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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: sunflower52


Yes she should turn against Khushi, why because Khushi kept such a big thing from her i.e about her hubby. Not giving her chance to make her own decision.



No, At that point understanding and comprehension will come into play.. She will realize why Khushi did the things she did ..but now, she will turn against her cos Khushi is a treat !!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya



I would be surprised if she does not turn against Khushi..She must and shud turn against Khushi ...

Sure, but I am saying that as viewers know the lengths everyone is going to protect this woman, sympathy will be tough...
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Posted: 13 years ago

sorry women.,
i love khushi but dont feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..

WHy is she living in an illusion lizzy ... up untill now what cause did she have to mistrust her hubby?
IF ur referring to getting Khushi to work for her ... then that was a last resort of a woman who was desperately trying to save the sanctity of her house ..
So in that sense we must not like nani as well... because it was her subtle manipulation of Anjali that led anjali to get khushi to work @ RM ..
Everyone in this serial has in their way manipulated Khushi to meet their ends ???
So why anjali alone ????

The bold part is soo very true... be it Buaji, Garima or ppl in RM... all hv manipulated Khushi in one way or the other...Babuji & Payal has been with her always as per me but time & again hv corrected if she is wrong in a sutle way...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: namedx

If I understand Anjali's character correctly she is ruled by SELF PITY. and because of that what ever she does she will justify it to herself.When it comes to family.. she has created this paradise where everything is always perfect. and the moment even a single thing shifts..she will be there to solve it. More then anything its for her own peace of mind. She is a good natured soul .. but a lot self centered.


It always is her way or the highway though isn't it - I just recalled the episode that I watched, even though she apologised to Khushi and her family for what she did, she didn't excuse herself from it, and nor did she make an effort to change course! The woman is ruthless 😆
Yep!! She is.. She knows how to twist your arm and that too so elegantly you wont even know your arms are being twisted.. 😆😆 She is a pill..
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: redwine1



No if u don't like any1 manipulating khushi that doesnt attract ur sympathy it shud attack ur ire ...

As off now .. with what we have seen in the serial ( c v don't know anjali is grey or not) .. Anjali is a victim .. she has faced a terrible truth .. reaction of most woman who are not strong & have not gone out to face the world will be denial ...
Look most of us here .. are in careers or have had careers .. we have been independent .. we can't understand why a woman like Anjali cudnt smell a rat with her husband ... But look her harvard grad .. business tycoon of a brother also dint smell a rat ..
What anjali turns out in future is different ... now at present her denial or her being victim is justified ..

Look at the difference in Payal's & khushi's natures .. just because one has been independent & has faced life's reality .. while the other has been sheltered ...

No Ruby, even before she heard any part of the truth, she was ready to dish it out...remember 'hum aisa kaam kyon karein jiske liye maafi maangi pade'
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Lizzy2012

I agree everybody including ASR,has manipulated khushi but has that made her like anjali..no, i dont think so..
khushi also makes a mistake and tries to manipulate but is she accepted every-time she does some mistake..no..but anjali iis allowed that leverage...u can call her scarred ,not willing to change..at last it amounts to same thing..that anjali was always grey who hid under the cloak of the white..
one more thing- why we are discussing anjali so much is the influence she has on ASR there by affecting khushi..other's manipulation ASR will not take but anjali's ..it is a big yes..
winey- she was trying to protect her family ..is it?..wow..so she manipulates rather takes advantage another woman's problems to solves her issues..so what is the difference between asr and her..not much just the approach differs..that is all



To me everyone in this serial manipulates to get their way. Accept for mama and babuji.

Each and every character has manipulated to do things their way. So no one is spared.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: slmu

Anjali also likes power...she likes it that everyone does what she wants...as long as she was angry with the Arhi marriage, everyone was angry, but once she decided that they should be accepted, everybody did...with ill grace but they did...

She also likes the power of money that she has over Shyam...for eg. the way she handed the cheque over to the bankers, she knows that she can use it and she does...


Tell me something,Anjali loves controlling people around her..But why the people of RM treats her as a delicate doll and prefers to stay away from Arnav..Before Khushi came,no one could invade Arnav's personal space after a certain extent,not even Anjali..He has always been every bit of a loner.People had no qualms about accepting that.But they also didn't have a problem to depend on him as the sole bread-winner,as the sole care-giver of the family..But hasn't Anjali been the more pampered of the duo??!!Why??Both Arnav and Anjali had the same cruel past..Generally the eldest child stands strong..But here Anjali has been always guarded,protected from the gruesomeness of the outside world.She has shut herself from reality and she has been totally helped by her family members in the process..Is it because of her physical disability??
Edited by sampin - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vasiraju

Shanthi and lizzy i am not speaking about should we sympathasie her after she truns in to grey..

i am just saying till Now when we see Anjali and kushi Lifes ..i feel bad for anjali even though she got everything in her hands she failed at married Life..becoz of shyamu ,,so i feel bad for her..


Yep - I agree, it's not about sympathising with her plight, rather her status as a woman/wife. The fact that she's being cheated by the very ideals and principles she holds so dear..it's her fate I sympathise with. But then I wonder what her past life was like for her to have ended up this way.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: slmu

Lucky, when it comes to Shyam you can feel sorry for her...but..if you consider her rosy view of life, maybe she let her family keep that rosy view and lived in it...so it became easy for Shyam to enter her life, pretend and marry her...she to an extent created a situation where a con man like Shyam could take advantage of her...

yes Shanthi i totally agree with that but that does mean that she should face the warmth of the shyam's Cruelity..
i can see So many women who live their own world of happiness to comfort themselves ..but i never seen them geeting failure in their married Life..they are saved by thier family memmebers .
Family memmbers Drag them to reality face the reality..here everyone keeping silent Towards her.. family responsibility chezz hai bhi ki nahi..
whatever be the anjali nature she was cheated by a person ..so i feel bad and sympathaise her...
Edited by vasiraju - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Salma these r all my points too but i want to write more but i m on mobile n so much typing doing bad effects on my health. Bas itna hi enough that plz every 1 anjali ko uss k starting se parho. I ll definitely write my detail analysis on anjali.

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