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Posted: 13 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: princessunara

well said!!
i have tried to make this point across so many times to no vain!!

everyone is right at their own place!!

we as an audience have the chance to look at this from a point where we are completely informed of every event! but all the characters except for khushi and arnav only knows a fragment of the full truth!
and there lies the crux of the matter!!

the moment everything is revealed the situation would be very different!!

i honestly think it was good for anjali to see what she did yesterday as now she knows one more lie to be just that!
she now knows some1 else other than herself occupies her brother's world..and she will react which will lead to the ultimate revelations!!

sigh...i just wish people stopped cribbing about daljeet's screen time and accept the reality that this was always meant to be so from the moment she is made aware of shyam's duplicity!! it has nothing to do with any1's demands or any other crap!!
it is just common sense!!


well said👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
#72
I am sorry but i dont agree. I have 0 i repeat zero sympathy for Anjali due to reasons listed below:

1. Feeling envious & wishful watching other couples romance is natural but going to the extent of scolding her bro for indulging in silent & secretive romance with his own wife within the confines of their bedroom is hideous.
2. Walking into the bedroom of an unmarried couple without knocking & waiting for a response is GROSS i repeat GROSS.
3. If she really trusted her hubby Shyam why dint she walk out of the house along with her loving hubby darling. I would ve done that if my parents/bro abused/accused my dear hubby. If i trust my hubby i would ve walked out of my parents' house & accompanied my hubby. Thats wat a really loving, trusting, devoted wife w'd do? Did Anji baby do that? Did she try calling Shyam. Did she try searching for Shyam? Makes me wonder if she really loved him.
4. If she is confused & unable to make a decision she should ve confronted her chote like how Nani confronted Arnav. Arnav replied patiently to Nani's questions & narrated everything clearly. He would have done the same. But did this female even bother to check with her bro.
5. One day she kicks out chote frm her room coz he slapped her greedy hubby. Next day she thinks chote has got her flowers & immediately forgives & hugs him. Made me want to bang my head.
5. Her dialogue "Chote how could u forget ur Di's plight" was the last straw for me. Coz 1st of all even Arnav can ask her the same quest. He was bloody kidnapped & about to be burnt alive. He was tortured. She herself saw his wounds. Even Arnav can ask "Di how could u forget ur chote's trauma & plight". What bt the plight of the other woman Kushi who fought for her hubby's life. What bt Kushi's trauma. So only if she is happy in her make believe bubble others ve the right to be happy. If she is sad everyone should be sad. More selfish woman who claims to b loving i am yet to meet.
6. I would ve understood her tears if Arnav had thrown a grand birthday bash for his sexy wife. Was he prancing around with his wife in the living room or making out with her on the couch? NO! Instead what did he do? He magnanimously hid the fact that the roses were for his wife & not Di. He hugged her, gave her moral support. Aft the entire family has retired for the day he chooses a small extremely private, intimate way to wish his wife. And she is angry with that. How can u expect anyone to sympathize with her.

My end understanding is she neither loved her brother nor her hubby. If she had loved her hubby she would ve walked out of RM along with her hubby to be with him come what may.

If she had loved her chote, she would ve trusted him & asked him to explain his actions.

By doing neither she just comes across as a shallow, selfish, pretentious woman with a perennial pout & endless stock of tears 😡🤢
Edited by Angels11 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#73
Very nice post, dear, it was needed!👏👏 I'm one of the few people in this forum who supported Anjali yesterday, but I'm glad there are more people who are with me than I thought.
Here's another topic in favor of Anjali where I went into my reasoning: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3097632/why-does-everyone-hate-anjali-today
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Posted: 13 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: dkatmala

