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Posted: 13 years ago
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For how long will Khushi lie? ... For how long can she stay in GH? For how long can they play games? Why not just face it and tell everyone? Now I might have not liked his way but one thing is for sure that it will hit him hard.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am sorry don't agree with you, but I respect your opinion.
Well, Arnav/Khushi never once believed in their 6 months of marriage that this is a CM, and nothing else. He knows that very well this is exactly why he questioned her or else he wouldn't. If she thinks her marriage was a CM she would have let Arnav signed that deal with those two swindlers lol... Arnav wouldn't be alive. As for Arnav, he would have treated Gupta family like dirt, but he didn't just because marriage is very real for him as well!
As for contract marriage coming out...Didn't you people want this to come out for so long? so why suddenly it's not the good idea when ASR stated that we should tell everyone.
As for me I never wanted this CM reason to come out in open, and I am still standing by this. I hate the idea of what two people decided between each other should come out in open. If CV's are still going to show this I'll feel bad,miserable and sad + even now after Khushi once again mentioned, that her family can't take it if it's out😭

Originally posted by: Fan_ipkknd1

I disagree, respectfully.

Arnav is a man of few words. A man who holds many fears.
First when he forced khushi marry her, he feared his sisters breakdown. He felt helpless. And so, he forced the marriage.
Now he fears losing khushi. He feels helpless. He forces her. Deals with it ASR way. This is the chracter, Arnav Singh Raizada. This is what the whole 'iss pyaar ko kia naam doin' is about.


I agree with you totally!
This is too hard for people to understand that ASR is not really selfish, but he is doing everything out of fear... At least Arnav is trying to save their marriage, unlike Khushi who is counting days+extremely sad for loosing him..This marriage means everything to her, that's why she was crying whilst counting remaining days. People are just looking for Arnav's mistake, ill behaviour, and not noticing how Khushi is feeling with each day passing one by one.
He wants them to stay married forever...He is doing this to save their marriage which they both believe is real...For them it doesn't matter if their marriage was a Contract, honestly it's not a contract marriage.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#53
@kbtr
I just loved your comment ,made me feel so good .
Very good answer to those who don't know what abuse is about.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Manal..

I don't Agree with her ! but this is DEFO NOT a Bashing post :) !! she pointed her View in a respectful way ! there was no Bashing :)




Agree. This thing has to be discussed in a healthy way. Everyone is concerned why Asr is behaving with khushi in this way.its no bashing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with everything you've stated.
Arnav is being a selfish ass in the way he is dealing with Khushi and trying to use blackmail to get her back is just plain ridiculous.
She had no problem showing affection towards him before the stuff with Anjali happened at the clinic and then he blamed Khushi for everything.
Regardless if he was upset or not, that is when Khushi starting pulling away from him and wanted to leave. If he would have just told her his REAL feelings instead of reverting back to ASR, they wouldn't be in the predictiment they're in now.
And I find it all kinds of messed up that he threatened to reveal the contract marriage to everyone. If I were Khushi I would call his bluff and tell him to do it.
Because if he really believed they have a marriage the word contract would never have come up again. All he is doing is proving to Khushi she was right to leave the RM.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshidreamz


Khushi's antics were at a time when she wanted to get out of the forced marriage-she didn't know the reason. But ASR knows the reason why she wants to stay away from him. he knows her thoughts on marriage and he also knows that she loves him. If no, there was no need to move heaven and earth to find him and bring him back from the kidnappers. So his antics being compared to hers- I cannot digest it.
If khushi do antics,thn its fine...but if ASr do...it cannot be digested...why???😲😲Do Khushi leave any other option...???She run away from RM n ASR knows that Khushi will be happy only when she will live with him...
We all have witnessed Khushi's condn whn ASR was kidnapped...n btw he did all things to woo her...bringing gifts,wishing her(yes,she heard that)...infact he changed himself...
He did not trust just without proofs. Shyam himself was the biggest proof. In case you don't remember it was Shyam who said that after the terrace scene that Anjali means nothing to him and Khushi is his love, junoon blah blah.
But she didnt had any proof for Shyam as d main kidnapper..N if u remeber after kicking shyam out of d house ,he simply said"I need to do this dii..coz I trust KHUSHI...
ASR loves Khushi. but he needs to tell her that instead of causing more pain and humiliating her in front of the family that means everything to her. Means does not justify end and in no way the hurt ASR is causing Khushi to get her back in his life is acceptable
Again...Khushi leave no other option..he just cant sit at home nad waiting for 10 days to get over...he is trying to bring her back in his life..n yeah he told her whn she packed her bags to left RM...but she said"M doin this for dii's sake...".

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

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I agree. After he blackmailed her yet once again I was like how selfish can this man get? Not even once did he think how she feels. What are her reasons for leaving. Why does she not wanna come back with him. What pain is she going through. All he can see is he needs her so she needs to come back. He used her family as a weapon to blackmail her. He knows she won't let them break down. The bottom line is he's taking advantage of her selfless love for his own selfish reasons! IN all this my heart goes out to Khushi who has to go through all this bullshit for no fault of hers!

Her reason for leaving is clear - contract!
He had a point, for how long is she going to lie? Has Khushi really thought about all this?? Contract isn't over yet Kiran. Anyway, I agree. I do feel bad for her!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Today he proved how selfish he is by black mailing her again threatening of revealing the truth of their contract marriage to Guptas. He couldn't reveal the truth to his nani or any of his family members but now ready to disclose to her amily members! He didn't even ask her if she wants to come with her or not.He is no way less selfish than his Di, she blackmailed Kushi to come to RM for her brother n La's happiness n now he is doing the same for his happiness! Kushi is like a doll for them who dances on their tunes!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SmileAway-

He hasn't really asked Khushi, "do you love me"
Damn, I thought this was clear. Lol does he have to ask? She risked her life for him. Yes he knows she loves him, he wouldn't tell her to come with him if she didn't.

I liked your post :) i'm hoping to see that as well!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I totally agree, what marriage is this in which he only cares about what he wants not looking at how unhappy it makes her. "Arnav Singh Raizada is always right!" what the hell was that?! poor khushi, her life is CONSTANT torture because of this man.

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