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Posted: 13 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Sush - I thought it was an indecent proposal with a twist. What was this worth? Her sister's marriage, 6 months later no honor, no future since she is now considered damaged goods (even if she doesn't consummate) and maybe the parents who adopted her wouldn't want her back. Priceless


Let's put it in perspective - Which one is more damaging, Garima's slap or the 6 month sham? Yes, this marriage is a sham; it is really a live-in disguised as a marriage. A decent idea for the Indian audience would be to have a regular marriage, but she is free to walk away if she chooses to after 6months.Are we shunning the institute of marriage in the name of entertainment? Yes, one may argue it's been done before. Does that make it right? 😕


I hope better sense prevails in the CV's, nani or Anjali insist that they do the pheras. ASR cannot & should not hide behind a contract, take responsibility for your actions! That's what a gentleman would do! ASR should not object to another phera coz his purpose is served; to announce to Shyam that she is mine! It will give some closure to the victim KKG! She can try to put some of the humiliation behind her with the blessings of her loved ones, help her regroup and get her spunk back!


The whole family scene, their shocked expression, the slap and the disapproval was for a reason. It is for ASR to realize; marriage is not about going to a board room & signing a contract. It is really about feelings not just of the couple but their loved ones too. It is for parents to safeguard the interests of their children in full view of the society.


ASR was shocked at the response; maybe he was expecting a standing ovation😕 Is that why he didn't have a good answer or does he think he is above all? I wish ASR had seen Shashi's reaction. How helpless he may have been feeling? Just like how Anjali means a lot to ASR, there are people who love Khushi too.


Yes, I saw ASR seething when she was slapped. But my dear ASR, I expected more from a class act like you. Be a man & say, it's was my decision! Why didn't CV's have nani slapping ASR instead? ASR's expression would have been to die for...🤣


Khushi was awesome in the FB👏👏👏 Yes, the girl still had a fight left in her. She said no, not once but several times. But she finally gave in & said "I will do anything you ask me to". That scene was so touching; she was so broken at the point & covered her face in shame. He was touched by that but didn't pause to think. He can relate to it but today he didn't want to.


A girl who would do anything for the family that adopted her, someone who believes in the institution of marriage so deeply, how could she think of getting involved with a married man? Khushi is no stranger to ASR & that is why his total disregard/disrespect for her and her family surprises me.


The signs of ASR mellowing are there; they want ASR to mellow down gradually and the only way they know how is by torturing Khushi. Depends on how much torture is enough torture for the CV's



I fully agree with you. They have to complete the rituals of the marriage in front of both the families. CVs should show this on Monday or Tuesday. What ever may be the reason of the marriage and what ever may be the conditions of the contract - completing the rituals and getting the blessings of the elders will definitely console Khushi and ASR can take a revenge to Shyam if they do this in front of his eyes and he can again prove that KHUSHI is His.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#92
You are destroying my sisters life...I will destroy your sisters...unless you cooperate in my plan which is not much ...but it is the best I could come up with right now...and hell it suits the IPKKND story...so lets just go with it...

I do not
blame the characters (at least try not to most of the times when I realize they are fictional) but I 100% stand with you in your statement above; it appears the CV's are so confused at the moment with the tall claims made by them about a never before seen twist/story and their ultimate goal of "Win the TRP War" that they seem to have messed up big time here. They themselves seem as clueless as the viewers here.

P.S -- I too had hoped for some post marriage rituals of Arhi to be shown, but looks like after a couple of episodes of Anjali crying & ASR deserting Khushi while running off to his room😲-- what hopes do we have that anything positive would be shown

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Posted: 13 years ago
#93
great post Shush..

I loved today episode..
I am just oping for ASR to take over on Monday and put a full stop to family's Qs..

somehow, i am not liking Anjali anymore..sorry to fans..but its my opinion..a elder sister who suppose to be pillar for younger brother..has become the biggest weakness..thats shame..
rather than pointing out arhi..i will point on her..she blindly married shyam without his background and also asr/nani/mama/mami did not check his background..now he is after khushi..🤢 so that girl has to pay for it!!

In coming episodes, i want CVs to show Anjali-Shyam marriage ..how that happen..

