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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: a.kaur

Couldnt agree with you more! Each and every point you discusses was accurate khushboo. People are a bit too quick to judge...they need to be sympathetic and also try to empathize a bit.

Exactly! Some people in this forum seem to be completely devoid of any emotion. I'm sorry for sounding harsh, but a person with even a small amount of empathy in them would pity Anjali instead of hating her. They say her character is unrealistic and Khushi's not?
Khushi may be a maha tyaagi, but what kind of woman in real life would stay with a man who has insulted her self-respect not once, but several times? If Anjali has no self-respect, Khushi has even less, because forgetting Arhi for a moment, no girl in Khushi's place would stay with Arnav after the way he's treated her.
Khushi is the typical Indian soap bahu who sacrifices a lot for everyone and ignores every insult that comes her way, whereas Anjali...well...her only fault is that she's human.🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

Exactly! Some people in this forum seem to be completely devoid of any emotion. I'm sorry for sounding harsh, but a person with even a small amount of empathy in them would pity Anjali instead of hating her. They say her character is unrealistic and Khushi's not?
Khushi may be a maha tyaagi, but what kind of woman in real life would stay with a man who has insulted her self-respect not once, but several times? If Anjali has no self-respect, Khushi has even less, because forgetting Arhi for a moment, no girl in Khushi's place would stay with Arnav after the way he's treated her.
Khushi is the typical Indian soap bahu who sacrifices a lot for everyone and ignores every insult that comes her way, whereas Anjali...well...her only fault is that she's human.🤔



And by the same token isn't the sister doing the same thing, letting a man insult her, cheat on her, all I can say is please.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: .Euphoria.

Anjali's current thought process-

Arnav honey, I love you-almost as much as I love my pooja thaali's. Yes. That much. You're my little brother, my best friend, my rock in our times of trouble and pain. We've bonded beyond normal brother-sister relationships. I love you. But how is it that all of a sudden, I'm not your priority anymore? You're caring more about Khushi than me? I don't care if she's a hot piece of ass you want to tap, don't you know you're going to be an uncle?! Don't you understand your responsibilities right now chotey?

I am pregnant, hormonal and incredibly pissed off that my husband prefers your wife over me. Right now, I need your support. I love you chotey and I will always need you, but excuse me for not believing your story without proof.

At the end of the day, I will believe and always side with my husband not you
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It's OK for Anjali to stay loyal to her husband, yet it breaks her heart when she see's Arnav trying to make amends with his wife...

This brother-sister relationship is a two-way street, so sorry for disagreeing with your viewpoint. But in my opinion, Anjali is bypassing Clingsville and is heading straight to SelfishTown.


Not only selfish town - but she is making a hole in the boat that carries the whole IPK team - the boat will sink...b'coz of ...well...you know...how may times do I say it ...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Mahi122


Not only selfish town - but she is making a hole in the boat that carries the whole IPK team - the boat will sink...b'coz of ...well...you know...how may times do I say it ...


So tired of saying her name - Eureka !!! :-
Kushi is pretending to be angry with Arnav because of "You Know Who"....😆

new name for Anjali di...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Lyraa99

Leaving with Shyam would have meant leaving Arnav cz they wouldnt have been on the best terms.., leaving for husbands house is a complete different scenario all together. If u have noticed the bro- sis relationship, even when anjali was throwing arnav out of the room, he was shattered.
Yes her bro was kidnapped.. but has Anjali heard any explanation- other than accusation.. An accusation which doesnt have any proof.. Arnav himself doesnt know if shyam kidnapped him... Arnav's belief is based on Khushi' s word... How can she believe that when she herself knows how blind love can get. (she doesnt want to believe shyam is wrong.. she might think arnav doesnt want to believe Khushi is wrong)
The situation anjali is in-- husband cheater, pregnant handicapped.. she has a lot on her plate without wondering who kidnapped Arnav .. she has just realized that she has been living a lie..
Anjali doesnt know what Arnav or Khushi has gone through. If she wants the attention, Arnav has always given her from so many years, how does that make her selfish? she has every reason to hate Khushi, how does that make her jealous?


Why isn't she demanding proof and explanations from ASR now that she seems fine atleast physically?

We don't mind dialogues like "I hate khushi" but she's questioning how can Khushi be more important? That's clearly jealousy.
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Posted: 13 years ago

I just Loved your Post!!!
Has really made me think twice now!!!

Just coz we love arhi only thing we focus on tv is them but only when we consider ourselves in anjali's shoes will we know that her behaviour is justified!!!
WEll SAID!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
well said agree with you - said same in my post
Edited by VasantiLad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with you and have said it repeatedly that I will hold judgment on Anjali till she knows the full truth.

She has always been sheltered to the point where the thought of being a single mother sent her to the clinic for an abortion. I understand the pain the frustration that she is going through and hold Raizada family and Arnav responsible for the way she is behaving right now. Arnav needs to tell her the full truth because now is the time for her to gather her inner strength and be independent for the sake of her child.

Arnav in the past had his life revolve around Anjali only because he had no one else in life who can even come close to being as important as Anjali. Today, he has found his soul mate and even though Anjali still remains the most important person in his life (shown by his first slap to shyam for his sister, and him blasting Khushi) Khushi is not very far behind. Now the only thing remains for him to find is BALANCE between both relations. Anjali also had Shyam and Arnav in her life and many times we saw Arnav step back and let Shyam take care of Anjali (giving him right of a husband). Arnav gave the couple space they needed for their relationship to grow then why can't Anjali do so? I know Anjali is hurt right now but it's about time she realize that Arnav also have a life.

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