Who is at fault?Arnav? anjali?or as always Khushi?

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Manal Ali

@.YixingsManal.

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Posted: 13 years ago

this is the discussion going on in the Forum ! I never Make such Posts ! against 1 person !

there were times When I was disappointed with Khushi! during the OTT Tracks !

there Were time when i angry at Anjali or Arnav Them selves ! yes there will be time when Character Piss the hell outta u ! and Afta Watching yesterdays epi I wanna clear 1 thing

I know Since my Last 2 Post ! people might be thinking I'm against Anjali ! i think she is rong ! n Over reacting !

No PEOPLE ! I'm a Girl Myself ! and personally I KNOW how a woman Feels When Some1 even tell her that her hubby is having an Affair ! that 1 THING Shatters her whole life ! I personally saw my Mother Suffer ! n What Anjali did today With her Abortion act ! I saw my own Mother almost kill herself ! I will not support my father ! cuz he proved ! that men can be jerks ! n I still stick to that!

Coming to Anjali ! this behavior of her was expected cuz The girl has a past that none of us yet Know ! we don't know what happened to her ! and esp a woman like Anjali ! who ONLY saw the Saint side of her Husband ! will never Accept the fact that her husband can ever be rong !

She was Shattered ! she is sticking to her words she told Arnav Once upon a time tht there will be a time when the person you love the most ! is going away from you ! and its like you will die every Sec without him!! today We saw ! why she said those words ! today we know how shyam has become her life ! I'm not saying her going to Abort her kid was a right step ! No it wasn't ! but she is not in her sense !

I will never Blame Anjali for her behavior ! n her indirectly! blaming Khushi is wrong ! but later she will Regret !! cuz We ALL know SHYAM HAS to come back ! he will be Back to RM ! and that is when Anjali thru her own eyes Will See her husbands True color ! and that time we will NOT see Anjali Break down ! We will see the stronger woman in anjali ! cuz once she will thru her own eyes see his real face ! she will know how much khushi suffered ! cuz a woman always understands another woman's pain ! but now we can not expect this from anjali ! cuz she never saw the bad side of shyam ! but yes she did see khushi in a rong way ! n the situation always made khushi look like she is after Shyam ! so her behavior towards khushi is not fully rong ! but no khushi is not at fault n we know that !

so for me Anjali is not wrong but yes she is suffering !

Now Coming to Arnav and Khushi together !

I usually Have something to Always Defend Arnav's Act !! but today unfortunately ! i have nothing to Defend this guy ! today being a girl myself ! those words he said yet again stabbed me !

Yes Arnav is Disturbed With What Anjali did ! but what is Khushi's Fault ! n will this guy ever Learn From his Past !! does he realize he is doing same mistake again ! same mistake of mistreating the girl ! Today his words were SO WRONG ! he indirectly accused the victim herslef !! yet again it was proved that a girl n her innocence always needs proof ! a girl Will always be accused ! its like a girl always Invites the guys to come fall for her ! ! and i know how Khushi has felt !! she was always accused by All ! 1st during the Payal 1st wedding ! she went to save her Wedding ! instead ! she was accused n it was her Name that got ruined ! n thn shyam Fiasco !!

I never say anything About Arnav ! but this is second time Arnav has hurt me !! 1st when he Called her characterless ! and Today yet again with all his words he said ! even Tho He regretted at the end ! BUT for how long will khushi Hide her tears behind her smile ! n pretend like he never said those to her ? ! for how long will she Keep forgiving him n ignore his Harsh Words !!? is this what she deserves ? ! is this What she will always Get ? no ! Now its high time Arnav Takes back his Words ! n Realize how much she means to him ! n REGRET FOR EVER SAYING THOSE Words !! I know coming epi's We will be getting the most awaited Redemption Track ! n I Was Always against redemption ! thinking Arnav Khushi understand each other ! but After yesterdays epi ! I demand for 1 ! n a STRONG one ! where Khushi Should not Easily Forgive him ! n teach him how he should RESPECT her !!

Phew Im Done ! for me Anjali n Khushi Today r NOT AT ALL @ Fault ! nor Arnav is Fully ! but His TEMPER is what I have Issue With ! n he should learn to RESPECT Khushi ! n its high Time the girl should get the Respect she deserves !!

Plus Guys this DOES NOT Mean I made this post AGAINST Arnav ! but PLEASE BE CAREFUL with The Words you use ! PLEASE !! mature discussion is Welcome here !

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@rushshri

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Posted: 13 years ago

no one absolutely no one. I have made a post on this.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3088962/no-one-is-wrong-kudos-cv

my reasons r stated in this post.