Also, the fact u raised 8 months i agree with u.. Anne made a post about 6 months clarification..but its not exactly we think it will be 6 months..its also not like the day she delivered ..arnie will kick both of them out..

i don't want to go much details..avg delivery are 38-40 weeks..calculation is definitely more than 6 months..if she was closely and desperately expecting to get pregnant than i am sure she must have detected before 12 weeks..never mind this is endless..she may be right..40 weeks r 10 months if calculate by 28 day a month (thats actually not)..but def more than 6 months..but looks like cvs have calculated as she said
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Posted: 13 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Hola, Sush and Spice gals ...

Sush, you echoed my thoughts ... after all our heated discussions yesterday ... Thank God it's not a fake marriage!! So I could watch Arnie boy and not feel like throwing him in front of a moving train 😆

So Plus points -
Real marriage, for six months okay - but we know it will never break ... 😳
Arnav cannot stand anyone else hurting Khushi, not even her own family ... he alone has the right ... Now is that a plus or minus ... am not sure 😛

Minus points
Cliched track ... thankfully they stopped short of repeated clang clangs and zoom shots to everyone's faces in color, b/w ...

Garima's slap ... a NO NO ... forget that it was put in to appease phangurls that ooohhh, how much Arnav loves Khushi ... he can't stand anyone else hurting her ...

Arnav's silence in front of his family's questioning ... wasn't that part of his planning? Why didn't he have an answer ready for his family, if the objective is to show Snakewa BIL that Khushi is out of his reach ... Seemed like any run of the mill show where the villain holds all the aces till the end, the hero is as dumb as wallpaper ... and the heroine is the exploited suffering one ...

Thankfully the drama was only in front of the immediate family, saved it from becoming too Ekta-ish where normally a few million guests are also milling around ...


Am glad they showed a semblance of the real Khushi, saying NO first to Arnav's proposal, starting to question him, then getting completely vulnerable because it involved her Achilles heel, Payal's marriage - she had no choice but to give in. I also felt that her reaction should have been more about the six months, and why tonight ... but I think that part was dubbed in later ... good thing too, otherwise her main reaction should have been worry about the secrecy and urgency, rather than about shaadi per se ...
But loved Sanaya's acting all through ... Khushi's disbelief, her confusion, her hopes crashing for the second time ... "humein laga ki" ... here she was expecting a love- filled proposal, and she gets a sordid six month contract marriage offer ... the way she accepted at the end ... I'll do anything ... showed she knew exactly what she was agreeing to ... a six month live in affair, cloaked with the respectability of sindoor and mangal sutra ... Sanaya was FABULOUS in that last bit as she breaks down and says yes ...

Arnav's reactions puzzled me too ... does he hate her or doesn't he? His softening seemed a bit strange ... but I did like the fact that he was softening off and on ... the only problem was that he didn't look like he was completely in charge of the situation ... he seemed to be flummoxed with his family's reactions ... like, really??? Didn't he think this through at all??? His character needs some quick resurrection ...


Somehow , I feel he has not thought through the marriage... he thought that the family would go through with it like they did La's engagement... they did say his decisions affected them all that time .. but did not react too much... this seems to be them reacting ! He seems to be all caught up with the reaction angle and not thinking through the rest of it... marriage is between two individuals and in India two families too... he so forgot that ... he has a rough ride ahead in this aspect... the family will hopefully coerce him into more rituals and a reception or so ... he does not know what it is to share a room with KKG/KASR and still fight his attraction... and I hope Khushi gets over this and becomes her usual self... fighting to get the truth and needling him to no end !

I'm looking forward to a strong ArHi interaction on Monday, where Khushi recovers enough to ask Arnav questions ... WHY??? Why this way? And lets out that you just had to ask me once, and I would have agreed instantly ... why did you have to use threats and blackmail ... and that six month rider ...

But if we see more of those Amitabh Bachchan-Nirupa Roy type crying scenes between Arnav-Anjali ... Meri Di Meri Ma hai ... I am gonna puke!!! If Arnav has to cry, let him cry over Khushi ... and take his sainted Di to the nearest psychiatrist!!

Now off to read the remaining replies!

