Why does everyone hate Anjali today?

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 13 years ago

So after reading the topics in the forum, I was a bit wary of watching the episode because I envisioned a Dracula Anjali seething with anger and jealousy, but when I actually watched the episode I was really surprised by the forum's reaction.😲 Why does everyone hate Anjali?

I guess I can see the reasons why, but would any of us be any different in her position? Forgetting ArHi for a moment and how much everyone loves them, think about their relationship in Anjali's view.

In Anjali's POV, Khushi is the reason she has been separated from her husband. Generally when we see someone cheating on their spouse, we put the blame both on him and the girl he's having an affair with, and though we know this is not true in Shyam's case, since Khushi is completely innocent, how is Anjali to know this? Who would we trust in this instance? The husband we have been married to for years or the newlywed wife of your brother whom you actually haven't known for that long? It is natural for Anjali to trust Shyam more than Khushi, because the news of his infidelity came out of nowhere (for her at least), and when she sees Khushi, she thinks of her as the one who destroyed her happiness. Though this is not true, she is not blameworthy for thinking this.

As for today's episode, Anjali felt like Khushi not only stole her husband, but her brother as well. Leaving her birthday aside, Anjali feels that all her loved ones are being stolen by Khushi. First her husband felt attracted to her and left their marriage, and then her brother who knew his sister was in despair, seemed indifferent to it and celebrated his wife's birthday. Of course it's not wrong for Arnav to do this, as he was really nasty to Khushi the other day, but in Anjali's POV she felt like Arnav forgot about her so easily and was celebrating instead.

I don't know...but instead of hating Anjali after this episode, I felt sorrier for her than ever.😭 I really feel bad for her and can't exactly blame her hurt and jealousy. I know I would feel the same way. In fact, I would hate Khushi more than Anjali seems to let out. It's wrong, yes, but it's human and completely natural.

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LyssaPie

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Posted: 13 years ago

same i felt sorry for her and idk why everyone is hating on her

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grapegirl

@grapegirl

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Posted: 13 years ago

Plus people are forgetting it took about more than 3 months for Arnav to trust Khushi over Shyam.

So stop expecting too much people, Anjali will not be in team Khushi after 1 week. And people are so harsh on her character, she's traumatised and looking at the future as a single mother. I really feel sorry for her.

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@maan-and-geet

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think her reaction is natural... and justified... it will take her some time to get ovet this... and she is yet to know the full truth

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Isha

@MissPunjabi

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree!!
I feel really sorry for her :(
Nice post!
A very much needed post! I hope people are reading rather than hating on Anjali!

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ipkfan1

@ipkfan1

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Posted: 13 years ago

We like Anji but we are just depressed with what happened to those beautiful roses. Arnav only lied for her sake... Atleast Kushi could have gotten those roses. Just praying for Arnav and Kushi. Because crying babies get more. We wish to vote out Anji with our cries because Kushi won't.😉

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Janaki

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ipkfan1
We like Anji but we are just depressed with what happened to those beautiful roses. Arnav only lied for her sake... Atleast Kushi could have gotten those roses. Just praying for Arnav and Kushi. Because crying babies get more. We wish to vote out Anji with our cries because Kushi won't.😉

It's unfair to call Anjali a crybaby. No woman in her position would be able to keep smiling and laughing and forget what happened. She was married to Shyam for 3-4 years and suddenly one day, a bombshell drops on her that he's in love with her brother's wife. As if that's not enough, her brother, after promising to support her through all sorrow, runs back to his wife the day after she learns about Shyam's infidelity.

I am not saying this as a bashing post at Arnav and Kushi, because I like them too and want them to have a lot of romantic moments now that Arnav is back home, but this is what Anjali thinks. It may not be true but it's what she feels, and I don't think any of us have a right to call her a crybaby right now because for once, she has the right to cry. In her POV, Khushi first stole her husband and now her brother. It's got to be tough on any sister who already lost a mother and father in her childhood. Arnav is all she's got and obviously she's going to be a bit possessive about him, especially with her husband gone too. She has no one else. Nani and Mami are there, yes, but Nani is old and won't live forever. And Mami, as kind as she is towards Anjali at least, is not her mother. Arnav is the only person she can lean on who will be there for as long as she lives, and Anjali does not want to lose him, not even to Khushi.

I don't think Anjali will hate khushi forever, because she was happy for Arnav when he fell in love with Khushi and married her, but now in her moment of loss, Khushi is her enemy and Anjali will most certainly will hurt and jealous whenever Arnav spends more time with Khushi than her. It's natural and it's what we all would feel if we were in Anjali's place.

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ritika06

@ritika06

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Posted: 13 years ago

Anjali is the most misundersttod character here.Hardly anybody understands here.All they want is just Arshi romance and nothing else.

What did Anjali do today?She cooked food for Arnav and wanted him to eat it.Was it wrong to cook food for a brother?When she say arnav with khushi,she left the room.She didn't interrupt them and force him to eat,did she?

When she realises that someone else is also as important to arnav as she is so naturally she will feel a little insecure.People are bashing daljeet like anything.i am wondering where are the mods.

If barun and sanaya bashing is not allowed then how is daljeet bashing allowed since last so many days?

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music1

@music1

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Posted: 13 years ago

I do not hate her...but feel that it is high time she comes out of her makeshift fantasy world...her witnessing Khushi's birthday celebration when she is all broken was pretty harsh but I feel this was the first dose of reality check for her...she will be grey for sometime until she sees the true colors of Shyam...she will never be dark...grey is the max she can turn into...

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ipkknd_gd

@ipkknd_gd

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath
So after reading the topics in the forum, I was a bit wary of watching the episode because I envisioned a Dracula Anjali seething with anger and jealousy, but when I actually watched the episode I was really surprised by the forum's reaction.😲 Why does everyone hate Anjali?

I guess I can see the reasons why, but would any of us be any different in her position? Forgetting ArHi for a moment and how much everyone loves them, think about their relationship in Anjali's view.

In Anjali's POV, Khushi is the reason she has been separated from her husband. Generally when we see someone cheating on their spouse, we put the blame both on him and the girl he's having an affair with, and though we know this is not true in Shyam's case, since Khushi is completely innocent, how is Anjali to know this? Who would we trust in this instance? The husband we have been married to for years or the newlywed wife of your brother whom you actually haven't known for that long? It is natural for Anjali to trust Shyam more than Khushi, because the news of his infidelity came out of nowhere (for her at least), and when she sees Khushi, she thinks of her as the one who destroyed her happiness. Though this is not true, she is not blameworthy for thinking this.

As for today's episode, Anjali felt like Khushi not only stole her husband, but her brother as well. Leaving her birthday aside, Anjali feels that all her loved ones are being stolen by Khushi. First her husband felt attracted to her and left their marriage, and then her brother who knew his sister was in despair, seemed indifferent to it and celebrated his wife's birthday. Of course it's not wrong for Arnav to do this, as he was really nasty to Khushi the other day, but in Anjali's POV she felt like Arnav forgot about her so easily and was celebrating instead.

I don't know...but instead of hating Anjali after this episode, I felt sorrier for her than ever.😭 I really feel bad for her and can't exactly blame her hurt and jealousy. I know I would feel the same way. In fact, I would hate Khushi more than Anjali seems to let out. It's wrong, yes, but it's human and completely natural.

Anjali is being mean and selfish... she wants all the attention on her.

She probably does not realize that Khushi has also gone through a lot lately because her brain is DEAD...she believes she has been wronged...and does not want to get out of her shell and wants protection all the time from everyone.

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