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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

holding and touching her or even grabbing her, are male symbolic gesture of possesion for a women. its as ancient at time. read a few Johanna lindsay, or chriatina Savage, or Ashley Carter. i;m not saying its condonalble behaviour, but in the end men are savages and in the influence of passion and despration they fall to such behavior. i romance novels and tv serials it romentic. and is a part of passion and romance. it does not mean to abuse, its symboloc of passion that is all. Arnav has a passion for Khushi that even she cannot deny, even when he left his mark on her she never complained, she found them to be cherished eg after the Arnav apology scene the first time. check it out you will understand.


Excuse me?! So I should find it romantic when my boyfriend grabs my arms in anger and leaves marks?! Sorry, not my type. And I don't think Khushi ever cherished those marks. She rather just remembered that incident.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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LOved it..Loved it..Loved it👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏I have no idea Why people want redemption ? for what? this Man is already suffering, he suffered a lot during Kidnap, he got his punishment, he understood his fault, he missed her, he now knows her worth in his life, what more people want? Yes some people are not happy to see them happy now, after every episode and lovey dovey scene, they will ask where is redemption? where is his apology? OMG, he is already feeling guilty, his eyes are showing his regret. He has guts to admit his own fault and his biggest mistake in life before Nani. What ever he did to Khushi was all in misconception, but now he want to be happy with her, so why not give him that chance?I don't want a typical next door story type...Khushi leaving RM with her baggage and ASR becoming crazy for her and acting like street side romeo or sitting on his knee with a rose on his hand before GH to pamper his wife...eeewww NO Way ...He is ASR...he has his own style to pamper his wife. Both understand each other so well, What more we need to see? Crazy forum, he has come back not even a day has passed, Redemption, Khushi should leave RM, Khushi should divorce, ASR always put his DI first and Khushi last..Common!!!! of cource Di is always first in his life and Khushi second. Give this Man some time to breathe and take some decision. He will recall everything, he will have Khushi's FB too, give him time. People are forgetting this is the same Man who never believed anyone without any proof, but believed Khushi without any strong evidence against his Di's Husband , he knew Shyam was bad but still to show the whole family evidence was needed, still he threw Shyam out without thinking twice, without thinking about his Di's after effect, only he trusted Khushi's version,and admitted before entire family. What more people want? He gave Khushi a big place "his wife" in his life. Still people want Redemption, apology..Saying sorry from mouth is very easy but regretting and supporting a person whole heartedly proves that he is feeling guilty.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SunriseGreen

Who said anything about a "slobbering, crying, begging, groveling ASR?" Is an honest and heartfelt "sorry" too much to ask for? Not once have we seen him remembering how he married her and all the things he said to her. Without acknowledging his mistake, how can he expect her to move forward with him? And it is SO not like ASR to make a mistake and not apologize; he's done it so many times before no matter how difficult it was.


And you say Khushi understands her husband's dignity? So, according to you, apologizing will make him lesser of a man, that he'll "lose face" in front of people just by doing so? Wow... Didn't realize when the dynamics and integrity of apologizing changed so drastically. 😆

Also, I'm getting the feeling that you're romanticizing the fact that Arnav used to manhandle Khushi. Sorry, but that's ridiculous.

I'm all for the women libration too, but i'm a romantic at heart, and the truth i'm speeking form experience. if the guy only came back said i'll keep you happy, made me happy. and never said sorry at all. my heart would heal and that is all i would want. his love in actions. its far better then any sorry said by words. i'v heard those too, when my dad would come and say them to my mom and in a few days they ment nothing. sorry is a truely overrated word.
but forgiveness is not. to a truly deserving person. Arnav desevers forgiveness even if he does not say sorry. because his actions move forward to giving happiness to the one he loves and wronged hence it is justified.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveydovey

Ehm... I don't think one sorry would hurt! You are putting it as if he doesn't need to apologize at all. He owes Khushi an apology after all pain he has inflicted on her.


And I disagree with you that he can get away with it because he 'owns' her! What does that mean?! That he can push and pull her like a rag doll?! Even though he has a right on her he needs to apologize for his mistakes. Khushi deserves it!!! I'm not demanding it to be tomorrow but he has to do that soon!!!

