepted her every decision and then sits in a corner and sing Tadap Tadap. NO. The pota will listen to you but Karega wohi jo usse theek lagta hai.

At GH, ASR walks in demands to see Khushi, is refused, so he walks into Khushi's room where the bechari girl tries to hide her face from him, knowing he will go mad mad mad, considering not many hours before he declared

" Apni patni ko haath lagane ki ijazat maine kisi ko nahi di..Thappad marna to bohat door ki baat hai."

and when he notices the fingerprints, the nostrils begin to flare and he asks "Kisne Kiya" ready to battle with the ladies outside. But Khushi stops him because Amma is her Mum and has the right. So What! No one lays a finger on ASR's wifey.

So he gives up and tells Khushi its for HER he is going through all this stuff he doesn't care about and doesn't understand why everyone has blown a small thing like pheras all out of proportion. So he tells her to finish it. He wants her back home. Safe and under his protection, where no one dares finger Liphut her.

And then he informs Buaji that they will come to GH tomorrow with the Shagun and finds out dadi visited and realises this was all dadi's drama.

And back to RM we go and he tells all the wedding is on. Which infuriates Dadi who gets up and leaves and ASR tells her "Main achi tarah jaanta hoon ke aap kya karne ki koshish kar rahi hai."

and in true ASR style tells her that he will take shagun to Khushi's house. "aap aayein ya na nahi"

Ha Dadi. You stay at home with HP tomorrow Yo!😈

Next we see ASR standing at the poolside reflecting on the past and how he married Khushi. And regrets that everything Khushi has been through was his fault because he forcibly married her. Now thats the redemption delivered for the ones that wanted it. Can we not ask for more please. One point for ASR's redemption = 2 points of Khushi's hurt. Chalo. Now can fandom all get together again.

And Dhaiyya ho lurks in RM. Question is, he visting Di or Dadi?🤔

Oh Note to Cvs. Food is all the rage. Get dadi to give badam kheer lessons, phir dekhna TRP kaise 2 se 3 se 4 hote hai...🥱

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A picture that says a thousand words... a picture that tells a story today

pic_credit : ipkbs (Thank you so much girl!! You are awesome!)

A man fighting an uphill battle

, a battle he doesn't "get", the importance of which is not in his list of priorities. Right now his priority is one fold-- Get Khushi back to him as Mrs. ASR. She is that and a whole lot more to him, but if going through the rigmarole of another wedding gets everyone on the same page, then so be it.

I don't get it. Sab log itne chotti si baat ka itna bada issue kyun bana rahe hain. Tumhe bhi chahiye ne, khatam karte hai isse...
No, he does not "get" it. But he sees the toll it is taking on Khushi, the barbs, the fights, the words, the insults and yet the girl stands looking at him with hopeful eyes, binding her future to his. she will walk with him if he asks it of her, without the remarriage thing, she will defend him to the world and today there was a realisation that he has always left her open and vulnerable to that same world with every action of his. For a man who makes a distinction between his world and the society that asks for such formalities, today was the first step towards acknowledging that Khushi lives in the world where societal norms and acceptance is as essential as air to breathe and is as prevalent as the hypocrisy because of which he walks scot free.
Daadi is unfolding in front of our eyes. They are the same, using opportunites handed to them further their agenda, win and get their own way. And yet, today showed a marked difference between the two as well. For every ASR-ish move that Arnie pulls, the conscience floats in and a retrospection of his actions, a correction of that wrong and growing of the person happens. The daadi we saw today pulled a move that showed where Arnie gets his chops from...Watch how she manipulated Buaji into calling off the wedding .. how she uses that to convince the family that the wedding is off. And it alomost seems like history repeating itself -- an autocratic decision, an rebellion at arms, a manipulation of facts to get your own way and big repurcussions of said decision.
And yet, we have a daadi who is seemingly walking that path again. Is it to avoid the pitfalls of the past? Is it to upheld her value system that has her maligning Khushi, an actual belief that Khushi does not deserve to be the Mallik bahu (as opposed to payal who is Ok to be the Raizada bahu) ? Is it to get her own way and control her grandson to certain extent? Is it to convince herself that decisions in the past were the right decisions proven wrong by "weak" individuals or is it to make up for something done wrong in the past, the making up of which can be done by giving Anji's unborn it's father back?
Whatever it is that fuels Daadi - and she is as ridden by the ghosts of the pasts as Arnie and Anji are - one of the biggest takeaway from today for Daadi's character was that for her the end does justify the means, the collatral is always the woman, the cause is always the woman. For her, whatever Shyam did would be forgivable because he is a man and Anji would do good to not be "weak" and hold the family together.
Today, I was left with the feeling that Arnie learnt to make the tough decisions in life, to be the survivor and the protector in Daadi's lap and but he also learnt the art of introspection - even though it may be after the fact of a wrong action, maybe too late in certain cases - and to rectify the wrong if he deems it wrong at Naani's parvarish. Does that make him "weak" like his mom? We will see...
EDIT: Just a note. The references of weak are in no way to condone suicide in any form. But just like other important characters in the show, I would like to believe that there was more to Arnie's Mom than lack of a will to live simply because she got a brutal shock...One man's definition of weak is another man's definition of courage...😛
Edited by veeps - 13 years ago
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well said saree..still arnie has to admit openly to all...about khushi's sacrifice..
this is first step ...asking her for apology..
not understanding why shyamu is in rm??? what cvs r trying to show??? is it just a filler of suspense for audience???
Edited by Shastradhari - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Sari👏...back with update later

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