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tanthya

@tanthya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1161

Originally posted by: meghavn

Why cant he think/knw she needs assurance as well... she is feeling guilty.. she is insecure...so wht he did? made her worst fears true by telling YES? she is also human... she also has feelings... she is strong & hides behind a smile tht doesn't mean she is not hurt... Anji crying her way for showing she is sad... Khushi is also vulnerable... she also needs solace...

I'm not justifying K actions... & nt blaming for A for shouting...

Megs..

We can just reverse this and Pose it for Khushi too...

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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1162

Originally posted by: Nareshkota

Hope he will be highly successful..

this time around he will be i wrote it in my post in last redux that he will make her learn to use her head more than her emotions...she has learned a lot during his kidnapping but that is only against the enemy...she needs to learn how to tackle yourloved ones, close-relationships with a balance of emotions and sense and sensibility

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Nina90

@Nina90

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1163

Originally posted by: Nareshkota

then I feel Arnav needs to be teacher for her and make her into a well intelligent woman..

That would be dangerous; then she'd close up when faced with trouble, like he does. And her habit of meddling in other people's lives wouldn't subside because bottomline is, Arnav did the same with Anjali.

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TheFaerieQueen

@TheFaerieQueen

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1164

Originally posted by: meghavn

Why cant he think/knw she needs assurance as well... she is feeling guilty.. she is insecure...so wht he did? made her worst fears true by telling YES? she is also human... she also has feelings... she is strong & hides behind a smile tht doesn't mean she is not hurt... Anji crying her way for showing she is sad... Khushi is also vulnerable... she also needs solace...

I'm not justifying K actions... & nt blaming for A for shouting...

Megha, What I have noted is that she was feeling guilty for shaym confrontation episode not going to Anjali's room episode. She dint realize her folly.

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nancynair

@nancynair

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#1165

Originally posted by: tanthya

I think Nancy..Arnav understood that Anjali needed him and not a Gynec ...Had she been a Psychologist ..I would have agreed with You..But Arnav knows how to handle his hysterical sister and not a Gynecologist ...

Anjali needs counseling but not when she is rebelling passively... Her rebellion breaks down when she asks Arnav to get Shyam back..That is when ..family shud have rallied around her ...

A practicing gynec is also competent to counsel and handle all aspects of mental trauma related to expecting moms ,

ASR thot he knows best and even Khushi thot the same.
Both guilty of same crime.Intentions to dono ka i same nah

But from the FB s of ASR I thot he understood Khushi's POV

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Lakshmi Chandra Naresh Kota

@Nareshkota

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#1166

Originally posted by: meghavn

Why cant he think/knw she needs assurance as well... she is feeling guilty.. she is insecure...so wht he did? made her worst fears true by telling YES? she is also human... she also has feelings... she is strong & hides behind a smile tht doesn't mean she is not hurt... Anji crying her way for showing she is sad... Khushi is also vulnerable... she also needs solace...

I'm not justifying K actions... & nt blaming for A for shouting...

Yes she is hurt but she neeeds to understand.. that righteousness to you need not be right to all the people..

Every person wil have different sensibilties..

When Arnav is blasting like that she should have said I am sorry i will never do that again.. but no she needs to say I am right I am always right..

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Megha

@IndigoBlues

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1167

I think both Khushi and ASR have their unique self-defense mechanisms..when ASR is hurt, he will end up taking all his anger out on the person in that very moment so he can regret it in peace later😆 With Khushi she will bottle up her hurt thinking 'I am doing it for their good, what can go wrong' and keep blind faith in her DM...but the hurt will have its own twisted way of affecting the lives of people around her...ASR's problem is that he hurts too much, and khushi's problem is she treats her pain like a stranger whom she does not know but keeps on stalking her...

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--Anna--

@--Anna--

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Posted: 13 years ago

#1168

Originally posted by: redwine1

Darling .. read the last bit of my post ..

.. aren't circumstances the biggest villains of the piece ???

I am with you completely ... there is ONLY ONE WRONG IN THE SERIAL .. SHYAM MANOHAR JHA ... the rest all are victim of the circumstance they have been in at the point of time ...
U r Fan of ASR ... baby .. ASR is patterned on me ..😉 ( at least thats what i feel) .. so i dont blame him either ..

MY point for a long time here is ... why r v looking for more villains of the piece
One day it is ASR ..
One day it is Anjali ..
One day it is Khushi ...

They all are humans reacting to a situation in front of them .. in the best way they understand ..

Does ASR .. have to be wrong for KHUSHI to be right .. NO they can both be RIGHT OR WRONG ... 😃

Aree they both are two idiots who are wrong! 😆 😆 The best part is that there intentions are right so they cannot be villain. 😉

But I do get carried away when I see harsh posts on ASR! I understand him more - infact I am exactly like him! So I do not like it when I read that he committed a biggest mistake and - you know poor Khushi - ASR needs a whack! If you can try and understand Khushi - why not understand him as well! I never say ASR is right - because I know he is wrong! What I cannot accept is that Khushi is right when she is wrong and that is why comparisons happen between Arnav and Khushi. 😆

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Lakshmi Chandra Naresh Kota

@Nareshkota

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#1169

Originally posted by: Nina90

That would be dangerous; then she'd close up when faced with trouble, like he does. And her habit of meddling in other people's lives wouldn't subside because bottomline is, Arnav did the same with Anjali.

I am talking about the right aspects and knowing when to interfere and when to stop interfring I believe Arnav knows that well.. Arnav never involved himself too much into Anjali's life it was Anjali's need that her chotte needs to know everything that made him meddle with his sister's life..

Had Anjali showed some strength right from the beginning he could have let her be herself.. you will see this aspet more as the story progresses I feel so..

Edited by Nareshkota - 13 years ago

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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#1170

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues
I think both Khushi and ASR have their unique self-defense mechanisms..when ASR is hurt, he will end up taking all his anger out on the person in that very moment so he can regret it in peace later😆 With Khushi she will bottle up her hurt thinking 'I am doing it for their good, what can go wrong' and keep blind faith in her DM...but the hurt will have its own twisted way of affecting the lives of people around her...ASR's problem is that he hurts too much, and khushi's problem is she treats her pain like a stranger whom she does not know but keeps on stalking her...

very Insighphoool 😃

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