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Posted: 13 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: ttt1

i am gIad yu brught it up👏👏

They will think, a man can and will harass them in public, but they themselves should be soft and afraid of people's comments if they create a scene. They should quietly seek to escape, but never never create a scene since that is unfeminine/bad behavior.

the worst message that cuId be send , i understand it is a drama , but being aired at prime time they d have sme respnsibies and commitments , i dnt understand why the restain is Iimited to nIy showing intense scenes , this is a dangerous issue

even worse she is every time shown t ignore his advances for the sake f famiIy B**S****



Priya - if you ask me, what Arnav is doing to khushi is no saintly deed either. But she is reacting to him atleast. Perhaps, she is not comfortable reacting to shyam.

i think they so so so want to show total abuse of khushi but can't quite decide how. So they dumb her down when it suits them.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
so true! totally agree with you on this... in real life, most of the times its one of your relatives or people you trust who molest/harass women and khushi-shyam is one example portraying this ugly truth of the society!

how can khushi tolerate this is beyond my understanding... also she is protecting anjali by keeping her married to this lecherous psycho??? again i fail to understand! in this whole wide world she has noone in whom she can confide about shyams increasing obsessive behaviour??? doesnt she realise that by being silent shes passively encouraging him??? she is all fiesty and in a ready-to-attack mode with arnav now then why not with shyam??? is she waiting for things to get ugly for her to react!!!

also i honestly believe that keeping something like this from the family amounts to cheating... if nothing then payal can definitely confide about the shyam episode to akash... it becomes all the more important to have them know since they are now related to them and anjali and khushi are daily exposed to this maniacs crazy antics!!!

its truly a shame that a domestic problem is portrayed and is responsible for the biggest (And silliest) misunderstanding of the century but however the way to tackle such a situation is not upto the mark!!! after she told him off in the chemist shop i was impressed that she is stepping up to her own self respect but the way he manhandled her and she did nothing was a huge disappointment... as if arnav manhandling her is not enough that now shyam had to do it too!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33
this is the freaking problem of all indian drama's they dont want to show things taht can bring about change but things that can either promote male chauvinism or degrading woman in every way possible...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34

My whole issues these days, is how can they show RABBAVE with the same person who is MANHANDLING you..

I would not even let that person touch me... let alone have moment with him????? ARE CV's out of reality... which world are they living in????

And on top it in name of ROMANCE they are constantly showing... MANHANDLING..SHOVING, PUSHING.. VERBAL ABUSE, and then we ardent fans, call that "oh, he think that she is having affair with Shyam, well then just leave her alone" WHY abuse her? WHY be INHUMAN?

She is not your Damm PERSONAL PROPERTY??? CVS has made this a SATHIYA show...

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Posted: 13 years ago
#35
You are so right. This is making me really mad. She needs to tell Arnav the damn truth... SHe does not get his intentions.. UGHHH! I really hope they show the right thing for the audience..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do agree Shyam is acting pyscho. But I think this is the build up the CVs want. I do think Khushi should react more. I don't know if this is a bad example...I have seen worse treatment of women. Not that it makes it right.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: serialjunkie



Priya - if you ask me, what Arnav is doing to khushi is no saintly deed either. But she is reacting to him atleast. Perhaps, she is not comfortable reacting to shyam.

i think they so so so want to show total abuse of khushi but can't quite decide how. So they dumb her down when it suits them.

both men manhandiing a 18yr d girI in the name f Iove is disgusting,

what i dont understand is what are her reasons for toIerating this

with shaym anjaIi is aIso invoIved , hw do they assume he might nt harm anjaIi and he made his stand cIear , her own sister is in the house , who knows the entire story why not taIk to her

they are showing it Iike a househoId issue it is not

it is getting to a IeveI o f serious crime , and toIerating this to me is an equaI crime

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said !! You nailed it..This the same thing i thought..This forum bashes Arnav for not telling Khushi the reason for the marriage..Fair enough..But why do they forget that Khushi is being equally dumb by hiding the truth..Seriously i cant believe she things Shyam Jha going to sudharofy 😲.I remember she was going to tell Arnav everything but then she stopped herself thinking that Shyam will change.Shyam is always giving her wrong signals !! So is she still hopeful about Shyam ?Atleast she can tell this to Arnav after its about his sister's life.If she would have told this in the first place then all these misunderstandings would have not been created..I am not blaming her or bashing..I love ArHi..But somethings i simply cant understand.The problem is people just thing from their fav characters POV.But this time i tried to think form Khushi's pov but i cant relate to her or understand her..People bash Arnav but they forget that Khushi is equally at fault by tolerating such nonsense..Just giving long lectures and bhashan dont prove her to be a strong character..And feminists should keep that in mind..
Edited by barunroxx7 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: rani-lucki

this is just a work of fiction... something made up

if the audience has the sense to understand wot is happening in the drama serial, they will hav a sense of not to follow the wrong things
this show is not a lecture on life, its just for enjoyment
not making such posts which discourage the makers--they put a lots of hard work in to the show, if u don't like wots going on then don't watch
the CV's can't take responsibility for every good or bad thing happening to viewers
if parents think this drama is not suitible for their children then they should ban them from watching it
the CV's the the right to explore any topic they like, arnav and kkg can't always be doinng "rabba ve" and the rest of the raizada household playing violins in the background
sori if this seems like a rant but i'm sick of seeing such depressing topics :-)

And I am sick of seeing silly people like you trespassing on sensible topics like this...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏👏👏.. They really need to think about this responsibly, Shaym's character is intriguing to an extent but this new physical proximity they've developed since the terrace scene is becoming disturbing. Was he not the same character who prided on not touching Khushi even though they were under one roof ... he's becoming more perverted and serious day by day and it's the wrong message for the young and the impressionable. When a stalker, behaves and acts such a way the right way to respond is not to ignore it or hope it will go away but to report it. 😵 They should at least place a disclaimer or something most of the UK shows have a "If you have anyway been effected by any of the issues today then please contact this helpline... blah blah.."😆
Edited by Rabba-Ve-Delena - 13 years ago

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