This is ASR's 'style of wooing'? It sucks. - Page 30

My! That scene from Arth rocks! Now there is a woman of substance. I admired her even more when she rejected Raj Kiran's offer of marriage. Why do we need to have a man in our life all the time? Are we not capable enough, strong enough to live a life on our own? Can't we live our life on our own terms? Why should a woman always be at the mercy of a man?

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Oh tell me about it. Some girls said its a slap on "bashers" face after Friday's episode. First of all, they need to check definition of bashing in dictionary. Secondly, what was so good about the episode? Romance and that's all? He still made Khushi what he wanted, treated her like some mistress and asked her to become a TV. What is she? This man angers me to the max. I wanna slap him so hard and then make Khushi kick him! Yes ASR is HOT and of course we love it. First when he hated her and tortured her it was understandable because we thought we'll get him redeeming, regretting and it was to build up the plot. But now that he "loves" her, his actions are not understandable at all! Some "phangirls" on IF are so blinded by ASR's "love" and hotness that if he asks them to jump off the cliff, they will do it because BS/ASR asked 'em to do it. People who don't like his actions are "bashers." They think we don't love BS/ASR. Yes we do but we are not blinded by his love.

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

ufff, thats a fantabulous idea!! TRP ka tho patha nahi lekin forum mein Khushi ka murder zaroor hoga. us ladki ki ithni himmath ki woh ASR ke motives to ko question karay. thauba!

Originally posted by: bong.girl

My! That scene from Arth rocks! Now there is a woman of substance. I admired her even more when she rejected Raj Kiran's offer of marriage. Why do we need to have a man in our life all the time? Are we not capable enough, strong enough to live a life on our own? Can't we live our life on our own terms? Why should a woman always be at the mercy of a man?

It's sad but yes even I agree with the TM on Nannav's wooing methods and consequences. ASR is surely back and like he, himself mentioned nothing can change him. He hates somebody in ASR way and loves somebody in ASR way. I don't have anything against his attitude and persona

Mine too Vibha! I loved the music of the movie too. I fell in love with the music first. I love the picturisation of " Koi Yeh Kaise Bataye". The expressions are just perfect. You can actually feel the pain, the angst in her. Another issue I have with the portrayal of the other woman. Why does she need to be a psycho, in need of medical attention? Why? Be it Arth or Ijazzat. Why do we demean them like this? I also have a problem with the word "Feminist". I mean if you stnd up for what is right, speak up for women, you are a feminist. I don't like how it had been reduced to mean something derogatory. I mean if you stand up for what is morallly, ethically right, you are a humanist first. Of course I enjoy chivalry in men. I enjoy the door being held open by my man and all that jazz but I respect my space. I dont want to be smothered with mollycoddling either.

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

This post is sooo cool lovie, I loved reading all the responses...okay most of it...okay likeminded ones...better stop now😉

Originally posted by: bong.girl

Mine too Vibha! I loved the music of the movie too. I fell in love with the music first. I love the picturisation of " Koi Yeh Kaise Bataye". The expressions are just perfect. You can actually feel the pain, the angst in her. Another issue I have with the portrayal of the other woman. Why does she need to be a psycho, in need of medical attention? Why? Be it Arth or Ijazzat. Why do we demean them like this? I also have a problem with the word "Feminist". I mean if you stnd up for what is right, speak up for women, you are a feminist. I don't like how it had been reduced to mean something derogatory. I mean if you stand up for what is morallly, ethically right, you are a humanist first. Of course I enjoy chivalry in men. I enjoy the door being held open by my man and all that jazz but I respect my space. I dont want to be smothered with mollycoddling either.

I know i am in the minority here but the reason why ASR gets a chance to behave like this is coz of Kushi. And before u all pounce on me for being a fan girl who thinks ASR is god. NO. The reason y i get irked with Kushi is most of the times she runs around like a head less chicken with no proper plan in place. Remember the sweet shop she opened aft quitting AR. Also y does she always jump head first into all these situations. Is she the only daughter. What bt wet socks ANKLETWA. I ve never seen the laundry gal lift her finger to help her mayke. Its always been Kushi, Kushi, Kushi. I hate this attitude of Kushi where she thinks only she can solve all the probs in the world including the Middle east & Kashmir ethnic strife.

Why cant she sit with her family, discuss the situation & try to work out a solution. This headless chicken running around causes jerks like ASR to take advantage. Lesson # 1 Never show ur enemy ur weakness. Lesson # 2 Never reveal ur thoughts or plans.

When ll Kushi learn this lesson.

Now coming to ASR. Though what he did appears ruthless remember earlier he was the one who voluntarily bought groceries & now also paid the rent. It was Kushi who insulted him & hence he took the money. I dont think he did that 2 insult her. He did that so that she ll exercise her rights over him. Come & demand money frm him like a wife. He dint want her to beg. It was Kushi who insisted that she ll work & wont take it free. While i am not absolving ASR of his sins at the same time i feel sad that sometimes ppl in the forum tend to crucify him for all his actions.

I guess he has already said sorry 2 Kushi. In real life i dont think any hubby actually says the word SORRY. They only try 2 show it via their actions.

I just shared my views. No intention of offending anyone.

Originally posted by: Angels11

I know i am in the minority here but the reason why ASR gets a chance to behave like this is coz of Kushi. And before u all pounce on me for being a fan girl who thinks ASR is god. NO. The reason y i get irked with Kushi is most of the times she runs around like a head less chicken with no proper plan in place. Remember the sweet shop she opened aft quitting AR. Also y does she always jump head first into all these situations. Is she the only daughter. What bt wet socks ANKLETWA. I ve never seen the laundry gal lift her finger to help her mayke. Its always been Kushi, Kushi, Kushi. I hate this attitude of Kushi where she thinks only she can solve all the probs in the world including the Middle east & Kashmir ethnic strife.

Why cant she sit with her family, discuss the situation & try to work out a solution. This headless chicken running around causes jerks like ASR to take advantage. Lesson # 1 Never show ur enemy ur weakness. Lesson # 2 Never reveal ur thoughts or plans.

When ll Kushi learn this lesson.

Now coming to ASR. Though what he did appears ruthless remember earlier he was the one who voluntarily bought groceries & now also paid the rent. It was Kushi who insulted him & hence he took the money. I dont think he did that 2 insult her. He did that so that she ll exercise her rights over him. Come & demand money frm him like a wife. He dint want her to beg. It was Kushi who insisted that she ll work & wont take it free. While i am not absolving ASR of his sins at the same time i feel sad that sometimes ppl in the forum tend to crucify him for all his actions.

I guess he has already said sorry 2 Kushi. In real life i dont think any hubby actually says the word SORRY. They only try 2 show it via their actions.

I just shared my views. No intention of offending anyone.