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kkksr

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Posted: 13 years ago

#81

He does not have to get on his knees and beg! But -

1. He has to tell his whole family what really happened on that wedding day. He has to tell the truth and tell everyone why he married Khushi. Also the entire family should know that the marriage was not real! That will clear Khushi's name.

2. He has to acknowledge it was not right on his part to ask Khushi to confront Shyam all on her own..he should have confronted Shyam. They definitely owe Khushi an apology for disrespecting her (Shyam called her all sort of names and the entire family stood there and watched) It was very offensive. They owe her an apology (either ASR or one of his family members) This show is no longer interesting for me after all this humiliation they put Khushi through - That need to be fixed. Just acknowledging what they did was not right is good enough.

3. He does not have to beg Khushi for forgiveness. However he owes her an apology for forcing her to marry him! He should have asked her for explanation before he made that big decision! He did not ask her to explain - he did not want to even hear her side of the story. He has to say is sorry for his impulsive decision! It is too much to ask! He does not have to go all soft ..he can be true to his character be open and honest.

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GodHelpUs

@GodHelpUs

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Posted: 13 years ago

#82

@merrydock U sure don't sound half as merry as your id...

This was never about 'man vs woman' nor 'Brickbats for arnav Vs Bouquets for Khushi'.

It's not whether this is something too much to ask for, its more to do with restoring the equilibrium in their ever dynamic relation at this crucial stage. A sorry later on will be a tad redundant. Or maybe just to please you the sorry can be done away with but that should be replaced by a scene conveying pretty much the same thing.

All said and done, a split second moment, and only one heartfelt word is needed from Arnav.Sorry.

Khushi will ,anyways never let Arnav apologize for all that she has been put through, intentionally or not given the circumstances and all that has transpired since the ill timed and ill advised knot.

Khushi has to only say,I never needed you to be sorry. I only wanted to be trusted

Period.

In fact she neednt even utter a single dialog. Seal it with a hug. Apology accepted.

(Note:I am not using the word 'Love'. Both Love and Sorry are much abused and misused so much so that they have lost their sheen).

Isn't all marital relations based on mutual trust in the long run given that love may fizzle out sooner than later?

Btw, i dont think any one here wants to see a wimpy ASR, thats just not what the character stands for. Also,you seem to be under the wrongful impression that showing men shedding tears is blaspehmous. It's only human.(Even FedEx said that after Murray cried post the Wimbledon finale).If nothing that shall make ASR all the more relatable and intriguing. That remote part of his heart and all that goes into the workings of being "ASR" is still under clouds.Once in a while the veil lifts and we get a glimpse of a very real person. That keeps the interest alive if you ask me.

I won't go to the extent of bashing Arnav's character but you just made all those who did sound like nimrods. Refrain from that. Just like you, everyone's entitled to PoV.

Been there done that. And on realising the needless outburst, apologised. The forum is open to accept divergent views, not intolerant views. We all can agree to disagree, right?

Edited by GodHelpUs - 13 years ago

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Luv_Zindagi

@Luv_Zindagi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#83

wow. couldnt have said it better! thank u! :D

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merrydock

@merrydock

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Posted: 13 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: princessunara
u get down from u high horse first!!

i am not an immature 16 year old, therefore i want to see him being man enough to own up to his mistakes! in fact owning up to his crimes!
cz marrying someone forcefully is a crime! and if it is the person u claim to love more than life itself, it is even worse! and just for 6 months at that too!
and keeping quiet while ur love, ur wife was ripped to pieces, her character slandered deserves a little bit more than he did!
and not to mention the months of torture he inflicted on her mind by calling her every filthy name possible!

