Khushi was at fault today

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fan145

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

i agree the 3rd point othr i am with khushi

first :khushi sat outside she was'nt eavesdropping ..arnav knw she was thr or if he felt like tht he cud have closed the door

second:she showed her suppport to him in thick and thin thts all ..she did patni dharam thts it..

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PiscineMolitor

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

I don't think you're a basher.. but hear me out..

It is in khushis character to care about everyone and see them happy like herself.. she wasn't purposely sitting outside to hear their conversation.. she wasn't even eavesdropping- she was having a breakdown..

secondly- when she heard that anjali hadn't eaten, it was a natural and impulsive decision to feed her.. i don't think nani's word of advice even crossed her mind..

thirdly- when arnav left her after putting her to sleep, she knew that he was visibly upset.. heck, she knew it since anjali told arnav to leave her alone..

but she HAS to cofort him like he would if she were in a similar situation.

CUT KHUSHI SOME SLACK for gods sake!! she's done SO much and been through so much, and yet she is helping the family deal with it as much as possible.. even if she was told not to go to anjalis room, the decision to give her food was spontaneous..

pls share ur views..

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Deboleena Chakraborty

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

I agree with you. I was also not quite appreciating Khushi's behaviour - and today she crossed it. She should have at least obeyed Nani's orders. I think she needs to control her emotions and stop thinking that she has to take all the responsibility of RM.

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waterunder11

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

The first two were not entirely correct but i understand why she did it. Shes a big part of the fiasco that happened and she loves her husband and sil alot. So its understandable. The third i guess now im whatever with what she did but it was a very careless mistake. Someone told you to stay away and they had a legit reason but she let her caring personality take over her. I hope she stops right here. Khushi needs to understand that maybe anjali is not even mad at her or hurt by her but the presence of khushi will just bring back memries and trigger irrational ideas and thoughts like today. Khushis little survival speech im sure is the reason anjali decided on the abortion.

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MissElektra101

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Lol, I thought I was the only one.

Yeah, she's being way too clingy at the moment and all these points annoyed me too. Mostly the third one. Naniji has specifically asked her NOT to go to her room as it might upset her... when did she become a rebel? lol.

Oh well, hopefully all the Rabba Ve moments will make up for it.

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@-Sanjana-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Paarijat

I guess she just tries to fix everything for the better...plus I think it is part of her upbringing...she grew up in a neighbourhood where people always comfort each other...she wouldn't understand the elite society's need for privacy.

I think she needs to let go occasionally...if someone doesn't eat..they will have to learn to respect their body and do the needful...you cannot force them to eat.

Yes, agreed. And Anjali is not so young that she needs to be babysat by the family.

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Fuj

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

I even found it odd to why she was eaves dropping on the sibblings convo, but if u think about it, its not really bad! She was just really curious to know how arnav is treated by anjali! She was worried for arnav being rejected by anjali, she wanted to see how anjali will react!

Stairs thing, well yeah but if we see someone we love to be depressed, its only natural to go to them and try consoling. Plus she was depressed too, she neeeded a shoulder aswell and she only had arnav!

Today what she did, was wrong wrong wrong! Nani had told her not to but yet she still went to anjali! Not done. Really didnt like that! But oh well , i can never dislike khushi so not happening 😛

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sayli

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

i do not agree with u on first and second but third i do!

i mean girl come on u know the person doesnt want see u like u r the last person in the world she wuld like to see still u go in and blabber!😡

it was stupid on her part today but again she is khushi i cant get angry on her!!!!😳

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Niva1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

I agree with the third point - First pt I am in the middle, But I think it was ok that she went to sit with him in your second point.

But I do agree - when there are so many people in the house to take care of Anjali, Khushi should stay away from here, Nani also told her to do so. Khushi has tendency to disrespect other people's opinion, even elders. As she did with Nani's advice. I remember once she changed the outlook of Arnav's party, which was clearly not her place. So yes, sometimes Khushi is too nosey. I felt for Anjali in that scene. I want Khushi to get her due of apology from every one, but I don't think Anjali should be treated to Khushi's presence all the time coz that would hurt anybody, imagine a weak girl like Anjali tolerating that.