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Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

I think both Khushi and ASR have their unique self-defense mechanisms..when ASR is hurt, he will end up taking all his anger out on the person in that very moment so he can regret it in peace later😆 With Khushi she will bottle up her hurt thinking 'I am doing it for their good, what can go wrong' and keep blind faith in her DM...but the hurt will have its own twisted way of affecting the lives of people around her...ASR's problem is that he hurts too much, and khushi's problem is she treats her pain like a stranger whom she does not know but keeps on stalking her...

@Underlined: Its her inherent wish to have everybody around her happy, IB! I don't think that's wrong; we all deal with grief in our own way but what's wrong is expecting a mirror of your ideals and principles in everyone. Isn't that what her problem with Arnav was/still is?

Originally posted by: meghavn

Why cant he think/knw she needs assurance as well... she is feeling guilty.. she is insecure...so wht he did? made her worst fears true by telling YES? she is also human... she also has feelings... she is strong & hides behind a smile tht doesn't mean she is not hurt... Anji crying her way for showing she is sad... Khushi is also vulnerable... she also needs solace...

I'm not justifying K actions... & nt blaming for A for shouting...

Originally posted by: Nareshkota

I am talking about the right aspects and knowing when to interfere and when to stop interfring I believe Arnav knows that well.. Arnav never involved himself too much into Anjali's life it was Anjali's need that her chotte needs to know everything that made him meddle with his sister's life..

Had Anjali showed some strength right from the beginning he could have let her be herself.. you will see this aspet more as the story progresses I feel so..

I have to disagree on this, actually. Arnav might be good with knowing when/when not to interfere in other's lives but with Anjali, he loses it. Anjali was constantly around Arnav because she felt he was too lonely and needed to be drawn out and she never meddled in his serious decisions; she merely supported him and tried to keep the family's oppositions at bay. In a way, she cossetted him, yes.

But Arnav deciding to take the fate of Anjali's married life into his hands without telling her? Is that a right decision about interference? Granted she was pregnant; isn't that even more reason for her to know?

When you treat people like glass dolls, they will break one day and the consequences will have to be faced...

Sorry if I sounded rude, but I had to disagree on Arnav about this aspect.

Originally posted by: Nina90

I have to disagree on this, actually. Arnav might be good with knowing when/when not to interfere in other's lives but with Anjali, he loses it. Anjali was constantly around Arnav because she felt he was too lonely and needed to be drawn out and she never meddled in his serious decisions; she merely supported him and tried to keep the family's oppositions at bay. In a way, she cossetted him, yes.

But Arnav deciding to take the fate of Anjali's married life into his hands without telling her? Is that a right decision about interference? Granted she was pregnant; isn't that even more reason for her to know?

When you treat people like glass dolls, they will break one day and the consequences will have to be faced...

Sorry if I sounded rude, but I had to disagree on Arnav about this aspect.

Nina has a point there. Arnav has always been over-protective of his sister.

According to me, there was no need for Anjali and Shyam to stay with the familly in the first place-- they should have stayed in their own house, with their own income. There are thousands of wives whose husbands have touring jobs-- very few of them are invited to stay in their maternal homes as a result.

As a result of their (mysterious) sad past, both Anjali and Arnav have become mutually clingy and interfering-- because they were the only survivors of a disaster in their family with only each other to turn to.

Originally posted by: tanthya

Mami will alwasy be a Narad Muni..She will foment trouble but that trouble will lead to Good...

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