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Hi Anna: Enjoyed reading your analysis.
"If only she could understand she was hurting him with her words - just like Arnav had hurt her with them."For your lines above, I have always felt that Arnav and Khushi's characteristics reflect those of twin flames. Let me share some brief thoughts with you.It is believed that when the soul emerges from the divine source to individuate itself, it may sometimes choose to split itself into two - male and female counterparts and take many births to experience life's challenges on their own before uniting again in their last birth. They are known as twin flames. (this is different from soul mates - you can have many soul mates but you have only one twin flame in the universe).The coming together of twin souls is often chaotic and stressful, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually as their relationship is very intense. They know each other intimately because they are indeed one, so if they get mad at each other, they know exactly how to hurt each other profoundly and with precision. But at the same time, they also feel each other's pain, so to hurt the other is to hurt oneself. Khushi & Arnav's first meeting was indeed a stressful event and in their subsequent interactions, whenever Arnav would hurt Khushi, he would be suffer in equal degree and as we have always seen, they both hurt and also soothe the wounds of the other on all occasions.
This is beause twin flames come together as two mirrors to reflect back each other's imperfections, for the ultimate goal of the twin flames is total union once more. To achieve this, total balance is needed by both of them on all levels.It is common belief that is necessary to hit rock bottom in order for the twins to SURRENDER to And to achieve this end, each of the flames need to experience the 'dark night of the soul' ie, empty oneself emotionally, spiritually and mentally to be able to face the intensity of being with the other twin. Before one can physically unite with their twin flame, one must consciously heal and become whole within them since twin flame love cannot exist in ego-based relations. This is what we will probably experience during Khushi's realisation track and ASR's repentance track.When both halves of the soul become strong pillars of their own, have healed and resolved karmic ties in the present life, then they can unite, however, the challenges do not end there. There is an intensity that is frightening when dealing with your mirror, your weaknesses and strengths magnified, unresolved issues and wounds painfully opened to push you to further healing. This is where the past of Arnav and Khushi will unfold.
Malobika, Brilliant writing 👏
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