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Posted: 13 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: anyafan

No oneis expecting Jim to grovel and cry ... Not true to his character. But we do expect him to recall how unfair he has been to Khushi and feel tad bit bad about it...


Instead of replaying not being called chotte once by his sister...sheesh get a grip!

why should he remember that he was mean and unfair to Khushi, when Khushi is doing nothing ot make him feel that he should remember that at the moment. maybe in the future when some injustice is being done to khushi he will bring those incidents to mind and will protect and stand by her. he knows that his khushi is a strong women. his equal in every way. his Di is a broken doll, he is not sorry for trowing Shayam out. he is sad that his di is hurt and in pain. he has to fix what is broken in order to mend the fence and make it whole. (metephor for his family)
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Posted: 13 years ago
#42
Yes, there was nothing wrong in what Arnav thought at the time. But was it right that he forced Khushi into a 6 month marriage? Was it right that because of him she almost lost the support of her family? Was it right that he destroyed by far one of the most special days in a girl's life? The marriage day... it will never come back. All the dreams she cherished... it won't come back... it won't be the same anymore even if they do have a re-marriage... will she forget under what circumstances her marriage initially happened in...? No...
He owes her at least an apology yaar...
weddings are overrated, truly, they are the dreamsof rich princess to spend papa's money. what khushi wanted was a beautiful wedding dress, and a groom who admired her in it. all she wanted is that her husband loved her so much that before she could ask for something he got it for her. that she always had her husband support. that before she could tell her hearts desiers the husband would place them in fornt of her.
it wasent the wedding that she described to her friends that she wanted it was just her fantasy
what she really want she described to her mother.and what Arnav herd and was touched by. and that is what he is trying to fulfil. wedding ceremonies have no meaning if the marriage is not on sound ground. eg Shayam & Anjali. Akaash & Payal.
Arnav & Khushi the marriage took place without mantars, but in front of Agni, the use of mangalsutra and sindoor, the importance of which Khushi is only aware of. and Arnav is aware of only what Khushi believs in. in that he is her husband and she is his wife. a relationship they have both given high value to. what more can be said they are the stongest couple at the moment in the family.
so dream weddings overated
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Posted: 13 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: Deb_Barun_Arnav

ASR's caring and trying to make his wife happy is the sign of Apology or guilty. He does not need more. He has suffered a lot, no more suffering. If people want ASR to say sorry then Khushi should also say sorry for all this mess, because once she covered this truth for the sake of Anjali and today she openly said everything in front of everyone because she missed her husband, he was kidnapped. So now disclosing Shyam's truth in front of Anjali was not a problem for Khushi. If that time she thought of Anjali then what happened now?Arnav and Khushi knows very well each other, they love, understand, they don't need any explanation, any justification or any apology for each other.



Hi!

If Arnav is being more tender and loving towards Khushi it simply means he's now more comfortable in expressing his love to her which isn't out of guilt. ASR may have suffered, but he's inflicted that pain on himself by self-destructing ASR style. To help him get out of that funk, he needs to battle his own inner demons. But to even the playing field and wipe the slate clean, he definitely needs to show some remorse and regret in his actions to Khushi. I'm not saying go roaming around the streets shirtless with 'I love Khushi' written on his chest or even big romantic gestures. Arnav needs to admit to KHUSHI-not nani that what he did WAS wrong. Not SHAYAD
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Posted: 13 years ago
#44
I don't want to insult anyone's intelligence but I don't think you are comprehending what we're saying. Just because you think saying sorry will somehow make him "lesser" in your eyes doesn't mean KHUSHI doesn't deserve it. If he can cry and beg to his sister, he's gotta do much more for Khushi.

He is not God...get off your high horse and accept your grave mistakes and regret them, like normal people do. He doesn't necessarily have to say the word sorry if its bothering you so much...in fact, saying sorry isn't enough. He needs to go crazy with guilt and regret for everything he's done to her, for no fault of her own.

You all felt so bad when Anjali called him "Arnav" yesterday and he looked hurt...because everyone knows he was just trying to protect her. Anjali barely did anything cruel to him.

But what he did to Khushi was cruel on every level. He hurt her badly for months...physically, emotionally and verbally. He ruined her life, married her and made sure she knew it wasn't out of love, but out of hate because he thinks she's a gold-digger and a s**t (he implied that with his "tum jaisi ladki" line).

Why is he feeling bad for Anjali and having all these flashbacks when he didn't even hurt her? He tried to open her eyes and save her from a husband who would gladly murder her. Maybe that's why most of us don't feel sorry for Anjali. Khushi is the one who has been hurt repeatedly...all because of a stupid misunderstanding on his part...which he so casually mentioned to nani today. It's bull.

He BETTER regret how much he hurt Khushi. I'm losing respect for him with these episodes. First he kept his mouth shut when Shyam ripped her apart. Now he's too busy feeling guilty about his sister while just tossing aside Khushi's feelings and how much he hurt her. This brother sister jodi is highly annoying me right now...I need to get off this topic.
Edited by AyeReKhushi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#45
I agree -- after his acknowledgement in front of Nani .. i'm all for ASR. He is one to not bow to anyone and for him to accept his wifey just like that prove that he is man enough to take back what he said about her too. WELL SAID POST .. i love your take on this <3
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Posted: 13 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

I don't want to insult anyone's intelligence but I don't think you are comprehending what we're saying. Just because you think saying sorry will somehow make him "lesser" in your eyes doesn't mean KHUSHI doesn't deserve it. If he can cry and beg to his sister, he's gotta do much more for Khushi.


