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Originally posted by: Lizzy2012

Ruby i am just comparing Two womens who got played by a phyco ..

i always felt Kushi is capable of facing any challenge which is the biggest thing that atracts me in her..

once even kushi came in to family pressure and accepted the marriage with shyamu..and even believed that he the best person choosen by her family accepeted him ,in the way she too manupulated by Shyamu but yet saved By DM blessings..

But anjali who is innocent who believes in pure love having grt strenght like ASR behind her yet manupulated and cheated by shyamu..this make me Feel bad For anjali than Kushi...

i am not saying Kushi has reached this position easily ..her never give up attitude helped her and

i want anjali too open her eyes and see thruth and fight for her exsistance atleast from now on...

sorry women.,
i love khushi but dont feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..
Geet may be she fails at recognizing her Husband thoughts..i said Shyamu as phyco an exterme manupulator ..and a women Like anjali can easily fall for him..

sorry women.,
i love khushi but dont feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..

Originally posted by: tanthya

Completely bang On Lucky ... thats my point the day u feel sorry for khushi .. her character takes a beating .. I am glad no one does ...

But Anjali is another case altogether .. where she stands now .. she is victim .. she is going to be facing the biggest shock of her Life .. that to one she never ever dreamed of facing ...

I think if tomorrow she turns GREY ( i fervently hope so) ... it will b justified ... don't like woman martyrs yaar .. as a woman scorned can take on any persona ... be a sacrificial lamb or a foxy babe .. or a lioness ...

C thats the reason in my post on friday i wrote that she is wearing a MASK for her family .. so that the illusion remains intact in front of them ... once the whole story is out in front of the family she doesnt need to keep her image intact ... she can turn selfish & grey ..

sorry women.,
i love khushi but dont feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..


Sometimes I think that limp is the kink in her mental armour..A subtle play of the creator !!...

I would not say that she is a victim but a scarred woman who refuses to mend the wound , A woman who is caught in a time warp , A woman who was short changed and who has learnt to function well in the present world, turning her weakness into her strengths...

Originally posted by: tanthya

Sometimes I think that limp is the kink in her mental armour..A subtle play of the creator !!...

I would not say that she is a victim but a scarred woman who refuses to mend the wound , A woman who is caught in a time warp , A woman who was short changed and who has learnt to function well in the present world, turning her weakness into her strengths...

Originally posted by: namedx

Completely bang On Lucky ... thats my point the day u feel sorry for khushi .. her character takes a beating .. I am glad no one does ...

But Anjali is another case altogether .. where she stands now .. she is victim .. she is going to be facing the biggest shock of her Life .. that to one she never ever dreamed of facing ...

I think if tomorrow she turns GREY ( i fervently hope so) ... it will b justified ... don't like woman martyrs yaar .. as a woman scorned can take on any persona ... be a sacrificial lamb or a foxy babe .. or a lioness ...

C thats the reason in my post on friday i wrote that she is wearing a MASK for her family .. so that the illusion remains intact in front of them ... once the whole story is out in front of the family she doesnt need to keep her image intact ... she can turn selfish & grey ..

sorry women.,
i love khushi but feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..


Shaz,

She manipulated for the well being of the family not caring that Khushi will be facing humiliation, not bothered that Khushi is not comfortable with the thought of returning to RM, Not worried that Khushi refused and reluctant to come.. ... Then why castigate her now when she is doing for the well being of her marriage ??

Originally posted by: slmu

Geet, I agree with you...I think we had this discussion the other day too..

Anjali is a selfish woman who manipulates when she does not get her way...she is all sweet till things are fine...

I have no problem with her being in denial, no woman wants to know such things about her husband...but if, and I am saying if because we dont really know how the tale is going to shape up, she turns nasty towards Khushi it will be difficult for me to sympathise with her...

What does this woman lack - nothing. She is the one who has everything go her way, everyone gives way to her, to me its almost as if she uses her disability to get her way...she prefers to live in the bubble rather than accept reality...

I can accept her anger against Khushi, Payal, the Guptas and also Arnav for hiding things from her...but not her turning grey and treating Khushi like dirt...especially after the whole truth is out...

good shanthi,I thought i was the only person who was thinking this way..as a neutral observer..i can find the character interesting as a character study..but other wise ...me thinks she is manipulative and cannot be felt sorry for..
in bold sentences-i totally agree

Originally posted by: namedx

Isn't the above case a reason to sympathise with her character?? I watched the episode where she blackmailed Khushi into coming in RM for the first time the other week - I did see her manipulative side, and it's quite dangerous as well, but then she's also very honest about her own manipulations, as her reasoning behind it is always the safety/benefit of her family...true, she does need to overcome her own problems, but I think once her illusion shatters completely, I reckon she'll find a way to rectify her previous stance as well. Just like she amended her treatment of Khushi by apologising to her and her family.

Lol I have no idea if the above makes any sense! 😛

...So does she intentionally go out of her way to turn her weaknesses into strength as a way to manipulate others? Is there no hint of guilt?

Originally posted by: namedx

Completely bang On Lucky ... thats my point the day u feel sorry for khushi .. her character takes a beating .. I am glad no one does ...

But Anjali is another case altogether .. where she stands now .. she is victim .. she is going to be facing the biggest shock of her Life .. that to one she never ever dreamed of facing ...

I think if tomorrow she turns GREY ( i fervently hope so) ... it will b justified ... don't like woman martyrs yaar .. as a woman scorned can take on any persona ... be a sacrificial lamb or a foxy babe .. or a lioness ...

C thats the reason in my post on friday i wrote that she is wearing a MASK for her family .. so that the illusion remains intact in front of them ... once the whole story is out in front of the family she doesnt need to keep her image intact ... she can turn selfish & grey ..

sorry women.,
i love khushi but feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..
Ditto i felt when shanthi said she is manupulative...i didn't see her Doing manupulation to hurt someone to the core..she thought of his brother well wish and even she know kushi financial poistion ..she used to her benifit,..where is the mupulation part comes..

Originally posted by: namedx

sorry women.,
i love khushi but dont feel sorry for her..i can empathise with her spirit ..but in anjali's case i cannot relate ,empathise..(no eggs thrown please) 😆or even sympathise..see she lives an illusion..if somebody tries to bring her back to reality..she is in denial..she manipulates but subtly that ppl dont know it is manipulation..she closes out her womanly instinct about her husband and lands up in trouble...how do ppl sympathise with her..i will not even sympathise with her physical disability..because pity is not what it needs to evoke..if it is a handicap then she needs to find a way to overcome it than working on pity that ppl have for u..probably the only thing i can feel sorry for her is the way her marriage got disputed and how she lost her parents after which she was abandoned by her relatives...sorry that was very rude..but it is a personal opinion..

Sometimes I think that limp is the kink in her mental armour..A subtle play of the creator !!...

I would not say that she is a victim but a scarred woman who refuses to mend the wound , A woman who is caught in a time warp , A woman who was short changed and who has learnt to function well in the present world, turning her weakness into her strengths...


It will depend on how far she is willing to spread her wings .. Will she mend the wound or exchange one illusion for another has to be seen ..