Who is at fault?Arnav? anjali?or as always Khushi? - Page 5

Originally posted by: incandescent

Manal a big hug for this post. 🤗🤗

I admire you and your posts very much because you never hesitate to speak your mind. 😃

You know what I really feel? I feel everyone is at fault somewhere.

Whatever Anjali condition is, it's a result of her bad past, her way of thinking and even her own family. I won't lie that I am really mad at Anjali right now. You know why? Because there are people like her in this world who has the strength in them but they don't use it in the right way. She never took charge of her life instead she chose to live in her world of delusions. The Raizada's are also at fault hear because they never tried to make Anjali strong. They saw her become weak and instead of telling her to face every situation and stand up for herself, they allowed her to become weaker by feeding her fantasies.

They reason I am mad at her is because she is making Arnav's life more difficult. She doesn't see the damage she is doing to him. This is only the beginning; she is going to make things worse for Arnav.

As for Arnav, yes I am angry at him to. I am angry because I have a short fuse just like him. He has a long way to go in terms of understanding Khushi. HE LOVES HER A LOT. There is no doubt about that, but he hasn't reached the stage where he can put Khushi or her needs first. I am angry because after the kidnapping fiasco I thought he matured a bit and would understand Khushi better. Even I never wanted a redemption track, but now I do and it is not about feminism it is about love. He has to grow out of the phase where he gets mad and lashes out at Khushi. When he did it in the past, it was understandable but after all this he just can't do that. He shouldn't have said those words. He has to understand Khushi's pain too. He has to understand that Khushi is also a victim of Shyam just as much as Anjali is.

Just because his sister is weak and Khushi is strong it doesn't mean she isn't hurt. In fact Khushi has suffered more because of Shyam. I know many people will say that he doesn't have to say sorry and he is going to make up in his own way but I can no longer agree with that. I know action speaks louder than words but if action was everything that the word sorry would not have existed.

I love him a lot. But If I can criticize Khushi and be angry at her when she is wrong (which I have done many times), I can be angry at Arnav too. I love them both and I am not partial. Why would I be partial when this is Arhi's story?

As for Khushi, I really can't help but feel sorry for Khushi the most at this moment. If I say otherwise, I'd just be lying to the forum and no one would know. But that won't change the fact that I am feeling sorry for Khushi the most. She is silently suffering and she can't share her pain with anyone. Arnav does not fully understand her condition because he is torn between her and her sister.

I know how it feels when your intentions are good but everyone misunderstands you. I have been through such situations myself. Right now when I see Khushi and I see myself in her.

Arnav does not realize where he is wrong and when he does it's going to kill him inside. I know I am going to feel for him more and cry for him at that time. I can't stay angry with him for too long 😳

I have read many comments where people say don't take it seriously. It's just a show. If I stop taking it seriously then I won't be watching it. I love the show, I am passionate about and I take it seriously. That's the way I am. I don't do things I don't feel strongly about.

Sorry for venting in your thread.

Originally posted by: ..Manal..

Fari 🤗 !! thanks Re <3 I Can't keep things to my self ! but unlike some others ! I knw How to throw my frustration out in a mature way ! cuz u said it ! this show is about arnav n Khushi !! both can be annoying n irritate u 1 min ! n next min u will love thm again <3

now coming to Anjali !! what u mentioned ! thn i will blame the FAMILY instead her ! they never made her STRONG n see the Real World !! they pampered her alot ! they should afta all tht happened to her ! now they should force her to see the Real evil world out there ! !cuz anjali believes there is no bad in this Universe !! they need to show her both exist !! cuz Im hating how she is Indirectly making Khushi the bad 1 out there !!

arnav !! ditto ! if we can criticize khushi for her ott-ness thn Arnav too for his kameenapan 😆 !! i mean NO BOY u have no right to hurt her like this again n again ! n as u said ! I thought he will learn n WILL never do this mistake afta kidnapping but arghh >< !

but its Khushi my heart cries ! man i can not ignore her pain ! some people tell me ! why i can only see khushi's Pain n not Anjali !! but open ur eyes people ! anjali has a shoulder to cry ! what about khushi ! she thinks she has PAYAL ! but Kameena Akaash is stopping her ! she has the Gupta's but doesn't Wanna hurt thm ! where SHE THOUGHT she Has Arnav !! But BANG look what he did ! the girl is left alone as always :( !!

Originally posted by: Harshitha

lovely posts both of u

the way u explained is just brilliant