Originally posted by: Jhalak29
" However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside. " Deepak Chopra
Tonite I liked the episode because for it was once agn getting Arnav a insight in Khushi, in her pysche and a baby step to a lasting realtionship,,,,, I loved the scene between Arnav & Khushi tonite the most where the episode was a balanced one with balancing parts from other RM members
The scene which stood out for me was Arnav getting the doctor for buaji, Khushi being Khushi is once again is at her best closed eyes, she knows why she has returned back to GH but isnt voicing it, hiding her pain and thoughts frm everyone and even DM is made confidant to partial process, this Khushi is the same Khushi who will not hurt anyone so how can she hurt Arnav, the one whom she loves. Arnav and Khushi started in very difficult circumstances and completely in opp to their views but with time they caught glimpse of the substance within where Arnav was all hard, Khushi was soft, Arrnav was responsibilities, khushi was smiles, Arnav was making trens, Khushi was follwing norms but with passing time they fell in love with good in each other but the not so good was not tackled, Arnav has always been loyal and protector to family, he may not express but cares abt each of them and when he accepted Khushi in his life he eccepted her family too and for the first time we saw open voicing of that concern, in last two days he chckd thrice with Khushi at buaji and tonite he bought the doctor when Khushi told him that they werent ale to get medical help in time,,,, remined me of the day when khushi had been unconsicious due to bangle gift, he had been most concerned, even though whole Gupta family was there, he was freaking with impatience and tonite same happened. He has accepted Khushi as his own but once agn the trait whch makes Arnav also the ASR isnt letting him chck with Khushi that does she want him too as he wants her, partners in this journey in life, he is assured of his love, her love, his marriage, her marriage but he hasnt been able to reach the core of Khushi.
Little kindness and courtesies are so important.
In relationships, the little things are the big things.
Stephen R Covey
Similarly we saw Arnav who is a man of few words, showing the adoration and dedication to khushi with desire for her, but the almost harmless flirtations hasnt been able to soothe the khushi, bcz she hasnt been able to understand the meaning behind the gestures, the past week or two we have been seeing a very sauve & stylish wooing khushi with the frills & bows and Khushi has been shunning the efforts but tonite a smile peck in the end earned him a moment of genuine smile which hasnt been there a long time but in bits and parts that smile comes bcz Arnav is tring hard and now the only thing which is missing is the faith which he has in the US between then to be shown or verbalised to her, this small town ordinary khushi can not be won with elobrate pinks and maroons rather with the blacks and white of words or action, Arnav is dependable yet needs to prove this to her, like the simple action of the slap which was acted for my wife to shyam, that had bought trust between them, the faith too has to be earned like that
I am waiting to see more of Arnav who will understand this simple Khushi,,, peels are being removed, the process is slow but has permamnet learning. I once read to hv a safe n secure future the foundations of past, and the bldg of present need to be in alignment.
Loved the scene with RM " especially Aapk koi boyfrient to nahi hai sasuma"
Arnav " tum meri patni ho Khushi, buaji aur is ghar ke kuch mayane hai mere liye"
"Ye Arnav singh Raizada to haath do ke hamre peeche pad gayen hai"
Arnav "Shoshan"
Team IPK we need improvement in terms of presentation, A lead who almost looks sick in closeups, A wardrob which has been in out for 8/10 days. A scene which will make the best in terms of understnading & intimacy repeated casually.
A difference in approach is needed, revive n revitalise
Dedication for Arnav Singh Raizada.
Some ppl follow rainbows I am told,
Some ppl search gold others look for silver,
But i found my treasures in my soul
And all I ever need is you...
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