CVs, STOP SENDING DANGEROUS MESSAGES TO KIDS! - Page 2

Cv's may have the LAME excuse of prolonging the current track...but I have felt right from the beginning that for a character like Khushi who shares almost everything with her sister...how the hell is she keeping mum about this one silent predatory advances of a pervert???????And as u mentioned who the hell is gonna protect her when he will force himself on her someday if she allows him to continue what the hell he is doing now.She is no match for his physical strength...will Anji or the Raizada's help her out then???????for whom she is sacrificing a lot????Will her own family be of any help when she is totally broken??????I don't know...The CV's need to stop this pretty soon...

I agree. Even if we take the premise that it is a work of fiction, the way CVs have shown Khushi react to this situation and to Shyam's advances is totally out of character. Khushi, in first 7-8 months of the show had been portrayed as someone who would do the right thing always, whatever the cost to either herself or to anyone else. Evidence: she took her father's shop papers to prevent dowry stuff. She knew it was the right thing even if it meant her sister's marriage did not happen.

And now, all she can muster is a weak "chhodiye humen" whenever Shyam grabs her? How is this in character of Khushi?

Liked your post... we are not bashing the show IPKKND, like everyone here i love this show much... but its pathetic to see shyam manhandling kushi and its almost that she doesnt react to it... how much for the sake of family will she continue and tolerate him...

Completely agree with your sentiments. Shyam is getting bolder by the day, getting to the point of touching her in public. But why are CV's then showing Khushi moments later all happy without a care in the world. Fair enough she didn't want to create a scene in public. But why do CV's never showing her have a reaction to his behaviour. Is she scared of him? Disgusted? Angry? Embarrassed?

To me that's the worse thing in this situation-The fact that Khushi is being shown as mahaan and full of virtue just for the sake of family. The guy is practically stalking her and preying on her. I'd be pretty damn creeped out if I had to live with that.

I think her telling someone would be to realistic and too much of a sensible idea for CV's to take on board. But heck why can't she have an inner monologue of some sort. She must know by now that if he's still hitting on her, then he's clearly not in a happy marriage.

CV's have played this post-marriage behaviour between them so so wrong.

you are absolute right the CV's are not thinking about the message they are giving to the female views especially young susceptible one. Shayams Actions and advance are classic for a sexual predators. he is shameless and does not care where and how he makes his moves. and khushi is being stupid to keep quite about this.

Tomorrow Shayam might very well say Khushi was chasing or trowing herself at him. she will get raped and everyone will think she asked for it. CV's think again, you have unknowing maybe brought into the forefront a very serious social issue. ( have you people really thought about it) sexual harassment by family members is not uncommon. and mostly the victim remain quit about it because of family honor. which is wrong and you are making khushi do just that. how can a character such as khushi who is strong be so stupid.

if you do not know how to handle this track tactfully please drop it. send shayam away. and make him forget about getting khushi and let him worry about his finances which are sure going to be reduced.

PLEASE STOP SENDING THE WRONG MESSAGE. WOMEN SHOULD NOT KEEP QUITE ABOUT SUCH SEXUAL HARRASMENT FROM FAMILY MEMBERS.

Good post. You are right the cv's are giving wrong ideas to girls/women.

i completely agree with you...media being a very powerful tool of influencing people and especially young minds should be used to convey subtly the right message without killing the entertainment point of view of the show...it makes me angry to see that khushi fights tooth and nail with arnav for everything but when it comes to shyam she becomes so weak in the sense that she is not willing to ask for help...shyam's obssesion with khushi is increasing with every passing day and khushi is all alone to bear it all...agreed she wants to save anjilli ( which i find so irritating now) but what is she saving arnav from? He is a grown up man for heaven's sake or ahe can talk to payal and they both can talk to akash who is her brother-in-law as well and will definitely listen to his wife...i don't know why she is hiding everything from her family,they already know abt shyam...they have to show that its not acceptable for anybody who is sexually harassed or physically abused in the name of family values,relationships or for any goddamn reason to stay quiet and suffer in silence.

For the show to carry on for 800 + episodes, there are many other heartfelt ways.

intelligent post.. sach mein yaar... what does khushi thnk she is doing??? Like maami said "Samaaj seva" to save her one and only nananth's life?? W*F??