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Posted: 13 years ago
Arshi have been through a lot and now all they want is to be together. Khushi has always belonged to Arnav just like he belongs to her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Yrs, and I dont want a crying and slobbering ASR either. But in the privacy of their room, he needs to apologize to Khushi. Simply stating that I misunderstoid Khushi in front of Nani is not enough.

If I was Khushi, I wiuld not get intimate with hin without an apology. Love is on one side, but respect for each other is on another side. There has to be a certain amount of respect between relationships, and certain formalities are needed to maintain respectful relationships. One cannot take people for granted. I dont even take kids for granted, never mind adults.
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Posted: 13 years ago
but please...just bcoz anji is vulnerable she gets all the pampering...just bcoz khushi is strong and can bear it does not mean she will get all the blows...with not a single sorry in return. asr needs khushi...he better earn her forgiveness. i dont want him to grovel, nor do i want him to pay khushi more attention than anji at the moment as anji needs all the support from arnav and everyone else khushi understands and she has readily forgiven him. but khushi's wrongs have not been amended, if they aren't and evryone else continue to wrong her again...he certainly will lose her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
spoken like a true ASR fan who can't see anything negative...even if it is all wrong...you know I read somewhere 'to realize one's mistakes and repent for it. is the biggest sign of strength'
what kind of manliness is it to treat a person like bull crap and not apologize?
what kind of egoistic image is it which cannot show a human face?
who wants him to cry? we all want him to realize
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Posted: 13 years ago
Rima,

spoken like a true ASR fan who can't see anything negative...even if it is all wrong...you know I read somewhere 'to realize one's mistakes and repent for it. is the biggest sign of strength'
what kind of manliness is it to treat a person like bull crap and not apologize?
what kind of egoistic image is it which cannot show a human face?
who wants him to cry? we all want him to realize

It will happen.. slowly but surely it will happen.. com'mon they have to draaaggg it ooouuuttt.. look at the TRPs.. we are waiting for the moment.. and I am sure it will be well worth the wait...

As I mentioned before, I am a recent follower & I went back to first episode to catch on the important parts of this relationship.. so it is all very fresh in my mind... Arnav does apologize for his actions, he knows what he is doing is hurtful to Khushi.. but as he unintentionally says to Lavanya... I don't know what comes over me that I hurt you every time even though that is not my intention...

If you have ever come across that personality, you will not be surprised by any of his action.. the love, the apology is all non-verbal but in every action.. but the irritation/hate is very verbal...

We all know what Arnav is from the beginning of the show, it is not that he has changed.. he is changing but that will be gradual and subtle.. not in your face...

He will apologize in his own way, in his own time.. in the meantime let us wait for it & enjoy this show...

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: melfns

Very well said 👏 👏 ppl are forgetting that he too was in pain when he hurt her it was not easy for him to believe she loved someone else. ASR is someone who never shows his emotions but he too hurts. During the ending of heer ranja act what he said to Khushi was what he felt. Khushi.


Pls enlighten me as to how he suffered. He tortured with the thought that she didn't love him.
Now really? How did I miss that? Did you forget he almost kissed khushi,had engagement with la just to get over it,left the poor girl crying and heartbroken and you're telling me HE suffered. I can write a book on how HE tortured khushi but the diwali night would suffice.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Aries22,
Pls enlighten me as to how he suffered. He tortured with the thought that she didn't love him.
Now really? How did I miss that? Did you forget he almost kissed khushi,had engagement with la just to get over it,left the poor girl crying and heartbroken and you're telling me HE suffered. I can write a book on how HE tortured khushi but the diwali night would suffice.

The thing with Arnav is even though he was fighting his attraction to Khushi.. by hurting her.. he ended hurting himself more... he would absolutely loath himself & his behaviour..

The only reason he got engaged was he was running scared.. the fact that he was completely under Khushi's spell not just during the almost kiss, but the whole Diwali day created so much panic, that he just put himself out of temptation (or so he thought) that he got engaged to La... but even when he was hugging La, he was hurting so bad just seeing Khushi's hurt... he still runs behind her with the excuse he wants to drop her off...

Next what sets him off??? Khushi trying to act everything is normal (hey it is her nature, pick herself up everytime she is knocked down)

He still thought he can be in control of the situation, trying to get Khushi to admit that yes it effects her.. "phark padata hai", he keeps pushing her, pushing her.. unfortunately for him Khushi gets herself engaged... Then HE explodes in a whole lot of hurt.. yes dammit Phark padata hai...

Yes some relationships are all smooth sailing, like Aakash & Payal.. yet with a shallowness..

others are run deep.. but with an intensity that singe you if you get caught in between, but the bond that is formed is strong for all times...

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