Put Lipstick on,Dress it up,a Pig is still a Pig:MODP27 - Page 15

Originally posted by: CDlove

Oh man I love this post. You couldn't have put it better. The CVs are putting up constipated expressions on ASR face so that they can later redeem him in the eyes of Kushi. And our phan girls lap it up as if their life depends on it. 'ASR is nice! Seee I toldcha! he's SUFFERING'

uuurggh it's just even more fustrating to see our forum trying to defend his actions. I actually can gulp down ASR's ways. He's messed up and we all know it. But seriously defending him like this? And coming up with lame excuses for that too 😕

I understand the devotion towards the character of ASR - he is charismatic, charming with looks that can kill. But there in lies the danger, we are willing to forgive a characters abuse because he is an eye candy.

What upsets me the most is ASR is supposedly "upscale", "up-market" guy. And this behavior is straight out of the slums of Delhi. Really ASR? you call yourself an educated and successful young man and is this what education taught you? You can be mad at khushi with your indifference or hate but abuse?

Originally posted by: YPNHK_kiFANno.1

Couldn't help but add, read somewhere that it was "so sweet" of ASR to give her the blanket (chuck it at her!) and that this act of his shows he still loves and cares for her'Ummm'no'.it wasn't sweet of him. So drag her outdoors, chuck her a blanket and s'alright??? 😆

What would have been 'sweet' is if he'd actually let his WIFE sleep in the room, INSIDE the room, not out in the cold'.OUTSIDE, windy, wet, cold, outside???'..

thats why the article stressed that he would really hurt her...and ppl jumped into conclusions that he would rape her😆would it get worse than wht happened today?i mean some were happy that asr slept on the couch not on the bed..

Originally posted by: shann20

thats why the article stressed that he would really hurt her...and ppl jumped into conclusions that he would rape her😆would it get worse than wht happened today?i mean some were happy that asr slept on the couch not on the bed..

Originally posted by: YPNHK_kiFANno.1

I know! I read that as well, the whole 'oh no but see, he didn't sleep in the bed either, so they're equal now''..🤔

😆 yes, he slept in the warmth of his room she on the hard concrete floor by the poolside, he is under his own roof, she was forced to quit her home, her family and simply disappear among draperies of RM! This sounds like an age old racist rant we heard in the US in the 60s "Separate, but Equal". Separate is not equal.

Anne and Smriti,

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Anne and Smriti,

These women I am talking about need help , firstly financial help.

I can proudly say that I come Bangladesh which is the country wher Dr. Yunus invented the microcredit system for poor women ( Awarded Nobel Prize) and made many many women independent . These women are mostly and formally not educated and earlier had no financial means .

Without the financial stability assurance no woman can raise their voice and especially if they are mothers of daughters.

Much depend on how we bring up our daughters .Do we try to ingrain in them the idea that tshe has to get married and getting a good groom is the primary objective of her life , or we try our best to give her the same education as our son and make her first financially independent and then talk about marriage .

For us , who can afford the same quality of education to all our children we can do that, but for peole who can only afford to educate one - ( in India/South Asia) the choice will of course be the son .

I dont think this production house will show Khushi as educated and intelligent as Saachi ( female lead charater BHPH) who discussed with her perdsonal lawyer and changed the marriage contract paper .

At least they should give Khushi the guts to stand back and protest the way she is being treated. If not by educated means , at least by kitchen politics .

yes, they wont change a thing in the story line, and I know this post is just my rant because I saw what I didn't like and decide to call it out. But I will still call their bluff. They are preying on fan loyalties and pushing the buttons where they dont need to push them.

I also feel in addition to educating our young women, we need to educate our young men even more to make them understand that is NEVER ok to abuse a woman. Boys learn by observing their dads and women of the house have a responsibility to teach boys about respecting their women friends, siblings, colleagues or in society.

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

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well said, especially the memo to young girls. It looks all glamorous and passionate on screen, but in real life this can quickly turn into hell. I am a consummate ASR drooler, but I like my brooding sexy men to struggle with their inner feelings without being cruel.

Had ASR told her to sleep on bed, had he told her not to expect anything from him because she doesn't deserve it, had he simply taken his stuff out of the room and slept elsewhere, I'd have rejoiced over his classiness. But this is regressive behavior.

yeah, its drama, but drama is supposed to entertain us. and today was no entertainment, it was depravity at its best.

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

I understand the devotion towards the character of ASR - he is charismatic, charming with looks that can kill. But there in lies the danger, we are willing to forgive a characters abuse because he is an eye candy.

What upsets me the most is ASR is supposedly "upscale", "up-market" guy. And this behavior is straight out of the slums of Delhi. Really ASR? you call yourself an educated and successful young man and is this what education taught you? You can be mad at khushi with your indifference or hate but abuse?