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Posted: 13 years ago
#95

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Hola, Sush and Spice gals ...

Sush, you echoed my thoughts ... after all our heated discussions yesterday ... Thank God it's not a fake marriage!! So I could watch Arnie boy and not feel like throwing him in front of a moving train 😆

So Plus points -
Real marriage, for six months okay - but we know it will never break ... 😳
Arnav cannot stand anyone else hurting Khushi, not even her own family ... he alone has the right ... Now is that a plus or minus ... am not sure 😛

Minus points
Cliched track ... thankfully they stopped short of repeated clang clangs and zoom shots to everyone's faces in color, b/w ...

Garima's slap ... a NO NO ... forget that it was put in to appease phangurls that ooohhh, how much Arnav loves Khushi ... he can't stand anyone else hurting her ...

Arnav's silence in front of his family's questioning ... wasn't that part of his planning? Why didn't he have an answer ready for his family, if the objective is to show Snakewa BIL that Khushi is out of his reach ... Seemed like any run of the mill show where the villain holds all the aces till the end, the hero is as dumb as wallpaper ... and the heroine is the exploited suffering one ...

Thankfully the drama was only in front of the immediate family, saved it from becoming too Ekta-ish where normally a few million guests are also milling around ...


Am glad they showed a semblance of the real Khushi, saying NO first to Arnav's proposal, starting to question him, then getting completely vulnerable because it involved her Achilles heel, Payal's marriage - she had no choice but to give in. I also felt that her reaction should have been more about the six months, and why tonight ... but I think that part was dubbed in later ... good thing too, otherwise her main reaction should have been worry about the secrecy and urgency, rather than about shaadi per se ...
But loved Sanaya's acting all through ... Khushi's disbelief, her confusion, her hopes crashing for the second time ... "humein laga ki" ... here she was expecting a love- filled proposal, and she gets a sordid six month contract marriage offer ... the way she accepted at the end ... I'll do anything ... showed she knew exactly what she was agreeing to ... a six month live in affair, cloaked with the respectability of sindoor and mangal sutra ... Sanaya was FABULOUS in that last bit as she breaks down and says yes ...

Arnav's reactions puzzled me too ... does he hate her or doesn't he? His softening seemed a bit strange ... but I did like the fact that he was softening off and on ... the only problem was that he didn't look like he was completely in charge of the situation ... he seemed to be flummoxed with his family's reactions ... like, really??? Didn't he think this through at all??? His character needs some quick resurrection ...

I'm looking forward to a strong ArHi interaction on Monday, where Khushi recovers enough to ask Arnav questions ... WHY??? Why this way? And lets out that you just had to ask me once, and I would have agreed instantly ... why did you have to use threats and blackmail ... and that six month rider ...

But if we see more of those Amitabh Bachchan-Nirupa Roy type crying scenes between Arnav-Anjali ... Meri Di Meri Ma hai ... I am gonna puke!!! If Arnav has to cry, let him cry over Khushi ... and take his sainted Di to the nearest psychiatrist!!

Now off to read the remaining replies!

Hi Diya...Arnie boy's reaction actually pleased me...I dont think it should be pure hate...does not do justice to the chacrater...it has to be a conflicted one...I wanted to see more conflict even when he was making a conditional marriage proposal...or when he hurt her wrist...
Yes...Khishi should get her turn to get him ina corner and hold him accountable ...waiting!!!😃😃😃😃😃
Regarding more rona dhona with Anj...I say bring it on...let Anj force him to go through a proper wedding for hr sake...I am really hoping😍
Arhi wedding behind the doors mein maza nahi aaya ...Arhi wedding deserves 5 epiosdes of its own...Lets hope "picture abhi baki hei"
Edited by MsUniverse - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hmmm... so just marrying khushi wouldnt have achieved any purpose... the reason i thought arnav was marrying khushi was because he was afraid that shyam would leave anjali for khushi, as khushi had asked him to, and this would dirve anjali to the same reaction as her mother, he wanted to protect anjali and her unborn child, marrying khushi would ensure that shyam would not leave anjali

this is what i got from his breaking down by himself and remembering the past specially regarding his mother... it doesnt seem to be what others here are thinking...🤓