I may love Arnav, but i am not so delusional as to not understand where to draw the line!!

i don't want him to go down on his knees and grovel! cz that is not in his character, and anyway for him to grovel like that only would happen if khushi demands it!
and khushi isn't demanding anything from him!! nothing zilch! that is cz she loves him beyond measure and her heart is big enough to forgive the man she loves for anything!
and if arnav loves her just as much i believe he would find it next to impossible to forgive himself even after khushi has forgiven him..
that is the extent of love i believe ArHi have for each other..

i don't want him to do it today itself, but someday down the line before they consummate their marriage and become a true husband wife i need to see this..that dark part of their love story needs a proper closure so that both of them can move forward towards a brighter n happier future free from the demons of the past..

so please one doesn't need to be immature to expect that much from the characters we have fallen in love, is it?

Really you need to see it????. what if they dont show a sorry will you stop watching the show? Sorry at this juncture just does not fitt in. if you noticed a track last for about a week. and rigth now after all is said and done even a heartfelt sorry would seem out of place and out of context. try and work it out and see where you could put it. may the CV would like you idea and use it. but i really dont see it comming.

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Sunara

@princessunara

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Posted: 13 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: merrydock
Really you need to see it????. what if they dont show a sorry will you stop watching the show? Sorry at this juncture just does not fitt in. if you noticed a track last for about a week. and rigth now after all is said and done even a heartfelt sorry would seem out of place and out of context. try and work it out and see where you could put it. may the CV would like you idea and use it. but i really dont see it comming.

now do u see anywhere that i have written i will stop watching? nah..i was someone who collected and watched even each one of the kidnap track episodes multiple times.. so come hell or high water i will be watching this show! it is a not a question of that..but the arnav i fell in love with will do this thing for himself to have a proper closure..

well i would like to see Anjali through her gestures may be blaming khushi or may be even that not happening as Khushi tries to keep out of Anjali's way as much as possible.
i want Arnav to witness this, that how hard she is trying to stay away when it wasn't even her own fault..i want him to take her hand and make her sit on the bed beside him and hold her hand and look in to her eyes and tell her how sorry he is to have mistrusted her and her love and loyalty..i want him to cup her face and tell her that from now on nothing will make her come second for him..and khushi can hold his hands and say there is no need to say sorry, just feeling it is enough..
and then can hug..
that is all i am asking.. so is it so wrong to want it? i don't think the mighty arrogant man i as well as khushi fell in love with from the first day onwards, will become any less if he does this..

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merrydock

@merrydock

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Posted: 13 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: kkksr
He does not have to get on his knees and beg! But -

1. He has to tell his whole family what really happened on that wedding day. He has to tell the truth and tell everyone why he married Khushi. Also the entire family should know that the marriage was not real! That will clear Khushi's name.

2. He has to acknowledge it was not right on his part to ask Khushi to confront Shyam all on her own..he should have confronted Shyam. They definitely owe Khushi an apology for disrespecting her (Shyam called her all sort of names and the entire family stood there and watched) It was very offensive. They owe her an apology (either ASR or one of his family members) This show is no longer interesting for me after all this humiliation they put Khushi through - That need to be fixed. Just acknowledging what they did was not right is good enough.

3. He does not have to beg Khushi for forgiveness. However he owes her an apology for forcing her to marry him! He should have asked her for explanation before he made that big decision! He did not ask her to explain - he did not want to even hear her side of the story. He has to say is sorry for his impulsive decision! It is too much to ask! He does not have to go all soft ..he can be true to his character be open and honest.

i think you missed the point of the confrontation. Khushi had no proof that Shayam kidnapped Arnav. but Arnav believed her. they wanted the truth to come out in front of the family the whole truth. Arnav knew where it was leading all along. when Shayam denied having feelings for khushi when in fact he had already confessed to Arnav. he dug his own grave. and Arnav knew that Shayam was capable of doing exactly what khushi said. and another thing he does not need to tell the family that the marriage is for 6 months. cause its not its for keeps, khushi knows it so there is no point of telling the family and hurting them more. not just the Raizada but the gupta's as well. they have forgiven khushi for marrying Arnav without informing the family. so why rattle the cage at all, when the need does not arise