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she_ratchet

@she_ratchet

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Posted: 13 years ago

100% correct. Arnav needs to make up his mind...soon :@ he needs to stop switching sides :| and khushi?! I HATE how the whole family just turned on her! ESP Mamijee! W*F :@@@ and they need to get over it..:| RES for more

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Manal Ali

@.YixingsManal.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rushshri
no one absolutely no one. I have made a post on this.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3088962/no-one-is-wrong-kudos-cv

my reasons r stated in this post.

you said everything in sucha simple way ! n i agree with u ! but yet a bit disappointed with Arnav :(

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Manal Ali

@.YixingsManal.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: shilpaaa.
100% correct. Arnav needs to make up his mind...soon :@ he needs to stop switching sides :| and khushi?! I HATE how the whole family just turned on her! ESP Mamijee! W*F :@@@ and they need to get over it..:| RES for more

arnav is with khushi ! but I mean he should think about khushi once n listen to her ! he never listens to her n thn bang he regrets later :/ ! mami Fine ! she was always like this ! plus she doesnt Knw arnav knws about everything about shyam during Payash wedding ! but Nani knows everything n yet i hate seeing no concern for khushi from her side 😭

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Huma

@Huma-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Manu loved ur post agree with each n every word! u knw me even i always defend Arnav but wht he did yest that was completely wrong yes he felt bad in the end but u can't take ur words back! in ur last post i said that its not right tym for khushi to leave coz ASR need her but now i dont want Khushi to stay their enough now she hav to teach mr raizada how to respect ur wife!

manu tight Hugsss 🤗🤗

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Sanjeeda

@.Sad.But.True.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Totally agree with everything...Nice post..I could have understood if ASR wwas just angry but those words 🤢

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lylow

@lylow

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Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with you...now that I managed to calm myself down and think rationally...I feeling a bit of pity for Anjali...lets face it she is blindly in love with shyam, so this is a hard blow for her...I just wish anjali would do some soul searching, re-evaluate her life...and figure out everything soon..

Coming to khushi, she was at fault for not listening to Nani..but khushi never meant any harm, she was just being an angel as always and caring for Anjali...I think its in her nature to always want to help others..she just cannot bear to see others in pain...So it definitely was not khushi's fault!

Coming to Arnav, lets face it...he crossed all the limits with his thoughtless words! I HATED WHAT HE SAID,NOT HIM...no matter how mad, desperate and angry he was he should not have gone to that extent Blaming her for something that clearly was not khushi's fault! My problem with him is when anjali is in the picture he never spares a thought to khushi's condition...its always only Di...for the love of god Arnie boy, she went through hell to save you and you have not yet even thanked her...

Im all for the redemption track...and after yesterdays epi..I want it to be extra hard for Arnav, no matter how much I love Arnav, I cannot ignore the ultimate insult he gave to khushi...to me it seemed that he was implying that khushi asked for shyam's cringe worthy obsession...

But Im sure Arnav would redeem himself, he just needs to work extra hard for it

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mishti_17

@mishti_17

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Posted: 13 years ago

Its not about whom being at fault? Its just about expressing honest views yaar.. Back to the time when Khushi was irritating the hell out of Arnav, I was pissed off at her.. Even in the Wednesday epi I was angry at her.. Why did she go to Anjali's room when she was told not to? Let me keep Nani's words out of this.. I am annoyed at her for making Khushi go thru something she never did.. I mean, when Khushi is not at fault why stop her from going to Anjali is my question.. Jaane de.. Track lose kar rahi hoon main.. The same way, I was and still am mad at Arnav for saying all that to Khushi.. Me saying that I didnt see this coming wud be a false statement.. I saw his anger coming but what he said was totally unexpected.. 😵 I never expected him to question the very existence of their love and the bond they share "Kaash main tumse kabhi mila nahi hota" Does Arnav realize how hurting it will be for a person like Khushi who just has HIM as her support.. ? Him saying all this will break the person she is and the strong front she is trying to put... I didnt expect this from Arnav and maybe thats why its hurting so much... Its not about bashing Arnav, I can never do that.. Its about the character and he is wrong at this point.. Isnt he? Even Khushi was wrong once upon a time and we were mad at her too.. So, atleast from my side Im reacting the way it does.. It hurts and its reflecting.. Coming to Anjali, I seriously have no idea what she is up to..? She wants the creep back and she wanted to abort the child coz no one respects the childs father in that house.. She does respect him a lot still and she wants him back is what she wants to convey.. She even went on to say ki "Kisiki nazar lag gayi" Like we dont know whom she was hinting towards... Ive lost my hope on Anjali.. She is posing as the biggest threat to ArHi unknowingly...🥱

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SStephy

@SStephy

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I agree...

Anjali: I don't want to blame her because she doesn't seem to be in a right state of mind due to the Shyam revelation and her pregnancy. I guess she might need some professional help to deal with her situation.

Khushi: While she did make a mistake of going to Anjali's room, her mistake does not justify her being lashed out at and being labelled as the root of the problem.

Arnav: While I agree that he is burdened with a lot of problems reg the Shyam situation and his Di... but this does not justify him lashing out at or taking his frustration at Khushi. That was totally wrong of him...