I completely agree! He has done complete injustice with Khushi. And I understand that now may not be the time to do so, what with his Di going thru such a phase... but afterwards... when things begin to settle, Arnav SHOULD apologize to her. He owes her that much at least yaar! I completely agree with you! And this doesn't mean I am bashing Arnav. Anyone who knows me knows that I love him more than myself.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@TM beautifully written, both now know what they have gone through for each other and how much they both love each other. I still feel he will apologize for what he put Khushi through, but over time. Lets give him few more days, he will say sorry. I am liking how he is balancing his act between his wife and his sister and Khushi at this time is getting equal importance from her , which he has never done before. I am amazed at the way his character has transformed in the last one year. I was watching ASR and Nani scenes from last July where he is adamant about his and La's relationship and today when I watched his scenes with Nani, I had tears in my eyes. I am happy with the way this track is moving so far.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

I'm all for the women libration too, but i'm a romantic at heart, and the truth i'm speeking form experience. if the guy only came back said i'll keep you happy, made me happy. and never said sorry at all. my heart would heal and that is all i would want. his love in actions. its far better then any sorry said by words. i'v heard those too, when my dad would come and say them to my mom and in a few days they ment nothing. sorry is a truely overrated word.

but forgiveness is not. to a truly deserving person. Arnav desevers forgiveness even if he does not say sorry. because his actions move forward to giving happiness to the one he loves and wronged hence it is justified.


@ Bold

But Arnav does not throw around words like "sorry" here and there. That word is not overrated for him. It is something big if Arnav Singh Raizada apologizes!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I dont think "Apologizing" to Khushi for NOT trusting her and not questioning her RE Shyam and forcing her into marriage, will DIMINISH ASR in ANY way!

In fact it will make him MORE of a man!! IF he can sit around upset and regretting that he had to chuck out his sister's "Good for nothing slimbag of a husband" out of HIS house, and therefore hurt his DI... THEN he can spare 5 minutes to apologize to the women who's life he ruined!
The way he married Khushi made her lose face with HIS family, HER family and even society to some extent! The Gupta's were gutted coz Manorama accused them of "Plotting" to have their two daughters married to their two sons. The neioghbours of the Gupta's asked them how come TWO daughters got married in one night, when they only planned for 1?? The Raizada's friends taunted them and Khushi when they suddenly came to see "1 bride" and instead found TWO!
ALL these insults Khushi and her family had to bare courtesy of ASR's "Hasty" decisions and lack of trust in Khushi! I DONT think it is a "Great Expectation" to have him APOLOGIZE to Khushi for ALL that!
KHUSHI DESERVES AN APOLOGY!

isint making khushi happy. the way he married khushi may have been wrong. but it was right to marry her period. Apposigising does not diminish ASR. but the fact we see is that Khushi does not need an appology. what does that tell you. her love for her husband rises above any such petty things. a love that has no defintiton for both Arnav and Khushi. Iss Pyaar ko Kya naam doon? what rises way above Please, thankyou, sorry. they dont need Great Expectations. the love is already Great and that is what make this serial unique
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank u for yr post, i really enjoyed it. I agree with you 99% 😉

For the 1%, my own opinion is that the actual verbalisation of 'I am sorry' needs to be said by ASR, and heard by KKGSR, even though I agree that they already 'feel' and 'know' it inherently. I suppose it's along the same lines of saying 'I love you' out loud to your beloved. It's cathartic, and allows u to move forward with a more at peace conscience ... even though u will move forward regardless!

As much as she is his, he is hers too. They are soul mates! One is not complete without the other.
This means taking the good inspite of the bad, not instead of. Pyaar v nafrat, right?

What my heart is already aching over, though, are the prophetic words of Naniji to K when consoling K the 1st night A was away...ie, how A punishes himself when his loved ones are hurt. Frankly, for K, this man is about to walk the fires of hell, mental torture, self inflicted ... sad part? K is going to suffer along with.

But to end on a happy note...

Tere Ishq Pe, Tere Waqt Pe
Bas Haq Hai Ik Mera
Teri Rooh Pe, Tere Jism Pe
Bas Haq Hai Ik Mera

Mein Toh Bas Teri Chaahat Mein Chahoon Rehna Sada
Mein Toh Bas Teri Kurbat Mein Chahoon Rehna Sada
Saaya Bhi Tera Mein, Hone Na Doon Juda
Mein Ne Tay Kar Liya
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Posted: 13 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: merrydock

you already got it love. the sorry was there for the moment the were alone for the first time. somethings the audience are ment to feel rather the hear



i felt love care pain protectiveness nd these are great er bt nt the sign of aplology ,loving caring protecting is different bt apologizing or just feeling to apologyse is different ,my opinion ,no offence to anybody
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow, nice!!!!!!!!!!!! I agree with u totally. First of all he was right be misunderstood, because if I saw my brother-in-law hugging another woman & saying that he doesn't love my sister, even I would feel the same thing what Arnav at that moment felt. So there is nothing wrong in the way he thought. But after getting to know the whole truth & also if he didn't believe Khushi then it would have been wrong. But Arnav believed her. So there is nothing to be guilty about. I love how the current track is running. Awesome story. IPKKND rocks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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