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merrydock

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Posted: 13 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: princessunara

now do u see anywhere that i have written i will stop watching? nah..i was someone who collected and watched even each one of the kidnap track episodes multiple times.. so come hell or high water i will be watching this show! it is a not a question of that..but the arnav i fell in love with will do this thing for himself to have a proper closure..

well i would like to see Anjali through her gestures may be blaming khushi or may be even that not happening as Khushi tries to keep out of Anjali's way as much as possible.
i want Arnav to witness this, that how hard she is trying to stay away when it wasn't even her own fault..i want him to take her hand and make her sit on the bed beside him and hold her hand and look in to her eyes and tell her how sorry he is to have mistrusted her and her love and loyalty..i want him to cup her face and tell her that from now on nothing will make her come second for him..and khushi can hold his hands and say there is no need to say sorry, just feeling it is enough..
and then can hug..
that is all i am asking.. so is it so wrong to want it? i don't think the mighty arrogant man i as well as khushi fell in love with from the first day onwards, will become any less if he does this..

hey! i never said its wrong to want that, I said it just does not fitt in at athe moment. but as you said seeing the way Anjali behaves with Khushi. and Khushi doing her bit to not cause Anjali any more pain may be the CV can work out an appolige track with Arnav consoling khushi when she is hurt by anjali's behavior. so chill you may just get what you want.😊

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shilpa

@shilpa1581

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Posted: 13 years ago

#88

i 100% agree with u.. i was thinking the same thing.. why does evryone was a redemtion track??? when its not rqrd... their seperation during the whole kidnapping fiasco.. proved evrything... his supprt for her when evryone was against...& the main he ACCEPTED HIS MISTAKE in front of nani & khushi herself.. wat else we want.!!!1 at least i do not want.

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

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Posted: 13 years ago

#89

Arnav don't want to ask forgiveness because he called Khushi rightly home wrecker , WTH😡, He dont want to ask forgiveness for abusing her parents because they really died because of Khushi's character 😡 Arnav does not want to ask for forgiveness for the forceful marriage of Khushi, because khushi is already an animal😡, she should tolerate everything. Arnav does not want to regret because he had physical pain during kidnapping which is more than what Khushi went through. So surely Arnav only has pain so why should he regret for Khushi who had no pain. 😡. ASR keep on romancing Khushi deserves only that. CV's it is not right to make ASR ask sorry or repent please dont do it. He is only in pain

Edited by JohnySolomonRaj - 13 years ago

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DARSHI

@coffeebeancat

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Posted: 13 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: princessunara
u get down from u high horse first!!

i am not an immature 16 year old, therefore i want to see him being man enough to own up to his mistakes! in fact owning up to his crimes!
cz marrying someone forcefully is a crime! and if it is the person u claim to love more than life itself, it is even worse! and just for 6 months at that too!
and keeping quiet while ur love, ur wife was ripped to pieces, her character slandered deserves a little bit more than he did!
and not to mention the months of torture he inflicted on her mind by calling her every filthy name possible!

I may love Arnav, but i am not so delusional as to not understand where to draw the line!!

i don't want him to go down on his knees and grovel! cz that is not in his character, and anyway for him to grovel like that only would happen if khushi demands it!
and khushi isn't demanding anything from him!! nothing zilch! that is cz she loves him beyond measure and her heart is big enough to forgive the man she loves for anything!
and if arnav loves her just as much i believe he would find it next to impossible to forgive himself even after khushi has forgiven him..
that is the extent of love i believe ArHi have for each other..

i don't want him to do it today itself, but someday down the line before they consummate their marriage and become a true husband wife i need to see this..that dark part of their love story needs a proper closure so that both of them can move forward towards a brighter n happier future free from the demons of the past..

so please one doesn't need to be immature to expect that much from the characters we have fallen in love, is it?

very well said...! this is the exact answer to this post...! well done.