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Posted: 13 years ago
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Me 3! I think there are way way more of us than just us 3 but no matter how many..no we shall not let them rot our minds! I do feel bad about all the ...esp young girls minds being rotted back in india though btw my name is khushee...really!! one of the reasons i started watching this serial!
Hello Khushee...what a lovely name! Nice to hear from you on here! Yes you are right..it is a shame that there are imprintable minds back home being affected by the worldly wisdom portrayed in this serial. We can but live in hope.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nrp77

This couple is still in the development stages of their love story... The trust doesn't just miraculously appear. And even if Arnav had trusted Khushi prior to the terrace scene, his eyes and ears told him something quite different. Anyone would have been thrown for a loop. I'm not saying this whole forced marriage thing was a good idea or anything, but when you talk about trust and believability then you need to put yourself in the poor guys shoes. He just witnessed the woman he loves in his brother-in-law's arms. His sister has been his lifeline for the last 10/15 odd years and then he hears Khushi tell the Creep to leave his wife. He obviously reacted first and will think later, like any person in that situation would. It's definitely got to be a huge shock to overcome... 😲

This poor guy's sister gets into an accident, his brother-in-law has lied about his love for Anjali and has been creepin' around on her, the love of his life is 'supposedly' creepin' around w/ his married brother-in-law, and now his sister is preggers... That's waaay too much for any 1 person to digest. I would have been a mess with any 1 of those situations, but this poor guy has to deal with all of them at the same time. So I don't see why the credibility of the show would be questioned. πŸ˜•
I don't watch this show to remind me of India since I've only been there a few times in my life, but I do watch for a variety of other reasons. I tune in b/c I adore the characters, I enjoy the acting, and most importantly I'm captivated by the overall story. I don't think it's lost it's appeal at all. I will happily keep tuning-in until it causes disillusionment in my own life... 😊

Ok , there are no rules that say we cant agree to disagree...However, regardless of the reasons to why we started watching the show, the reason we continued to do so , was because we found something we liked on it. My argument still remains, if you did fall in love with someone, enough to be confident enough to say it out loud, you dont just "love" them, you love them because of their traits, the way they make you feel, etc etc, so if someone came up to me and said to me point blank that my partner was cheating on me - my instinct would still be to defend him and insist that the other person got it wrong!!! and then verify the situation as soon as possible!
OK lets take another example.. someone accused my child/friend/family of something.. I would still defend them! you defend your own, because You love/care for them! and If you fall in the trap of distrust so easily then maybe it wasnt worthy of expressing it out loud with such confidence in the first place?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: JuS**LameAHolic

Trust is not given, it is earned! which is what they are doing, he loves her, but feels betrayed coz of the misunderstanding that she loves shyam back!

In which case it's not true love from Arnav's side. If Kushi had not earned Arnav's love, he cannot possibly fall in love with her. It's not a two way process. You must first trust the person to love that person. it's not the other way around. You can't fall in love and then build trust on her.
Trust is an element of the foundation for love. So what Arnav felt (mark the past tense) for Kushi is infatuation and not love?
What is the definition of love? Can anyone ever tell?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: danceroundtree

Ok , there are no rules that say we cant agree to disagree...However, regardless of the reasons to why we started watching the show, the reason we continued to do so , was because we found something we liked on it. My argument still remains, if you did fall in love with someone, enough to be confident enough to say it out loud, you dont just "love" them, you love them because of their traits, the way they make you feel, etc etc, so if someone came up to me and said to me point blank that my partner was cheating on me - my instinct would still be to defend him and insist that the other person got it wrong!!! and then verify the situation as soon as possible!

OK lets take another example.. someone accused my child/friend/family of something.. I would still defend them! you defend your own, because You love/care for them! and If you fall in the trap of distrust so easily then maybe it wasnt worthy of expressing it out loud with such confidence in the first place?

I definitely agree that we can disagree! 😊 However, I agree with the fact that we defend those we love and would get to the bottom of what is happening before making official life-altering decisions.
In Arnav's case I think it's a bit different. It's one thing to hear about cheating secondhand, but Arnav witnessed a crazy scene in front of his own eyes. He reacted first and his views were confirmed by the Creep. I honestly wish he would have confronted Khushi as well so he would have her side, but then that's not what the writers want us to see right now. Arnav did take this entire thing a bit too far for my liking, but there isn't anything that I can do to change that since the deed is done. The poor guy has had about an hour or two max , to have this information sink in and in that time he has seen and heard things he couldn't have possibly even imagined in his worst nightmare. Unlike most of us, this character had a very small window of opportunity before Payal and Akash took their pheras so he had to act. Albeit, it's not the brightest decision he's ever made...we're stuck with it. πŸ˜•
I guess this was the only way the writers could justify Khushi being under the same roof and having the Shyam/Anjali/Khushi/Arnav story unfold. Trust is definitely a necessity and hopefully they use this opportunity for redemption and to build trust between Arnav and Khushi. If they work together to bring this creep down then they will be strengthening their bond and building something sustainable! 😊 I'm keeping my fingers crossed that we're heading in that direction... 😊
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