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Shanthi

@Peace67

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#791

Originally posted by: redwine1

sorry women.,
i love khushi but dont feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..

WHy is she living in an illusion lizzy ... up untill now what cause did she have to mistrust her hubby?

IF ur referring to getting Khushi to work for her ... then that was a last resort of a woman who was desperately trying to save the sanctity of her house ..

So in that sense we must not like nani as well... because it was her subtle manipulation of Anjali that led anjali to get khushi to work @ RM ..

Everyone in this serial has in their way manipulated Khushi to meet their ends ???

So why anjali alone ????

Sure everyone has manipulated Khushi and we dont like it when they do...so why should we waste sympathy on Anjali alone???

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redwine1

@redwine1

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#792

She manipulated for the well being of the family not caring that Khushi will be facing humiliation, not bothered that Khushi is not comfortable with the thought of returning to RM, Not worried that Khushi refused and reluctant to come.. ... Then why castigate her now when she is doing for the well being of her marriage ??

Absolutely Tants ... this was my point to .. in this serial .. probably except mama, mami & akash .. all have in some way manipulated Khushi to meet their ends ... either directly or indirectly ...

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tanthya

@tanthya

Inactive

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#793

Originally posted by: pals13

Beeutifuully put Tants...muaaahhh❤️

Thank You, Pallo ❤️😃

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meghavn

@meghavn

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#794

Originally posted by: slmu
Geet, I agree with you...I think we had this discussion the other day too..

Anjali is a selfish woman who manipulates when she does not get her way...she is all sweet till things are fine...

I have no problem with her being in denial, no woman wants to know such things about her husband...but if, and I am saying if because we dont really know how the tale is going to shape up, she turns nasty towards Khushi it will be difficult for me to sympathise with her...

What does this woman lack - nothing. She is the one who has everything go her way, everyone gives way to her, to me its almost as if she uses her disability to get her way...she prefers to live in the bubble rather than accept reality...

I can accept her anger against Khushi, Payal, the Guptas and also Arnav for hiding things from her...but not her turning grey and treating Khushi like dirt...especially after the whole truth is out...

Geeth, Shanthi completely agree with u... dont knw for whtever reasons I will hv no much sympathy to Anjali IF she turns grey towards Khushi... this lady has it all... yes i sympathise with her for the leech of a husband she has got & the break of her trust... but she is selflsh & definitely knws to manipulate situations to her favor...

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@sunflower52

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#795

Originally posted by: Supna9

lucky when i saw mami told anjali da truth i too compared them.
IMO in these two the df in nature n thought
khush face her life bad incident at in very small age . She didnt spent much time with her parents n when her parents incident tok place she gotten feared n scared but she didnt witnessed that incident with her own eyes n u knw childhood a age when mostly children forgotten easily if they got good things. She had gotton very careful loving n concerned people they always n in every step of her life encourages her love her n take care of her.
Abhi mujhe aur likhna hai but my fingers uuff pain

I agree with you Khushi was a child when her parents died and Shahiji has always been good to her and given her the love.

While Anjali was an adult and the way her whole world collapsed in 1 night has left her scarred and she has created an illusion around her so she does not need to feel that pain of loosing her parents, her 1st marriage being broken and then gotten kicked out with her younger brother in the night from her own home. On top of it she has a limp.

Anjali thought she found that guy in Shaym who has accepted her limp and past. Just imagine now finding out how wrong this was and after this she will herself break the illusion if she get the right kind of help and support.

Her family should stop feeding her lies to keep her illusion intact but help her over come her present situation and make her peace with her past.

She is not really a selfish person per say but she is selfish about her family happiness who is not when it comes to family.

She will become grey to the 3 Shaym, Arnav and Khushi.

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Zoyafan

@Zoyafan

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#796

I feel Khushi and Anjali are not same but similar in nature...they are on the same plane...but 180 degrees apart...and both try to reach the same goal at the centre but from different ends...meaning different ways and intentions.

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tanthya

@tanthya

Inactive

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#797

Originally posted by: redwine1

She manipulated for the well being of the family not caring that Khushi will be facing humiliation, not bothered that Khushi is not comfortable with the thought of returning to RM, Not worried that Khushi refused and reluctant to come.. ... Then why castigate her now when she is doing for the well being of her marriage ??

Absolutely Tants ... this was my point to .. in this serial .. probably except mama, mami & akash .. all have in some way manipulated Khushi to meet their ends ... either directly or indirectly ...

Mami has done to get petty revenge, Akash may not have manipulated but he was not averse to obey her while courting ..in a way he was willing to be manipulated by her while at the same time she was manipulated by him ..Mama was the only one who was manipulated into giving out info regarding chacha Choudhary by Khushi!!

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namedx

@namedx

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#798

Originally posted by: tanthya

Sometimes I think that limp is the kink in her mental armour..A subtle play of the creator !!...

I would not say that she is a victim but a scarred woman who refuses to mend the wound , A woman who is caught in a time warp , A woman who was short changed and who has learnt to function well in the present world, turning her weakness into her strengths...

...surely her willingness to "mend the wound" will come with time and will lead to gradual character development - I hope!! I can't see her character remaining stagnant! She'll have to change tactics now that doubts have been implanted.

It will depend on how far she is willing to spread her wings .. Will she mend the wound or exchange one illusion for another has to be seen ..

...I was hoping a reality check would lead to complete disillusionment! But yeh, I guess it depends on how she takes it all from now on.

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365166

Suspended

Posted: 13 years ago

#799

Shaz,

She manipulated for the well being of the family not caring that Khushi will be facing humiliation, not bothered that Khushi is not comfortable with the thought of returning to RM, Not worried that Khushi refused and reluctant to come.. ... Then why castigate her now when she is doing for the well being of her marriage ??

If I understand Anjali's character correctly she is ruled by SELF PITY. and because of that what ever she does she will justify it to herself.When it comes to family.. she has created this paradise where everything is always perfect. and the moment even a single thing shifts..she will be there to solve it. More then anything its for her own peace of mind. She is a good natured soul .. but a lot self centered.

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Supna9

@Supna9

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#800

Ruby who said u i m leaving ipk n woh bhi iss time when each character get it play card. I ll ignore arhi romance but nt ipk. N can nt say exactly that i ll nt like or like romance yet so wait.
Geet ll u give this lesson to ur daughter to. Hehehe ur daughter is so lucky she has a friendly mother. I never decline love . Love was n love is still here. If we lost 1 sumtimes we get more 4rm so many sincer people.
Salma i didnt say that i leaving ipk but yeah i m nw interested in another drama too . Ye ruby hai na ruby