He is not God...get off your high horse and accept your grave mistakes and regret them, like normal people do. He doesn't necessarily have to say the word sorry if its bothering you so much...in fact, saying sorry isn't enough. He needs to go crazy with guilt and regret for everything he's done to her, for no fault of her own.

You all felt so bad when Anjali called him "Arnav" yesterday and he looked hurt...because everyone knows he was just trying to protect her. Anjali barely did anything cruel to him.

But what he did to Khushi was cruel on every level. He hurt her badly for months...physically, emotionally and verbally. He ruined her life, married her and made sure she knew it wasn't out of love, but out of hate because he thinks she's a gold-digger and a s**t (he implied that with his "tum jaisi ladki" line).

Why is he feeling bad for Anjali and having all these flashbacks when he didn't even hurt her? He tried to open her eyes and save her from a husband who would gladly murder her. Maybe that's why most of us don't feel sorry for Anjali. Khushi is the one who has been hurt repeatedly...all because of a stupid misunderstanding on his part...which he so casually mentioned to nani today. It's bull.

He BETTER regret how much he hurt Khushi. I'm losing respect for him with these episodes. First he kept his mouth shut when Shyam ripped her apart. Now he's too busy feeling guilty about his sister while just tossing aside Khushi's feelings and how much he hurt her. This brother sister jodi is highly annoying me right now...I need to get off this topic.


I just wanted to address the bit in bold.

Maybe I'm in the minority, but I feel sorry for Anjali. The man she promised her life to, the man who promised the same vows to her, the man who was second to God for her, the man she had built her life, dreams and future with, the man who is the father to her unborn child is the same man who tried to have an affair with and marry her sister-in-law, kidnapped her brother, tried to financially ruin her brother, said yes to divorcing her, and was then slapped and thrown out by her brother. On top of this she is (heavily?) pregnant.

Her entire life, her whole existence has just crumbled around her. Of course she's going to be feeling as if Khushi is the "other woman".

People need to cut Anjali some slack. Yes, she cries a lot and can be annoying, but her life is going to ruins! What else is she exactly supposed to do?
Edited by PinkPari - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#47
Lets not forget ASR is a HUMAN
'A slobbering, crying, begging' arnav is NOT what is being asked for + why would any sane person slobber ? Ew ..your choice of words *cringe*
A simple ''sorry for the pain i've caused khushi'' undoubtedly khushi would say something like ''its not your fault'' etc
Your saying it takes alot of guts to say sorry, well it causes alot of heartache to feel guilt!
In a previous episode he said ''SORRY'' to her THRICE, (he said it for hurting her feelings, bwt her parents etc)
AND he said sorry to her the next day after that too ( for leaving a mark on her wrists )
4 sorrys in two days ? ..over something minor
And from February to when he started trusting her HE HAS DONE 100X more than he did in those 2 days ...which he gave 4 sorry's for
& all i'm asking for is 1 SORRY
May he be ASR, the president or a pauper there is nothing degrading about saying sorry to the ones you love, infact it shows a good person.

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...only women who want men in ther clutches ''slobber?, cry, beg'' ...what was all that about O.o ..dnt men slobber,cry/beg
Edited by abii95 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#48
Though the first few lines where little harsh i loved the point you brought up "cvs are maintaining ASR's characteristics along with making him accept kushi as his best half" ASR's character is something we all die for though it has some flaws. Kudos to the creative team for being consistent.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#49
As an ASR fan I'd hate to see him grovel before khushi for forgiveness. Heck at this time I don't even want to say him sorry. But a dialogue when they're together along the lines" i have hurt you so much or you faced so much because I didn't beleve you or Wish I had trusted you earlier" would suffice.

If taking food to his Di and reciting the poem (or whatever that was) didn't make him less of a man apologising to khushi wouldn't make him either.

Also I'm disappointed in nani. I mean can't she say to khushi "poor girl" or sth. along those lines. everyone seems to have convieniently forgotten that their chote came back from a life threatening situation. All sympathies, concern are for the daughter what about the daughter in law?
Edited by aries22 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#50
I have posted this response in a post about ASR should repent:

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3085004&PID=60703968&#60703968

But reposting here to support this thread

what we are seeing is actually Repenting but in ASR estylez...

1. It started with Khushi I love you.. which is a big admission from ASR
2. Then all the FB during captivity..
3. Breaking the Jali window & rescuing her from the bad guy
4. Hiding her and giving himself up..
5. Calling her when he had the chance instead of the cops, just to say sorry..
6. Fighting off the bad guys to go after Khushi to rescue her..
7. One Slap for misbehaving with his wife..
8. I trust Khushi...
9. Taking the first step & reassuring Khushi, yes she has a right over him.. showing her his gentle side, giving her so much confidence that she for the first time, asked for his comfort...
10. Today talking to Nani, accepting that he made the biggest mistake of his life by not believing Khushi.. even though he said it to Nani.. he was actually talking to Khushi.. looking at her...

That is ASR/Arnav's personality.. he is not one to be smooth talking.. that was Shyam.. he is an extremely introvert type, always wanting to be in control, does not trust anyone or anything, but once you have his love & loyalty, it is given.. but if you break that trust beware.. as Shyam found out...I am actually glad that the CV team did not change his personality by making him beg for forgiveness...

Remember Khushi is attracted to this personality.. completely opposite hers.. If it was Khushi.. she would be doing some Natak or the other to Repent..

Ladies we are in for a treat to see his gentle wooing.. repenting ASR Style... you are not going to see grand gestures, crying, or big speeches... but little things, little ishaaras that Khushi is already lapping it up...

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