arnav was initially going to tell anjali about shyam and get rid of him but i think her fainting and then her reaction to the pregnancy made him think about how dependent she is on this relationship and he decided to make sure shyam would not be tempted... this is the only explanation i can think of why he heard that particular bit from khushi and then marrying her... he has control over her as his wife, not something i m advocating but still something that can/will happen

the six month contract blows this out of the water since shyam can also leave anjali after six months, so i m not sure what to think anymore

right now i m very interested to see arnav and khushi interact after the marriage, the reaction of the families was so extreme it would be interesting to see how it continues... as always gr8 tactics to keep us hooked
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Posted: 13 years ago
#97
Sush and All,

Enjoyed my Saturday morning reading everyone's replies. I did enjoy yesterday's episode and am preparing for a few more episodes focusing on family's reactions. Till then I don't have to kill myself to watch the episodes through live updates etc. Will take my time to catch up in the evenings . Will use reading IF posts as a reprieve till then.

Diya - I don't think we are going to get the strong Arhi interaction on Monday , no not just yet. Remember how long it took them to close out the break-up of LA and Arnav? It went on forever before they started the Payash track. I'm honestly sick of Anjali's histrionics, that needs to stop right now. This woman does have a clue about what's going on around her because she's so absorbed in her own imaginary perfect world.

The selling point for IPK as claimed was this is a love story of two very different individuals and less about their families unlike other SP shows where the entire show revolves round families and kitchen politics etc. IMO, the CVs are struggling to keep up to their promise, it is becoming another family show. These days I watch IPK solely to savor BS and SI's stellar performances and augment with my imaginations of their love story. I'm hoping the CVs very soon bring the story back to these two.

What worked for me :
- Glimpses of Arnav behind the facade of ASR (during proposal, Garima's slap, holding her hand throughout the family confrontation)
- Arhi's poolside conversation (so Arhi like) , loved the FB effect
- Khushi fighting back in her KKG style , not bowing down to his ridiculous proposal
- Finally Khushi's expressions when she accepts his demands, she looked so defeated
- Buaji's expressions
- Akash's reaction
- Babuji's expressions

What didn't work for :
- Garima's reaction - totally uncalled for , how can you humiliate your daughter in front of her in-laws ? At least give her a chance !!
- Anjali's histrionics
- Snakewas's twitching of his face muscles
- Nani's reaction
- The Precap (no not again)

What I'm most worried about:
I'm not worried about Arnav softening for Khushi, we know that's going to happen sooner or later. I want the Raizada family to accept Khushi as their DIL and I need that to happen on Monday!! I will not accept any cruelty towards Khushi or even giving her the silent treatment. I need Arnav to either own up that this was his doing or tell them how much Khushi and he are in love and they got married because they cannot live w/o each other. I want Nani and Anjali to welcome Khushi into their family ASAP. CVs - Beware , do not make Khushi a SP bahu!!

I have given up on the Guptas and have no expectation whatsoever from Garima or Buaji. Someone on IF has written that Garima is going to disown Khushi, I completely believe that's what's going to happen. I don't care about them and so glad that Khushi is where she belongs, with the love of her life.

Let's see what they have in store for us , the 'twist' ?? Wonder what that is...

- Sahana


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Posted: 13 years ago
#98
loved reading rest of the replies...too may questions, speculations,expectations...lets see how the drama unfolds from next week...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Diya, Arnav wants to hate Khushi but is unable to stop loving her. This time around it is not easy to shut off those emotions
As for Arnav's reaction, I don't think he was expecting to face such a confrontation when they returned home. I think Arnav figured he would say look we're married and that's that, he didn't expect that his family wouldn't just accept that and leave him alone.
I agree with those who believe that Khushi's family will disown her, I can totally see that happening. I remember reading that she would lose everything and that is exactly what we are seeing, poor Khushi as if she wasn't suffering enough
I found the precap interesting, Arnav pushing away Anjali and shutting the door on her. Does this mean the CVs will show both Arnav and Khushi distant from their loved ones and really in this fight on their own??
As much as I would like to see an Arnav and Khushi confrontation of some sort on Monday's episode it looks like we are just going to be shown Arnav and Khushi suffering the fallout from their decision to marry.

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