CVs, STOP SENDING DANGEROUS MESSAGES TO KIDS! - Page 11

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: JShukla

Hi Gitika and Smriti...
Never thought I'd need to contest some parts of your views here...
there are 2 aspects to this situation:
Hero misbehaving and Villian misbehaving. Here again depending on the relation with heroine, the definition of misbehavior changes!
Hero meaning someone for whom the heroine's heart goes mmm...😆
Well, this man is allowed more liberty ... If my husband holds my hand in public! Do I MIND? Hell No! I'd mind if he does not... some touch feels good some does not. Again my opinion entirely.
lovelorn look from hero=dhak dhak
Coming to Khushi... Can I venture to say that she enjoys Arnav's proximity. But I am sure his shaking her up, brutally holding her arms must be condemned by her and has been condemned by many of us including you both and myself... Ah the no of sarcastic and blunt posts we made on the issue and wasted reems of cyber stationery on it!!
Villian meaning someone the heroine loathes...🤢
This man has no liberty. he can't touch, hold her hand and even look at her.
lovelorn look from villain=leching
So if he does all the above 3 actions and heroine objects and he continues then the heroine must raise her voice, rattle authorities that be.
Coming to Khushi, she has never liked and accepted Shyam's touch. She infact loathed it from the begining. But voiced her thoughts much later. But once she voiced her thoughts, Shyam needed to stop and since he did not she must raise her voice and do more than she is currently doing.
But did Shyam really manhandle her to the extent Arnav did? NO. Its not even 10% of what Arnav does. But Khushi loathes his touch, so even his 10% is unacceptable to her.😡
@TM: About Khushi confiding in her sister Payal! Sigh! Not happening coz Payal kind of sibling is of no good. Payal might be more worried about her own reputation. today I am waiting for Mamiji to unleash her fury on Payal. I wouldn't do what she did to her family at Phansi dress caampateson! Its unpardonable. I wonder if that is also a wrong signal sent out! Whatever happened to 'Shrikrishna's Gita Updesh' When at war give your best performance no matter who the opponent is!
I disagree with the whole Raizada family supporting Payal


liked your reasoning...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Oh I never thought of it that way, thanks for sharing those points. As kids we just sit down and subconsciousness absorb all that we're watching, and you know what i'm 16 years old and never once pondered over all the bakwaas the CV's are showing us. It's stuff like this that can impact others immensely, thank you for sharing your view



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Posted: 13 years ago
Not only is this girl shown saying nothing to anyone about sexual harassment, but also defending her husband's aggressive behavior towards her TO her harasser. Great post Navin!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
very well written post!! kudos! 👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
Thanks for bringing up an extremely important issue to the fans, cv's, and hopefully the channel. In the name of entertainment, perpetuating stereotypes and values that make certain groups of people vulnerable to exploitation (for example women and children) is unacceptable. Please don't confuse love and family values and letting yourself being victimized as one and the same. Love and family values provide strength to the family members, it does not make them weak and vulnerable.
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Posted: 13 years ago
exactly...i 2nd u...and i was screaming this in my little comments on every post last day day i read...khushi is seriously ruining herself and thts not truth...by keeping silence she is unintentionally encouraging tht creep shayam...and he very well knows tht she is scared to tell any one so his courage is being raised each single day...she asks for her rights and fight with arnav every time but is not willing to tell her husband abt tht creep? or OK leave her husband as she dun trust him...fine? then why not her jiji? and why not her bua ji and amma? whts the hell logic of hidding all this from them? tht seriously does'nt happen in real life and CVs shd get a life by not giving such idiotic msg to ppl...Arnav is her husband and he manhandles his wife...ok fine...she loves him and so she forgives him each time Fine...but wht abt tht creep she dun wana look even? at least be logical towards shayam and khushi story CVs ...thts seriously giving a stupid msg to all.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Black_Paradize

exactly...i 2nd u...and i was screaming this in my little comments on every post last day day i read...khushi is seriously ruining herself and thts not truth...by keeping silence she is unintentionally encouraging tht creep shayam...and he very well knows tht she is scared to tell any one so his courage is being raised each single day...she asks for her rights and fight with arnav every time but is not willing to tell her husband abt tht creep? or OK leave her husband as she dun trust him...fine? then why not her jiji? and why not her bua ji and amma? whts the hell logic of hidding all this from them? tht seriously does'nt happen in real life and CVs shd get a life by not giving such idiotic msg to ppl...Arnav is her husband and he manhandles his wife...ok fine...she loves him and so she forgives him each time Fine...but wht abt tht creep she dun wana look even? at least be logical towards shayam and khushi story CVs ...thts seriously giving a stupid msg to all.

How is it fine dear

Isn't that giving a wrong message t the viewers that abrasive reIationships are fine, and shouId be handIed within the waIIs of the bedroom

Same justification against shyam hoIds true for arnav

Ike shyam , arnav manhandIes her because he think he is in Iove

She desnt need to toIerate either of these men , and neither f these men have aright t behave this way with her

Wrng message equaIIy big issue
Edited by tttttt1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
doad its a serial anybody with common sense wouldnt follow wt ever shyam is doing or stay quiet like khushi
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Posted: 13 years ago
yea i just wish khushi would tell arnav the shyam truth because its not like arnav will belive shyam ... n if i was khushi id tell anjali because id b makin anjali stay with some perverted freak n if shyam dared 2 come near me i wont say let go of my hand but id go far n kick him on his dic* ... seriously the cv's need 2 wake up n make khushi at least tell some1 the truth
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: barunlove21

doad its a serial anybody with common sense wouldnt follow wt ever shyam is doing or stay quiet like khushi

exactly my point, this show is just for entertainment, not for learning about how to behave in REAL life--
we hav our parents n teachers for that
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