IP REDUX; Nutcracker !! - Page 119

Originally posted by: Nareshkota

In a relationship , when two are having a fight.. then if one is aggressive then the other can be regressive and make their point slowly when the other one cools down..

But here both Arnav and Kushi doesn't know this aspect and then are paying for that..

Originally posted by: tanthya

Mami will alwasy be a Narad Muni..She will foment trouble but that trouble will lead to Good...

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

I think both Khushi and ASR have their unique self-defense mechanisms..when ASR is hurt, he will end up taking all his anger out on the person in that very moment so he can regret it in peace later😆 With Khushi she will bottle up her hurt thinking 'I am doing it for their good, what can go wrong' and keep blind faith in her DM...but the hurt will have its own twisted way of affecting the lives of people around her...ASR's problem is that he hurts too much, and khushi's problem is she treats her pain like a stranger whom she does not know but keeps on stalking her...

Well said IB 👏👏👏👏👏

Edited by nivedha84 - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -sylph-

ur so right. And moreover khushi wud be the last person anjali wud wanto see now, and hear to move on about Shyam frm this very girl on whom her husband lusts on??

I hope somebody steels Kushi's fix it all glue and she learns she is nt right always.

Originally posted by: Nia.D

On a light note, Khushi is a late bloomer... It's always Arnav first who realizes, grows and changes, while Khushi takes triple that amount of time to understand, develop, and grow... even with their 'love' - it was Arnav who first recognized it... Khushi came about it only just a few months back when he was kidnapped!!

So, she'll realize her mistakes only much later on... my poor lil Khushi - a late bloomer! 😆

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

Its easier to be angry at ASR because Arnav has been a jerk to khushi right from the beginning..

Remember the first episodes of IPK? Khushi in the green dress, and Arnav immediately jumped to the conclusion that she was there to sabotage his show? He ended up humiliating her, and payal's marriage broke. Arnav has always jumped to conclusions, and Khushi has been unable to resolve his tensions for him. If Arnav thinks that Khushi and shyam are having an affair, Khushi will NEVER straight-out say that 'Dude, your BIL is forcing himself upon me'. Instead she will think of what Anji will think and what Arnav will think and stop thinking by herself. Khushi just isn't a straightforward kind of woman. She will always think twice because she doesn't want to 'destroy' anyone, and yet that's exactly what he will do. Even when ASR was threatening her with Payash divorce, if she really had a steely resolve she would have thought to herself, 'This is PAYASH's problem, and how can Arnav do anything without providing an explanation?'

If during ArHi wedding, Khushi would have simply gone to the family and said 'Your son is forcing me to marry him, do something!' they would have demanded an explanation from ASR and things could have gone differently. But Khushi accepts ASR as God. She never questions his motives.

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

Thats the whole point of 'opposites attract' in a relationship..😆

Originally posted by: redwine1

MY point for a long time here is ... why r v looking for more villains of the piece

One day it is ASR ..

One day it is Anjali ..

One day it is Khushi ...

They all are humans reacting to a situation in front of them .. in the best way they understand ..

Does ASR .. have to be wrong for KHUSHI to be right .. NO they can both be RIGHT OR WRONG ... 😃

Originally posted by: b.sarika2

No need to apologise, this is free for all discussion😊

See 6 months contract to I also didnt understand at all and I had written a few post at that time as well.

About Arnav and Khushi both being wrong, yes they both but the degree varies. Inany case both are paying the price of their actions, thats what it is about😃

Originally posted by: iritz

Aww... That's why we are soul sisters darling !!! 🤗 I was thinking...we are trying to justify these characters who are not even human, just a figment of someone's imagination... and if they had done what we think they SHOULD have done back then... how would the drama move ahead !!! 😆