It is not simply bashing or complaining, ppl can watch what is shown in the show, but it is not necessary they take every single thing that is shown. After all, the fans are discussing the story every day (let it be bashing or complaining), they do it every day without any fail. I think this keeps the CVs to make any adequate changes that they need to. If the fans vent out their frustrations, why the creative ppl show their attitude towards them. They need the fans to call sp and to promote the show, but for not any other purpose. In the kidnapping period, fans were promised like there is going to be arshi and arshi only, because u also know that is going to be the major center of attraction and that is going to hold the fans on to the show. But after that, u ppl were like only arshi, there are other characters also, we all know that. But this is like no arshi at all, only other characters. Even in the kidnapping period, no character development was there from other characters' point of view. I don't want to teach u ppl anything regarding the show, because as u all say its the cvs' show, but we love the show, so definitely will mark our opinion abt it. U take it or not take it. Don't forget it is the fans who make the show, there may be arrogant attitude from the fans' side also and mutual respect also should be their, but don't forget the show can't survive without fans' satisfaction



well dear tell me how cv make u completely happy...wen thy r showing arshi u guys r like where r mamaji ,mamijee...wat the hell is going...y cnt thy show proper things...now wen story is moving to second level...u guys again keep complaining...really no body can make u happy...coz even u dnt know wat u want...
just showing rabba ve is not the serial ...i agree thy have to show love between arnav n khushi...thy r showing it...trying to show repentative one...but now again u guys r having problm...ufff
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Posted: 13 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: khushboorath


Khushboo,

at the end of the day its not what we want that matter,
but the trp audience.
We will always have an opinion on how we want things what we want. but trp viewers will watch the tv only.

So this anjali track is good, and works for them. So its all good.
and don't listen to us. we say one thing but mean something else.

you guys worked so hard to bring this show back to the top 5 and now because of our childishness don't let it slip.
ignore and move on.

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Posted: 13 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: sree07

Why all of a sudden your language style changed?😉

Why the sudden need to justify anjali and her actions?😆


coz m tired with all the post bashing anjali's behavior n all...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#77
Sorry to say but i got evil pleasure when anji spotted arhi
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Posted: 13 years ago
#78
First of all thank you for you post.

2nd, I am not convinced at all or I don't think I can ever be. It's not making sense at all.
I am engaged in relationship that's why I cannot understand your logic. Seriously, if my fiance was anything like Shyam I would dump him in a heart beat don't have to think for second I mean the words he comes up with are so bloody cheap, cheesy and OMG! I would be so embarrassed. Excuses he comes up with only some stupid lady with dead brain would believe him lol. All these things Shyam does or did would lead me to believe that he is in fact a jerk. I am not going to sit here, and will digest that she can't be strong. She should have been strong don't tell me that there is no way she can be strong please! for that we have Psychiatrist she needs professional help not her brother. This way she is not only going to harm herself, but her brother😭 I have no problem with Anjali, but the way she is so emotionally shattered annoys me. Jealousy was too much! Anjali is going crazy, and Raizada's are letting her which is not good for anyone.

As for Roses why would she think that it's from her husband??? Did he try to contact her for a second? did he try to talk to her??? NO! so her thinking it's from her husband is stupid reason!
Brother? really??? Did he ever give her flowers to make her feel better? did he? I guess never! as far as I remember if his sister is angry he would want to talk with her lol! again, it's another stupid reason.

3rd: If Anjali was a parallel lead why she wasn't in any Intro promos??? why there was only Khushi and Arnav? It's only when you watch this show then you realise that she is a big part of show. I would never call her a lead sorry!

Sorry if I hurt anyone with my post didn't mean to.




Edited by SaraaK - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#79
Well said.. Must needed post for some folks in the forum
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Posted: 13 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: Harshitha

what ur saying here & what is being shown are really different

reading ur post is gaining more understanding but what is shown is not

the way anjali is behaving is more negative - im pitting arnav because he has to choose now
even anjali had her family to look after her, she had nani, mami
khushi doesnt even have any one biological - buaji keeps reminding her of being an orphan how is that a cultured bring up
khushi didnt ask to celebrate her bday he's the one doing it
the way they gave a track where she is suspicious of her husband ppl were under the impression that she knew everything
she is very complex to understand ; it has taken the negative side
being a woman im not being able to connect with her at all
im able to connect with khushi completely
the problem is the way they executed the whole scene
if the episode is a stand alone then i can easily feel bad for but keeping the previous tracks in mind im not being able to
even arnav was kidnapped she didnt question him about his welfare
she doesnt love him unconditionally its a very conditional -
only if her life is happy she think for others until then she not bothered
that is wht i can see



anjali's behaviors is not negative dear...its normal human being behavior...
wat khushi is going through is not disclosed infornt of anjali...
watever disclosed dnt have proof...wat do u expect in such situation

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